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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Liz here, so we want to indulge in me being a hotwife, hubby watching me with another man. I want to but the thought gets me so nervous, and I'm very body conscious  .
Apart from alcohol lol any tips to help me.
Tia x |
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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago
Clevedon |
Only advice is dont use alcohol as a reason to relax, my wife tried that route and its not really a fix. In the end she decided the reality was different to fantasy and quit the scene. Better sober then you're fully aware and make proper decisions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely don’t use alcohol.
The first time my wife had a hot wife meet she just decided one afternoon to just pick the guy she’d been talking to and went to his house for the afternoon. She’d been flirting for ages but never plucked the courage to take the plunge. Overthinking resulting in hesitation. She just asked me to take her round to his and leave her with him.
Maybe something similar might work for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experience, it usually works best if the three of you have a coffee and chat together, get to know a bit about each other.
Then you and the guy head to the bedroom. The hubby enters 10 to 15 minutes later, by then neither of you will even notice him.. |
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By *amrachCouple
over a year ago
Ruthin |
You look lovely hun.
The first time is a bit nerve wracking but like the previous note said, have a chat first and you’ll find that getting to know the guy a bit will relax you.
One glass of wine won’t hurt lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, you have nothing to worry about you have an amazing body, absolutely stunning. My advice would be to vid chat with the guy with your husband first, then start being naughty on cam when you feel comfortable. After a few cam sessions together arrange a meet, but the more safe and comfortable you feel the more you will enjoy the experience. I remember my first bi experience with a partner, we did the cam thing first and it really helped both of us relax. Hope that helps x |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
Have just seen your pics, you look absolutely fantastic, you have nothing to worry about and I'm sure nearly every red blooded male would find you desirable.
Is it just your body consciousness that concerns you - or is there also other things affecting your decision? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take your time
There is no rush
Just take it at face value
You are here for that reason and the guy you meet is here for the same
Perhaps meet a guy with decent veries first.
And of course ,never feel obligated to do Anything!  |
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By *issitCouple
over a year ago
Banbury |
We always meet for supper of a coffee first, see what chemistry is there. It can take quite a few coffees to find a Prince but it’s awesome when you do! There are some cracking guys on here who completely get the dynamic of hot wife. Just go at your pace and relax. My husband loves watching me flirt with a guy, start there and see what happens. X enjoy x |
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We were in the same situation, Vixen with another man, me watching. Both of us really nervous, but we did it and we both loved it!
We've never looked back since that first time.
Nerves are inevitable every single time, but enjoy them, embrace them!
For what it's worth I would recommend it! 
Stag |
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"Hi Liz here, so we want to indulge in me being a hotwife, hubby watching me with another man. I want to but the thought gets me so nervous, and I'm very body conscious .
Apart from alcohol lol any tips to help me.
Tia x"
From just looking at your photos you don’t have any body issues to worry about in my opinion, I’d suggest just using pure desire as your drug of choice and live in the moment! I’d be more than happy to help you guys out with your fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in the same situation, i found getting to know the person first and building a good connection really helped too, try not to over think things (easier said then done sometimes) |
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I volunteer as tribute ha ha
Trying anything for the first time will be nervous remember your first time even having sex and look at how much you enjoy it now.... I think having a coffee with the 3 of you and getting to know each other a little might help. |
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By *heelerMan
over a year ago
Northants |
"Only advice is dont use alcohol as a reason to relax, my wife tried that route and its not really a fix. In the end she decided the reality was different to fantasy and quit the scene. Better sober then you're fully aware and make proper decisions. "
Relax the guy will be as nervous if not more then you . |
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My wife doesn't drink (so no booze for nerves!) and whilst we havnt had a hotwife/ mfm experience yet we role played meeting in a hotel bar, going back to the hotel room etc. We both stayed in character for the entire time and it was brilliant - very sexy, felt naughty but in a very safe environment. Shes feeling much more confident now so maybe try a role play with your partner. I'm sure we will still be nervous the first time but its certainly helped. Good luck x |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Only advice is dont use alcohol as a reason to relax, my wife tried that route and its not really a fix. In the end she decided the reality was different to fantasy and quit the scene. Better sober then you're fully aware and make proper decisions.
Relax the guy will be as nervous if not more then you ."
I can echo the above comments, on our very 1st FAB meet Rach was extremely nervous and took in a little drop of Dutch Courage to help in that department. Once started though she found that she didn't need it and since then has never touched a drop prior to a meet. |
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