Hiya, not sure if this is the correct area to ask but will do so anyway! I have a meeting with a lady next week and she want to be dominated. I’m not a natural dom and I’m looking some pointers to help me out if possible ! Any help would be appreciated |
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Even with an experienced Dom and sub there should always be an honest and open discussion before hand. You need to chat about likes and wants, dislikes and limits.
This type of play needs a lot of trust and the need for consent is crucial.
Nobody should be going into this without good communication on both sides. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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"Even with an experienced Dom and sub there should always be an honest and open discussion before hand. You need to chat about likes and wants, dislikes and limits.
This type of play needs a lot of trust and the need for consent is crucial.
Nobody should be going into this without good communication on both sides. "
This.
Although I dislike the term "naturally dominant" there is only so much attitude you can fake. In any case experienced submissives can sense if you have the wrong attitude for them. The media lie and stereotype is that one size strong silent dominant fits all, is not true. You have to be right for her, and that involves as a first step communication. She may not actually want a dominant but wants someone to top her (you can Google the difference), then attitude is not required.
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The 'attitude' you want is called confidence. Confidence only comes from learning and knowing what your bottom wants and doesn't want.
Walking into a scene with no previous discussion or knowledge is asking for things to go wrong.
Research and discussion are what you need to do in order to be safe. |
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"Hiya, not sure if this is the correct area to ask but will do so anyway! I have a meeting with a lady next week and she want to be dominated. I’m not a natural dom and I’m looking some pointers to help me out if possible ! Any help would be appreciated "
Please please talk to this lady
I can't imagine anything on your profile has given her an impression of you being dominant so it can only have been you chatting... If you have bigged yourself up stop now.. be honest with her
Find out exactly what she wants
If that's not you own it .
Nothing worse than a meeting that's a total let down |
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