It doesn't do anything for us to read the stuff about being a professional businessman etc. Your work has nothing to do with lifestyle here and it's not some badge of honour that impresses. In fact it does the opposite as it makes us think you're job will take priority over shagging for you. Mostly we ignore people who bang on about how professional they are or how they need to be discreet because of work. Everyone is in the same boat, unless you're the Prime Minister, you have no extra rights to privacy that we all have.
If you were to say..."I run my own business so am very flexible with when I can meet" .. that's a different matter. |
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Hi Thom, all I can advise, is listen to the advice about your profile by those you are looking to meet. Yes agree, take all the business man stuff out…people may feel that work comes before pleasure which equals you cancelling meets or socials.
Not just dick pics….parts of your body from different angles, do look at other guys profiles to get ideas…guys that are similar to you, how they have done their photos…etc. It is all a learning curve.
You mentioned some of your fantasies which is great and you did write a profile and added photos…and that is far better than some that just have a shadow. It is all about the effort you put in…  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"Hello sexy people. How do I know if my profile is any good please? "
If you messaged us we'd look at your profile, check out the pics (physical attraction is key) and very quickly delete your message. Two dick pics, both of which can't be classed as anywhere near classy.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We didn't mean our comment sound as harsh as it might have sounded but it's useful to know what people reading it might think. We're not saying everyone feels like we do though."
It’s really helpful - thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi Thom, all I can advise, is listen to the advice about your profile by those you are looking to meet. Yes agree, take all the business man stuff out…people may feel that work comes before pleasure which equals you cancelling meets or socials.
Not just dick pics….parts of your body from different angles, do look at other guys profiles to get ideas…guys that are similar to you, how they have done their photos…etc. It is all a learning curve.
You mentioned some of your fantasies which is great and you did write a profile and added photos…and that is far better than some that just have a shadow. It is all about the effort you put in… "
Brill - thanks |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
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The jizzy dick pic is not doing you any favours.
I don't know who told men this type of photo looks good, but they lied.
If I've just knocked one out onto my stomach I'm just reaching for the tissue paper asap, I don't even want to look at it, let alone photograph it. |
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"Tbh no it’s not great
Thanks. Anything specific? "
Photos. Lack of.. the one you show is hardly stopping in the tracks kind
Blurb.... Tells me nothing
Your profile is your shop window.. would you stop and go in |
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"If that was your CV how would you feel?
We wouldn’t give you the job.
A Dear John letter - oh dear! Must try harder "
I actually wrote mine like a CV formatted and word counted. I'm not saying to follow me but that's what works for me.
Still many do not read it but I get a perverse delight in directing them to the profile when they ask questions that are answered on it already.
You need more photos and by more photos, I don't mean all pics of of your cock/abs/bum/muscles from different angles in your loo. Either use your creativity or stick to the basic expected photos ( basic photos for men: Face or part of face, Full-length body shot( nude or in-a-suit), blue jeans and white t-shirt, sport activity/hobby shot) |
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"Think mine needs a little work too...
Any thoughts?"
See my reply above. Also, you are fairly new. this is a male-dominated site. 169 women to 3000 men. You will have to stand out ( in a good way not bad way), join events early, and make yourself available to get anywhere.
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