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When is Swinging Not classed as Swinging?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the spark is gone. Then it's time to stop. It's supposed to be an exciting high. If it's not that. You're better letting go. "
I agree, when you dont get excited about a meet it's time to call it a day |
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"When lies are told and secrets kept from partners.
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Only pins and financial passwords should be kept secret.
And where you hid the Christmas presents  "
I'd have thought that was responsible for alot of domestic arguments 
On a slightly more serious note, swinging is so broad, it's hard to day when it's not. But if a party that is involved in your shenanigans is nonconsensually being ignored, hurt, or otherwise upset, then it's crossed the boundary between swinging and being a bit of a arse... |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
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"When it’s one on one. Swinging is to involve 3 or more persons.
Oh right. I'd better leave then  "
Honest question (and please take it as such) as we’re still genuinely figuring things out. How would you differentiate what you do as different from casual sex? Not judging the labels but I don’t get where the line is drawn (if it even is!) |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"When it’s one on one. Swinging is to involve 3 or more persons.
Oh right. I'd better leave then
Honest question (and please take it as such) as we’re still genuinely figuring things out. How would you differentiate what you do as different from casual sex? Not judging the labels but I don’t get where the line is drawn (if it even is!)"
For me I meet people as part of the Swinging Community on here or in my local club. I get to know them, have a social meet and if there is some chemistry, then it may or may not lead to sex. Majority of my meets are repeats, so we get to know each other over time. Casual sex is fucking for the sake of it. Hope that makes sense and answers your question.
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"When it’s one on one. Swinging is to involve 3 or more persons.
Oh right. I'd better leave then
Honest question (and please take it as such) as we’re still genuinely figuring things out. How would you differentiate what you do as different from casual sex? Not judging the labels but I don’t get where the line is drawn (if it even is!)
For me I meet people as part of the Swinging Community on here or in my local club. I get to know them, have a social meet and if there is some chemistry, then it may or may not lead to sex. Majority of my meets are repeats, so we get to know each other over time. Casual sex is fucking for the sake of it. Hope that makes sense and answers your question.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"When it’s one on one. Swinging is to involve 3 or more persons.
Oh right. I'd better leave then
Honest question (and please take it as such) as we’re still genuinely figuring things out. How would you differentiate what you do as different from casual sex? Not judging the labels but I don’t get where the line is drawn (if it even is!)
For me I meet people as part of the Swinging Community on here or in my local club. I get to know them, have a social meet and if there is some chemistry, then it may or may not lead to sex. Majority of my meets are repeats, so we get to know each other over time. Casual sex is fucking for the sake of it. Hope that makes sense and answers your question.
Love this reply!"
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" Casual sex is fucking for the sake of it.
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Or fucking people you've made friends with, do social things with ( other than going to swingers clubs) and perhaps will do it more than once.
It's not that different to what your interpretation of a swinging is really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So as the subject says at which point is the barrier when swinging is not classed as Swinging? "
When the council closes the park due to ‘health and safety’ reasons
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it’s one on one. Swinging is to involve 3 or more persons.
Oh right. I'd better leave then
Honest question (and please take it as such) as we’re still genuinely figuring things out. How would you differentiate what you do as different from casual sex? Not judging the labels but I don’t get where the line is drawn (if it even is!)
For me I meet people as part of the Swinging Community on here or in my local club. I get to know them, have a social meet and if there is some chemistry, then it may or may not lead to sex. Majority of my meets are repeats, so we get to know each other over time. Casual sex is fucking for the sake of it. Hope that makes sense and answers your question.
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This is such a great answer and your first two words are what make it so, "for me" everyone sees swinging in slightly different ways, the way I see it is, swingers are couples or singles that engage in consensual sexual activities with multiple partners, this can be in group play or 1 on 1 play, it really doesn't matter how you do it, but what I find the most fascinating about it and what really makes it all worth it is the hole community side to it all and the way it brings people from all walks of life together with this amazing one thing in common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it’s married guys doing it behind their wife’s back that’s not swinging it’s adultery "
Same goes for married women doing it behind their husbands back. |
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"When it’s married guys doing it behind their wife’s back that’s not swinging it’s adultery
Same goes for married women doing it behind their husbands back."
 exactly this on both parts. Doesn’t matter which party sneaking around it’s wrong either way especially when meant to be in it together and being open with each other, communication and actually talking to each other is key |
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