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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you probably won't like my answer but the risks you take with your own body is your choice but is it worth possibly putting your unborn child's life at risk |
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I wouldn't have dreamed of it when I was pregnant. It was a special time where my body was devoted to growing a new little human being.
But that's just me - if you feel comfortable with it then go ahead. I'm sure there are plenty of people who won't have a problem swinging with you. |
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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
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"Well you probably won't like my answer but the risks you take with your own body is your choice but is it worth possibly putting your unborn child's life at risk"
 its only nine months a wait surely wont do any harm.BUt as its already said above ure its ure body n choice.we r only replying as u have asked |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If you google something like "what does std do to an unborn child" it might make you think twice about taking any chances.
To answer the question though, if we were swinging while I was pregnant we would have stopped, it is a precious baby I would be carrying and I wouldn't have wanted to share that with a stranger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank u it's not my first child it be my 10th lol but wanted peoples _iews xxx as always safe sex "
Go for it if you want. I would have loved to have swung while pregnant. Xx do what's right for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank u it's not my first child it be my 10th lol but wanted peoples _iews xxx as always safe sex "
Go for it if you want. I would have loved to have swung while pregnant. Xx do what's right for you. |
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we was very good friends when i was pregs with another clp who didn't have any kids (couldnt have them ) . we meet ever 4 weeks at theres for fun . . she is my best friend now and is godmother to my daughter . so do What u want but choose the right cpls . |
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Each to their own! But I wouldnt have swung whilst pregnant and wouldn't meet anyone that is pregnant. But like someone previously said you'll have a queue of people as some people love it!
TEN children, blimey!!! Youre doing something right, good look with your pregnancy and the decision you make  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, during my pregnancies I wouldn't have been swinging due to potential risks for the baby, it's such a short period of time in the long run. However, it's your body and your baby and ultimately your choice regardless of what any of us say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly, Congratulations. Secondly, it's your choice, but like plenty of others have already said the No.1 consideration is the health of your baby - no question.
Like 'Rugby' has said, you need to understand what STD's can do to an unborn child and I would go further than that - don't know when your last visit to your GUM Clinic was, but now you KNOW you're pregnant, I would be off down there immediately just to be on the safe side.
I can only speak from experience of my ex being pregnant with my two boys - she was NEVER hornier (herself, not my opinion of her!) than when she was pregnant, and she just got hornier and hornier right through the term until it just got physically impractical to have sex. However, I know that other women experience the complete opposite, and their sex drive tails off considerably.
The two of you need to have a proper discussion about the whole subject and do what is right for you two AND the baby.
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"Thank u it's not my first child it be my 10th lol but wanted peoples _iews xxx as always safe sex
Go for it if you want. I would have loved to have swung while pregnant. Xx do what's right for you."
Surely they should do what's right for the baby??
I've never been pregnant but can't imagine wanting to swing whilst carrying a child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank u it's not my first child it be my 10th lol but wanted peoples _iews xxx as always safe sex
Go for it if you want. I would have loved to have swung while pregnant. Xx do what's right for you.
Surely they should do what's right for the baby??
I've never been pregnant but can't imagine wanting to swing whilst carrying a child. "
I was still me while pregnant. Yes I was expecting but still me. Best thing for a baby is happy mum. I didn't swing when I was pregnant but I did have fuck buddies and it was great. I doubt I will ever have another one now as had 6 and getting older Now.
But I would be so insatiable if I were lol. To be honest having read the couples profile it seems they only play with regular couples. So its not like huge risk. Just play safe and have fun.
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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago
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My partner on here is a trained midwife...
This subject has come up in the past where she has posted.
Basic theme is risks are huge ... dont do it.
I would suggest a quick trawl of the internet and asking GUM clinic is a better course of action then asking people with little or no knowledge of the risks on a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congratulations!
TEN??!!!
Wow!
though surprised you find time to swing with 10 kids, I struggle to find time with just one lol"
It's all in the time management lol I have 6 and still manage to have lots of fun. |
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a huge congratulations on exspecting another addition to your family .wish you all the very best and every happiness.
as for the swinging ...lets not sugar coat this .its not just your choice, you are making choices for your un born child now. what you choose for yourself is one thing but its not just you and your needs to worry about . as a parent already im sure your children come first and foremost ,so why would you take ANY unnecessary risk with your un-born baby? surely your babys health and well being is more important than you getting a leg over ?
people may not like this but anyone who swings when they know they are exspecting are just plain selfish (in my opinion ) . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First off - congratulations both of you 
This is always a very contentious subject , and you will already see the majority of responses are in the negative .
Before bowing to the majority consider this - if you were not pregnant and asked whether swinging was a sensible thing to do , what would the majority of folk say ?
The answer would be weigh up the risks and much along the same lines as the reasons not to as suggested on this thread .
As with everything in life there are risks , smoking , drinking , eating , driving your car , eating certain food , getting stressed , you name it there are risks !!!
So our answer to the op is this - you know the score , the risks, and certainly know your body and how you feel so if you want to continue swinging you go girl !
It's a tough enough time carrying a child for nine months first time , never mind for the tenth time and if swinging eases the burden it's gotta be good and there us no more likelihood that anything untoward will happen now as there was before - don't let the fears rule your life - be sensible and have fun ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We only play with one couple never had sex with the other party we do oral n fem fem
I honestly thought that would be safe
But I guess I was wrong
Thank u all for yr comments and well wishes n congrats
Xxxxx |
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By *iamp86Man
over a year ago
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Congrats on the pregnancy - for the tenth time as well - you must love having babies ( unless you Catholic ... lol )
As to whether you continue to swing for the duration well no matter what I or others say that's a decision only the two of you can make.
Personally I find pregnant women very sexy.
The important thing is what ever you do it's safe and isn't going to put the baby at risk.
Whatever decision you make don't let others make you feel guilty about it. |
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"We only play with one couple never had sex with the other party we do oral n fem fem
I honestly thought that would be safe
But I guess I was wrong
Thank u all for yr comments and well wishes n congrats
Xxxxx"
I think if you font do full swap maybe the risks are less. You really are best off speaking to a health professional about the risks.
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"We only play with one couple never had sex with the other party we do oral n fem fem
I honestly thought that would be safe
But I guess I was wrong
Thank u all for yr comments and well wishes n congrats
Xxxxx"
You didn't state this in your original post though did you? You just said you wanted to continue to swing and asked for opinions.
Of course, oral sex only is less of a risk than penetrative sex.
Congratulations on your happy news by the way x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also once the baby comes, you wont have time to play..
Sorry but thats my opinion"
Do you have children. As that's like saying you won't have any social time or have sex once a baby is there. You may need a few weeks or months off. So to me that is all the more reason to enjoy yourself before the baby arrives.
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"Hi guys and gals
Well found out boxing day were pregnant we still wanna swing what are peoples _iews on this
Mrs "
Firstly: congratulations! Secondly: As long as your safe and careful, then have as much fun as you like. |
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"Hi guys and gals
Well found out boxing day were pregnant we still wanna swing what are peoples _iews on this
Mrs "
Congratulations
I think pregnant women look gorgeous.
Be careful and take care.
You know you're body best |
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"Hi guys and gals
Well found out boxing day were pregnant we still wanna swing what are peoples _iews on this
Mrs
Congratulations
I think pregnant women look gorgeous.
Be careful and take care.
You know you're body best "
You know YOUR body best... bloody predictive text lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i dont think its worth the risk.
Even if you use condoms they can split or come off inside you.
Catching gonorrhea for you is a 2 weeks course of antibiotic and your clear for a unborn child at this stage of your pregnancy could lead to blindness to name one of many side affect STI leave behind in a unborn children.
Is it really worth the risk?
How would you feel if the condom did come off and you did catch something? its slim chance it will happen i agre but still to big a chance for me to risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find pregnant women very sexy.
But on topic, each to their own, im sure you know the risks, you're a grown woman and as such responsable for your actions |
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I wonder how many single men who find pregnant women a turn on would be happy to share their pregnant partners with all and sundry - not many I wager.
Personally being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I, I did everything in my power to look after myself and keep my baby safe and well.
I see mothers that smoke, drink and take drugs and wonder what they're thinking - well, they're not thinking about their child obviously.
Why risk it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you'll have a cue around the block of guys wanting to play while your pregnant( even up to 9 months) . A lot of guys find it a major turn on "
girls too! |
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I wouldn't personally as the risks of STI's to unborn children is too much for me to comprehend but as has already been said, everyone is different and everyone has different thresholds when it comes to pros and cons.
Whatever you do, just make sure you take every precaution possible to protect your little bundle of joy.
Congratulations, BTW!!!
- VincentandAmy. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks were keeping our profile but only avin social meets
We want to carryon doing this but feel it's too much a risk
I never swung while preg with rhe other 8 with the ninth we ad couple social meets
Thank u everyone xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks were keeping our profile but only avin social meets
We want to carryon doing this but feel it's too much a risk
I never swung while preg with rhe other 8 with the ninth we ad couple social meets
Thank u everyone xxxx"
Think you are being very sensible . Many congratulations again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm currently pregnant n took a break by playin with my partner only, for the safety of my twins I've only just set up a new profile recently to chat before I resume playin (the veri I hav is from n old friend I used to meet). Its your choice, but Just be aware that even playing safe there are stds that still can't be avoided for example gential warts. People can hav the virus for up to three months before physical signs appear n it's mainly carried in men on the scrotum area which a condom obviously doesn't cover n just the skin to skin contact from the scrotum could pass them onto u. U can get them externally, internally or both as well n of course if they form internally around the cervix this can cause problems during the pregnancy n be passed onto the child during birth. Just to give u a heads up n help u to make your decision |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No they are going to be Unidentical but both girls. Just seen your status btw hope I didn't cause any upset I wasn't judging afterall it your choice just thought havin the facts never hurts xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No they are going to be Unidentical but both girls. Just seen your status btw hope I didn't cause any upset I wasn't judging afterall it your choice just thought havin the facts never hurts xxx"
Not u Hun inboxes been nasty xxx |
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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi guys and gals
Well found out boxing day were pregnant we still wanna swing what are peoples _iews on this
Mrs "
Just a thought !!!
Could you still have lots of fun but save the fucking for your partner, sure lots of guys would be happy to play without full intercourse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No they are going to be Unidentical but both girls. Just seen your status btw hope I didn't cause any upset I wasn't judging afterall it your choice just thought havin the facts never hurts xxx
Not u Hun inboxes been nasty xxx"
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Sorry to hear that Thera no need for that of they don't agree they should just jog on not abuse u for it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi guys and gals
Well found out boxing day were pregnant we still wanna swing what are peoples _iews on this
Mrs do u know who the father is ? im kidding congrats  "
Yes lol not ad sex with anyone else since been with hubby |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"Hi guys and gals
Well found out boxing day were pregnant we still wanna swing what are peoples _iews on this
Mrs do u know who the father is ? im kidding congrats
Yes lol not ad sex with anyone else since been with hubby "
but ur on a swingers site how does that work do u just watch  |
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"Thanks were keeping our profile but only avin social meets
We want to carryon doing this but feel it's too much a risk
I never swung while preg with rhe other 8 with the ninth we ad couple social meets
Thank u everyone xxxx"
We went to some clubs/parties until I was about 4-5 months and feeling more self conscious, I never played but we still had same room fun etc x |
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