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"Date on here. Most “normal” people won’t like or understand this lifestyle. " yeah not much in my area, you single? | |||
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"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum!" I agree a dating section would be great | |||
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"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum!" Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues | |||
"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks….. "So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in? How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from. | |||
"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum!" Dropped ya a wink! | |||
"Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues " Agreed - the line is “I want a completely normal relationship, it’s just that I want you and me to be able to fuck a whole bunch of other people, together, alone, and sometimes in front of a crowd. What…. Wait…. Come back….!” | |||
"So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in? How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from. " No, I have attended clubs - as a single guy - and didn’t have a great time. Part of that is no doubt a personality thing. Clubs are something I’d definitely do again, I just wouldn’t go alone. By events, I mean smaller gatherings. There have been a couple of local socials recently but I wasn’t free to go, which was a shame | |||
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"Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues Agreed - the line is “I want a completely normal relationship, it’s just that I want you and me to be able to fuck a whole bunch of other people, together, alone, and sometimes in front of a crowd. What…. Wait…. Come back….!”" I said almost exactly this to someone last night who asked what I was looking for! | |||
"Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues Agreed - the line is “I want a completely normal relationship, it’s just that I want you and me to be able to fuck a whole bunch of other people, together, alone, and sometimes in front of a crowd. What…. Wait…. Come back….!” I said almost exactly this to someone last night who asked what I was looking for! "Did they come back? | |||
"Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues Agreed - the line is “I want a completely normal relationship, it’s just that I want you and me to be able to fuck a whole bunch of other people, together, alone, and sometimes in front of a crowd. What…. Wait…. Come back….!” I said almost exactly this to someone last night who asked what I was looking for!
Did they come back? "Hahaha it's someone from here, who already has a partner. We're friends, and they wanted to know what I was looking for, aside from my preference for playing with couples. | |||
" A separate section on dating would generate more site supporters and help all the singles that want a fab relationship. " It would also attract predatory males pretending to want to date just hoping to get their leg over. | |||
Some hate the fact I've enjoyed myself whilst I've been on here
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"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks…..
So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in?
How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from. "We go to clubs all the time. Get all shapes and sizes that attend clubs. Just don't be part of the wanking dead and go up and chat to people and you will be fine.  | |||
"I like the idea of a dating section on here. I have spoken to people outside of Fab that it interests me. Most I've found are pretty receptive. The issues start when men state they'd love a fmf, can I arrange such a thing? "This is my experience too. | |||
"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks….. "I am not a 6'3" bodybuilder with a 10'' monster either, but due to my experiences, clubs are a way "easier" field for a single guy than this page. I tried to use this page to arrange meets early-post-covid when bars already reopened but swinger clubs had not yet, and after a miserable pandemic, I felt like a virgin again... If I wasn't had my previous memories from clubs and regular dating sites, telling me that I can get along with girls relatively well, this page could have destroyed all of my self-esteem... We, men, outnumber girls here at least 100:1, clubs are a way less unlevel playing field! I would definitely suggest you try them. If you have the chance, go for the parties that allow a limited number of guys only, be natural, friendly, and chatty, just like you would do in a normal bar, and you will be okay. | |||
"So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in? How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from. No, I have attended clubs - as a single guy - and didn’t have a great time. Part of that is no doubt a personality thing. Clubs are something I’d definitely do again, I just wouldn’t go alone. By events, I mean smaller gatherings. There have been a couple of local socials recently but I wasn’t free to go, which was a shame" Keep an eye out for future socials then, and see if you can get on the invite list. The thing with clubs is they offer scope to make a good impression. Yes, that might not lead to actually playing. But if you just view it as any other club then you're on to a winner. Going to enjoy the atmosphere is no different to any other event. If you don't want to attend alone see if you can connect with others attending a night you might be going. Fab can be good to connect specifically for meeting at clubs. It's a good environment, where folk don't feel pressured to do more than social if it's not working for them | |||
"Hey all hope your all well, been single now for a couple of years, had a lots of fun and met some amazing people, anyway I’m After some advice as go on dates, chat get to know a lady and then when things gets sexual and I open up they run a mile think I’m odd, pervy etc, so what do I do?" If you're going to date via vanilla means, get this conversation out in the open before you have sex. If you're dating in the lifestyle, no problem! | |||
"Hey all hope your all well, been single now for a couple of years, had a lots of fun and met some amazing people, anyway I’m After some advice as go on dates, chat get to know a lady and then when things gets sexual and I open up they run a mile think I’m odd, pervy etc, so what do I do?" Do you mean you open up about your swinger life when things actually get sexual, or when the chat goes around sex? Big difference. Girls you meet from vanilla apps, definitely have the right to know in time, if having sex with potentially dozens of women on a monthly basis is part of your lifestyle. | |||
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"Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues Agreed - the line is “I want a completely normal relationship, it’s just that I want you and me to be able to fuck a whole bunch of other people, together, alone, and sometimes in front of a crowd. What…. Wait…. Come back….!”" I think this is my favourite post on here ever. | |||
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"I've enjoyed some great dates on fab , I like a dance and a night out. One has progressed to something more. It is tricky meeting ladies, clubs are ok but it's not ideal for social chat , socials are better. It takes a lot of time and effort and luck to find a compatible partner in this dimension. I've got a vanilla date tomorrow and I'm slightly dreading it. Don't want to talk about swinging (it's a small community), hoping to go for a friend's with benefits approach and see if that's of interest .. " What's wrong with just dating and see how it goes | |||
"I've enjoyed some great dates on fab , I like a dance and a night out. One has progressed to something more. It is tricky meeting ladies, clubs are ok but it's not ideal for social chat , socials are better. It takes a lot of time and effort and luck to find a compatible partner in this dimension. I've got a vanilla date tomorrow and I'm slightly dreading it. Don't want to talk about swinging (it's a small community), hoping to go for a friend's with benefits approach and see if that's of interest .. What's wrong with just dating and see how it goes " I'm sure there is somebody out there that I might do that with and it blossomed into something more , but I don't really want a vanilla relationship..I've had a few ladies I've dated ...and I'm always honest in saying I don't want anything serious (but don't mention fab etc) and we do stuff , go out for dinner etc , lots of sex, and in the end they rightly wonder where it's going ... and it peters out. and I feel a bit of a shit...tho I'm still friends with them , say hello when I see them etc .. The french have a much more pragmatic approach I think to this , Fwb that you wine and dine seems more accepted there .. | |||
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"Where are you finding them? If the internet, I don’t find it hard telling people that I’m polyamorous and swing a bit fairly early on in the conversation, or that I’m not looking for hookups. " Pubs, Sainsbury's, out walking the dog , friends of friends .. One nice lady on fab and one off tinder. | |||
" A separate section on dating would generate more site supporters and help all the singles that want a fab relationship. It would also attract predatory males pretending to want to date just hoping to get their leg over." You get them on every single dating site out there though? Also the rest of the site caters for NSA meets for those "just wanting their leg over". I guess people are adults and if they were here to date and met via that hypothetical section then jumping straight into bed is unlikely. KJ | |||
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"I have had a relationship from fab that lasted 5 years. Also introduced my last husband to swinging. Vanilla lifestyle is not for me but dating guys outside of swinging is over for me since I told the last guy I went on a date with and he threatened to tell all family and colleagues if I didn’t fuck him. I called his bluff and he didn’t but I’ve decided to scrap relationships all together and stick with fab fun. I’m happy to live my life single and enjoy sex on my terms. " Sorry but what a scum bag if he said that to you over messages I'd have told him no problem I'll just show your messages to the police and see what they think. I cant believe scum like that exist. KJ | |||
"I have had a relationship from fab that lasted 5 years. Also introduced my last husband to swinging. Vanilla lifestyle is not for me but dating guys outside of swinging is over for me since I told the last guy I went on a date with and he threatened to tell all family and colleagues if I didn’t fuck him. I called his bluff and he didn’t but I’ve decided to scrap relationships all together and stick with fab fun. I’m happy to live my life single and enjoy sex on my terms. Sorry but what a scum bag if he said that to you over messages I'd have told him no problem I'll just show your messages to the police and see what they think. I cant believe scum like that exist. KJ" Thank you. I did keep the messages and threaten to go to the police when he kept harassing me. He gave up after a week when it became clear I wasn’t going to be intimidated by him. I’ve decided to make the most of being a single lady now and never get into a relationship I’m happy with my fab friends. That way everyone knows where they stand. Xx | |||
"Date on here. Most “normal” people won’t like or understand this lifestyle. " I know what you mean, had relationships end when tried to discuss sexual preferences and possible fetishes etc with a partner | |||
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"Hey all hope your all well, been single now for a couple of years, had a lots of fun and met some amazing people, anyway I’m After some advice as go on dates, chat get to know a lady and then when things gets sexual and I open up they run a mile think I’m odd, pervy etc, so what do I do?" Think it'd be a good 'Looking for' and 'Search' feature, unsure whether it'd some looking for nsa off though, so potentially a double edged sword.. We thank we were lucky though, met via Bumble, Mrs wasn't exactly backwards in coming forward around sex and we have frank/blunt conversations since. Mr   | |||
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"There’s a new group on FB called Fab u lush that has started for like minded people to message by the way. " Cheers mate | |||
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"Just keep being honest. The right one won’t mind or the right one will change your mind and stop " | |||
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"Anybody else on dating sites and struggling I never know it so bad" Gave up on dating sites long time ago. I’m undateable anyway, at least on here is more eventful. | |||
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"A friend of mine found her perfect date/match through fab. Although she looked away from fab too she had different rules to normal dating. Any dates from fab had a 5 dates before any chance of clothes off. Stopped so many of the leg over merchant's and snake oil charmers. Now happily coupled up
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"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum!" A dating section would be brilliant! I'm not sure I could go back to a vanilla way of life now but I do know that I want a relationship and would love to explore this life with a partner. | |||
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"Anybody else on dating sites and struggling I never know it so bad Gave up on dating sites long time ago. I’m undateable anyway, at least on here is more eventful." I now date myself. Regular/traditional dating makes me terrified. I'm not undateable per se but I'm a very unique person and I can make people feel uncomfortable unintentionally. so I can't date insecure men on any level. Not because I'm not insecure but because I mask and appear like I don't have any insecurities. I also giggle inappropriately out of nervousness and dark humour. Lol! | |||
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"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I emailed admin asking if they would consider it but unfortunately got no reply I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum!" | |||
" A separate section on dating would generate more site supporters and help all the singles that want a fab relationship. It would also attract predatory males pretending to want to date just hoping to get their leg over." Not necessarily. If it was dating id be asking the girl out for a meal or drinks or whatever . Like proper dates as oppose to typical fab date of meet for sex | |||
"Try being a woman and dating when you're open about being on a swinging site and wha time gor up too, guys love the idea of it ad they think they will get to fuck who they want but don't then want me to go do it
Some hate the fact I've enjoyed myself whilst I've been on here
"I love mfm and my last relationship was stag vixen so wouldnt be an issue for me! | |||
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"Omg EXACTLY this for me! I’m SO ready for a totally normal, average, everyday relationship but being in the lifestyle seems horrifying to men I’ve met on regular apps. Where are the Fab men who want to date?!?" I'd like to know too. I feel like it's too intimidating for men I've met on vanilla dating sites and most single guys on here aren't looking to date, least of all a relationship. Where is the happy middle? We can be the cliché "lady in the street and freak in the sheets"... haha Or maybe my face is a face only a mother would love  | |||
"Omg EXACTLY this for me! I’m SO ready for a totally normal, average, everyday relationship but being in the lifestyle seems horrifying to men I’ve met on regular apps. Where are the Fab men who want to date?!?" I know i am exactly the same. I want everyday and to enjoy occasional fab fun with a partner. Thought it would be best of both worlds | |||
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"I’d date from here if possible. " I’m On my way lol | |||
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"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks….. "Not all people are looking for that type of person. That’s the great thing about clubs all different varieties of people good luck | |||
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"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks…..
So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in?
How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from. "That discription doesn't fit me.... yet ive found clubs are good. | |||
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"Probably best on here for dating for understandable reasons. We met on here (although we were not actually looking to date at the time). As for dating I've done a bit of it before Mrs Misfit. Obviously most people are not swingers so in the vanilla world it won't be easy finding people open to the life style. However ive not really had much horrible experience dating. The key is timing. You come out with it straight away as a male your just another sad perve who only thinks with his dick and wants one thing. Naturally your not but this is what women think is you talk sex too soon (often formed from bitter experience of other men). Put sex on the back burner a bit. However not too long because you both risk investing to much in each other when sexual non monogamy may well be an unworkable red line. So if you like someone and it has potential concentrate on letting them get to know you a bit and you them. Once there is comfortable familiarity but before you have invested and before anything intimate is a good time to frankly and openly talk about this side of you in a matter of fact way. You'll find most decent women are open minded. Even if it's not for them they'll see your a decent guy. Plus your more likely this way to get success with a woman who is open to it. I would say similar if you connect from a dating aspect with someone off fab or the scene. If your both looking to date then you can both put sex on the back burner both with the reassurance that knowledge if you've connected and things move towards the sexual you both want the same thing. Or at least in the same ball park (which is handy). Also I may suggest sites like OK Cupid that match potential dates in fields including attitudes to monogamy and Kink. Likewise both parties know that when it comes to it they will be both wanting similar things. Thus likewise sex can be comfortably put on the back burner. You can both invest in each other with the knowledge that you'll have some compatability in terms of swinging and sex with other people down the line into a relationship. Mr" Bloody hell. Probably the best advice I’ve seen on the forums | |||
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"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum! Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues " Have to agree, once pandoras box is open, it's impossible to close. I would persevere on here. What's better, meeting a woman on fab or a normal site like pof. You got to weigh things up with what you want for the rest of your life or hiding it for the sake of a relationship. Even a fuck buddy is better, in my opinion, than lying to a partner. | |||
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"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol " Impossible to find a woman as well! | |||
"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol " Honesty is the best policy | |||
"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol " The dating sites are way worse. I just stick to fab now for that reason. | |||
"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol Honesty is the best policy " Oh absolutely! As much as it sucks, I’d far rather someone was honest about their intentions. Means I then have the choice to just have fun if I want without wasting my time! | |||
"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol " I find it impossible to meet a women on fab who wants to date.. it’s so hard to filter out the nsa fun seekers from the ones who are actually serious about dating | |||
"Hey all hope your all well, been single now for a couple of years, had a lots of fun and met some amazing people, anyway I’m After some advice as go on dates, chat get to know a lady and then when things gets sexual and I open up they run a mile think I’m odd, pervy etc, so what do I do?" I had a lot of that experience as well. I decided to keep enjoying my single life and go to clubs from time to time. | |||
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"As an experiment I've been explicit on my regular dating app profile that I'm into kink, sharing relationships, clubs and parties. In the last 4 months I've had a few matches and a whole 3 dates! It does tend to attract people though who are at least curious or have heard a bit about the lifestyle (or they've just swiped and not read the bio). First date went well, we had an open discussion, saw each other again and had sex, but she bottled out of going to a club with me. The second person I met for a date was awkward and we never really got onto the discussion part. The third person I met was only this weekend, we had a very open discussion again about the lifestyle and she revealed some kinks of her own. We kissed a lot, but now it's getting to second date territory I'm getting the vibe that she might be having second thoughts. Either she will or she won't, we'll see. I think it's always best to be up front about your lifestyle, but not let it overtake the whole reason for dating or wanting a relationship. That is difficult as if you put it in your profile it's probably one of the first things they'll want to talk about. But they probably don't want to know all the details about you shagging other people!" I feel like this could definitely work for a man but not a woman. If I put that on tinder/pof etc it would just be an open invitation for guys to think they could get easy sex and they’d lie about wanting to date/have a relationship just to get it. | |||
"Yes and I can’t imagine telling any man not On the scene that I go to clubs and have sex with strangers. The abuse and name calling would be lovely. " I wouldn’t id bloody love to hear all about it xx | |||
"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum! Absolutely - but since tasting the forbidden fruit of being in a swinging/hot wife relationship, returning to vanilla at any point in the furure, will present issues " Just because you're interested in dating doesn't mean it has to be vanilla. I'd definitely be more than keen on a dating section on here. | |||
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"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol Impossible to find a woman as well!" True. It's really tricky both sides so we're not helping eachother with things  | |||
"As an experiment I've been explicit on my regular dating app profile that I'm into kink, sharing relationships, clubs and parties. In the last 4 months I've had a few matches and a whole 3 dates! It does tend to attract people though who are at least curious or have heard a bit about the lifestyle (or they've just swiped and not read the bio). First date went well, we had an open discussion, saw each other again and had sex, but she bottled out of going to a club with me. The second person I met for a date was awkward and we never really got onto the discussion part. The third person I met was only this weekend, we had a very open discussion again about the lifestyle and she revealed some kinks of her own. We kissed a lot, but now it's getting to second date territory I'm getting the vibe that she might be having second thoughts. Either she will or she won't, we'll see. I think it's always best to be up front about your lifestyle, but not let it overtake the whole reason for dating or wanting a relationship. That is difficult as if you put it in your profile it's probably one of the first things they'll want to talk about. But they probably don't want to know all the details about you shagging other people! I feel like this could definitely work for a man but not a woman. If I put that on tinder/pof etc it would just be an open invitation for guys to think they could get easy sex and they’d lie about wanting to date/have a relationship just to get it. " I put it on my normal dating profile and just got pervy comments like i do on here. Difference is i don't know what they look like naked or their kinks so i found it difficult to know whether they were genuinely interested in me or just the pure kinky sex part. I want someone who wants me and the kinky sex is the icing on the cake | |||
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"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol Impossible to find a woman as well!" I'm one, but can't even find a FwB. | |||
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"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol Impossible to find a woman as well! I'm one, but can't even find a FwB." Me neither. When one does peak my interest, he usually ghosts before the meet. So tricky these days. Especially with fickle fab men | |||
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"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol Impossible to find a woman as well! I'm one, but can't even find a FwB. Me neither. When one does peak my interest, he usually ghosts before the meet. So tricky these days. Especially with fickle fab men" Struggling to find a Mr here also | |||
"Seems absolutely impossible to find a man that wants to date on here. They all just seem to want nsa sex. But normal dating sites seem even worse as the guys on there just lie, at least on here they’re honest about what they’re really after lol Impossible to find a woman as well! I'm one, but can't even find a FwB. Me neither. When one does peak my interest, he usually ghosts before the meet. So tricky these days. Especially with fickle fab men Struggling to find a Mr here also " Shame about your distance from me | |||
"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks…..
So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in?
How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from. "The majority of times I’ve been to clubs as a single guy have been a positive experience. Of course there will be times when it’s hard to break the ice, it’s a bit of a cliquish crowd (it happens) you’ll feel self conscious, awkward and a bit of a wall flower. You’ll have to go home, get over it and try another night. I’m not a 6’3” body builder with a 10” cock but you be surprised at how many single woman and couples that are not attracted to a boring gym bunny narcissist with cliche tribal tattoos and a cock that will hurt. | |||
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"I’ve yet to attend events, but clubs as a single guy (who isn’t a 6’3” bodybuilder with a 10” cock*) are a bit shite. Maybe I’m wrong, possibly just not my scene. I’ll have to give them another go! * some of that might describe me, but I’d never exaggerate for clicks…..
So you haven’t attended clubs but have decided that you won’t fit in?
How about giving it a go before writing it off. Clubs are not full of bodybuilders with 10ish cocks. No idea where you get that from.
The majority of times I’ve been to clubs as a single guy have been a positive experience. Of course there will be times when it’s hard to break the ice, it’s a bit of a cliquish crowd (it happens) you’ll feel self conscious, awkward and a bit of a wall flower. You’ll have to go home, get over it and try another night. I’m not a 6’3” body builder with a 10” cock but you be surprised at how many single woman and couples that are not attracted to a boring gym bunny narcissist with cliche tribal tattoos and a cock that will hurt."wow you have some major insecurities there lol says more about you to be honest ....  | |||
"I want to date a fellow swinger. I want to travel and fuck all across the world. " Sounds ideal! | |||
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"Omg EXACTLY this for me! Where are the Fab men who want to date?!?" We do exist and indeed I dated a lovely girl off here for a while, it was nice as we were very sexually compatible in that she loved anal, and indeed the first time we had sex was anal only. You used to be able to easily search for anal loving girls on okcupid. But most normal dating sites make it fairly hard to find girls with a shared passion. I know in time I will find a girl again who wants a relationship with daily anal and vagial sex. | |||
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"Wish fab create a official dating section. We been asking for years. Only new section was the covid one "AMEN and seems they have missed a trick by not doing | |||
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"Wish fab create a official dating section. We been asking for years. Only new section was the covid one "Yes i emailed them a couple of years ago but got totally ignored. Seems once they have your money that’s it, tough titty | |||
"Wish fab create a official dating section. We been asking for years. Only new section was the covid one
Yes i emailed them a couple of years ago but got totally ignored. Seems once they have your money that’s it, tough titty"Money has nothing to do with it, it's already working on the site people forming a relationship their has been many posts about this with users comments whom found each other on here If you think money is involved to find someone you're in the wrong game | |||
"Wish fab create a official dating section. We been asking for years. Only new section was the covid one
Yes i emailed them a couple of years ago but got totally ignored. Seems once they have your money that’s it, tough titty
Money has nothing to do with it, it's already working on the site people forming a relationship their has been many posts about this with users comments whom found each other on here
If you think money is involved to find someone you're in the wrong game "I been asking for years with no luck lol my messages get lost in all them dick pics/fantasists | |||
"I’m in the same position OP. It’s really difficult. The cards are massively stacked against single guys on here, wanting a relationship or not. Trying to find out if someone is open minded about this stuff through the vanilla apps gets you labelled and blocked pretty quickly. Yes i agree, matched with people very much my type, tell them and its a block or no thanks I give my +1 for a dating section of the forum!" | |||
"Try being a woman and dating when you're open about being on a swinging site and wha time gor up too, guys love the idea of it ad they think they will get to fuck who they want but don't then want me to go do it
Some hate the fact I've enjoyed myself whilst I've been on here
"Not me, although i enjoy most aspecting of swinging, my biggest turn on is seeing my woman with another male or two | |||
