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By *ohey OP Woman over a year ago

DONCASTER

But what do you do when you meet your sexual soulmate but you don't want a public relationship with him,but he does ???

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By *ellhungvweMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

Assuming you told him up front you didn’t want a relationship (which is what your profile says) then I would just remind him that you are not looking for a relationship. If he has caught the feelings and you haven’t then you need to stand firm.

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By *icassolifelikeMan over a year ago

Luton

Lock him up in a gimp cage. Bring him out when you’re in the mood and put him back when you’re hitting the shops!

Just remember to water and feed him.

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By *ohey OP Woman over a year ago

DONCASTER

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You stop seeing him. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And then you pop yourself back over here for tea, sympathy and a new shag xx

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"But what do you do when you meet your sexual soulmate but you don't want a public relationship with him,but he does ???"

You can't control others

Your profile is clear about not wanting a relationship

Unless you have done something that made him think otherwise

Talk

Repeat that you are not looking for anything more

If he can't do that

Walk away

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By *ORBCouple over a year ago

Dundalk

I'd just tell them there is no point in not saying anything .Just say you are happy to have them as fuck buddy but you're not interested in taking it any farther than that. If they continue to push for more then tell them it's over as you are both looking for something else.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

Have a frank and open conversation with them. See if there's an agreeable compromise or if finish it. Its not fair to strung alone in a relationship that isn't healthy.

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