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What are racey sexy pictures???

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey all after what has been a extended post I put up 4 days ago about why most couples or woman don't respond to messages ect.. alot of comments where about pictures not being sexy or racey enough..... What does this ether mean??

I personally know I'm rubbish at taking selfies and I don't have many pictures of me taken within last 2 months where it's just me as with friends family ect. I have 2 face pics and 1 cock picture so yeah I think I cover the bases well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey all after what has been a extended post I put up 4 days ago about why most couples or woman don't respond to messages ect.. alot of comments where about pictures not being sexy or racey enough..... What does this ether mean??

Sexy and racey. Running naked.

No just means sexier photos generally op.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

I think maybe it's because it goes lovely smiley innocent pic, lovely smiley innocent pic, PEEEEEEEN

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By *ifemale32GGWoman over a year ago

Telford

Work out how to use the timer on your phone. Prop it up somewhere. Take some nice nude selfies, maybe a full nude of your back. Maybe one of you from the front topless in jeans just in the middle of unbuttoning them. Something suggestive that doesn’t show it all at once. Have a look at other guys profiles to see what they are doing. Nudes don’t have to show your face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Work out how to use the timer on your phone. Prop it up somewhere. Take some nice nude selfies, maybe a full nude of your back. Maybe one of you from the front topless in jeans just in the middle of unbuttoning them. Something suggestive that doesn’t show it all at once. Have a look at other guys profiles to see what they are doing. Nudes don’t have to show your face. "

That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol"

Well if you can't be arsed then just don't bother. Just don't complain about a lack of results when people have been giving you the requested advice and you decide it's not worth your time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol

Well if you can't be arsed then just don't bother. Just don't complain about a lack of results when people have been giving you the requested advice and you decide it's not worth your time."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol

Well if you can't be arsed then just don't bother. Just don't complain about a lack of results when people have been giving you the requested advice and you decide it's not worth your time."

It was meant as a joke... I'm not a model and hate posing for a picture so If I done all the pics ect I'm sure I look fake lol

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By *assie101Woman over a year ago

Kent

These are the type that are most likely to make me look more than twitch.

Unbuttoned shirt and jeans. Uuumm

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol

Well if you can't be arsed then just don't bother. Just don't complain about a lack of results when people have been giving you the requested advice and you decide it's not worth your time.

It was meant as a joke... I'm not a model and hate posing for a picture so If I done all the pics ect I'm sure I look fake lol"

So why ask what makes a sexy racey pic if you'd be unwilling to do them anyway?

You don't have to do anything you're not comfortable doing of course. But why ask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol

Well if you can't be arsed then just don't bother. Just don't complain about a lack of results when people have been giving you the requested advice and you decide it's not worth your time.

It was meant as a joke... I'm not a model and hate posing for a picture so If I done all the pics ect I'm sure I look fake lol

So why ask what makes a sexy racey pic if you'd be unwilling to do them anyway?

You don't have to do anything you're not comfortable doing of course. But why ask?"

I am willing to try.. I just can't believe us guys have to do all this things just to get a look at the profile..

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I am willing to try.. I just can't believe us guys have to do all this things just to get a look at the profile.."

If you don't want to do it, don't do it. There's already thousands of men on here who don't bother anyway. If you don't want to stand out from the endless sea of penii on here you don't have to. Eventually you might stumble across someone that doesn't put much stock in profiles at the right moment and get lucky. From the constant barrage of mediocrity in my inbox it must work occasionally with someone or they wouldn't all keep trying it surely.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"That's a lot of work lol .. even then I'm sure it gives people more excuse not message lol

Well if you can't be arsed then just don't bother. Just don't complain about a lack of results when people have been giving you the requested advice and you decide it's not worth your time.

It was meant as a joke... I'm not a model and hate posing for a picture so If I done all the pics ect I'm sure I look fake lol

So why ask what makes a sexy racey pic if you'd be unwilling to do them anyway?

You don't have to do anything you're not comfortable doing of course. But why ask?

I am willing to try.. I just can't believe us guys have to do all this things just to get a look at the profile.."

We make a lot of effort with our photos, we would expect the same from a guy too

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Less is more... draped towels are a good one... open shirts... just shorts... reflections of back shots... cheeky smiles... moody sunglasses, destinations with interest... just variety, imagination and some indication of the kind of person you are

not endless cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Less is more... draped towels are a good one... open shirts... just shorts... reflections of back shots... cheeky smiles... moody sunglasses, destinations with interest... just variety, imagination and some indication of the kind of person you are

not endless cock pics."

Ok thanks

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

OP don't make the mistake of trying to please everyone. Your pictures,like your profile, need to be an honest reflection of you. Not what you thi k people want to see. That way you are more likely to appeal to people on your wavelength

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

I don't understand when people say they don't have any recent pics to send, surely you have a device that you can use to take pics with? And upload straight away?

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

ytou'll never get the correct answer from the forums as its a very small part of the site (5% or less)as a whole ... you'll find for as many women who dont like cock pics that there are as many who do .. be you thats all you can do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP don't make the mistake of trying to please everyone. Your pictures,like your profile, need to be an honest reflection of you. Not what you thi k people want to see. That way you are more likely to appeal to people on your wavelength

Thanks for this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't understand when people say they don't have any recent pics to send, surely you have a device that you can use to take pics with? And upload straight away?"

All my pictures of face are new updates

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"ytou'll never get the correct answer from the forums as its a very small part of the site (5% or less)as a whole ... you'll find for as many women who dont like cock pics that there are as many who do .. be you thats all you can do"

Thanks x lovely profile your self x

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

Your profile photo (avatar) is actually very nice. It is the sort of photo that would attract me rather than a buttocks photo (hate those in men haha- very few have a bum actually worth looking at and most clench a la Joey/Robert-De-Niro, so it looks worse!

)

Torso photos are always nice to look at. You have 3 verifications, so can’t be doing that badly…

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile photo (avatar) is actually very nice. It is the sort of photo that would attract me rather than a buttocks photo (hate those in men haha- very few have a bum actually worth looking at and most clench a la Joey/Robert-De-Niro, so it looks worse!

)

Torso photos are always nice to look at. You have 3 verifications, so can’t be doing that badly…

Aw thanks that cheered me up. You have a amazing profile x

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By *ldFashionedGentMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

Agree with a lot of the advice OP

Firstly you’re never going to please everyone. It’s impossible otherwise we’d all be attracted to the same thing.

The pics are good, the racey suggestions are all valid however. I’m useless at taking a selfie too and only have a window of about 5 minutes in my eyes after having worked out where it’s acceptable for display

But a few black and white ones, torso, teasing, suggestive. As long as it’s you then will come across well.

Your profile is far more detailed than most and outlines what you’re looking for

And having had meets you’re doing a lot better than most.

You have to remember as do all genuine single guys that women and couples here are overloaded with messages day in day our to the point of it all becoming white noise. And guys outnumber women and couples by many multiples. So relax, enjoy, contribute to the forums, you’ll be surprised how just engaging with the ‘community’ will draw people towards you.

And don’t get frustrated, fab is a little like pressing your nose against the chocolate shop window and being unable to get in. But such is life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find most do not date or reply here because they never need it, its a picture & info webbuild for people to gawp at.

Other site I used 2005 dated straight away - no objections

Once my neighbours found out ,ripped to pieces after that.

Gossip & comp/competition+ evening tv,ps3 lol

Fact you are probably stood next to one from here in the shop next street

Dread to find the local gossip - some holy fly-over types that know life without the help - its meant!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Everyone will have a different opinion of what's sexy in a photo, for me personally close up cock shots = total turn off, whereas teasing ones = hard under a towel, in pants, jeans a little unbuttoned with full body much better.

You can't please everyone op just post what you feel comfortable with.

Mrs

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

Nightofthecoffeetable. Has great pictures

some of the best of fab in our opinion.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Put whatever you want on your profile don't put pics up just to please others if you don't want to.

As for your comment it's a lot of work to get people to look at your profile.Well that is your choice you can make an effort or not. But if you don't you can't really complain if others don't find your profile enticing enough to want to answer you. Your profile is your shop window and you know this because you have been on here long enough. It's the same as anyone's profile it will either entice someone in or make they walk away and not reply And yes it's unfair that men have to make a bigger effort to get replies but that's fab and it won't change anytime soon.

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By *rmani5Woman over a year ago

Glasgow /Blackpool /Amsterdam Liverpool

Less is definitely more classy keep them wanting more we all need to put an effort into our profiles to stand out try feeling sexy with different stuff u like

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