We are receiving some really nice messages off people saying that they really like our profile/ love our pics and they really would love to meet up with us 
When we reply saying thank you and are interested we request a face picture.
Then Nothing!!! We find it strange that people take the time to write a lengthy message initially and then do not bother replying one we request to exchange face pictures??
Why would we meet anyone without at least seeing there face and ours too??
It is not a case of them being put off by our pictures as we request theres first. When we send an email to someone we are interested in we always attach pictures initially!
Why is this happening as it has happened on numerous occasions now. If they have made first contact it is surely there courtesy to send pictures to us first right??? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
This usually happens when.people aren't who they claim to be so single men claiming to be couples or even single women, 35year old people who are actually 55 I could go on but you get the picture.
We have been lucky to have contact from some lovely people but there have been some like this too, just keep going |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"This usually happens when.people aren't who they claim to be so single men claiming to be couples or even single women, 35year old people who are actually 55 I could go on but you get the picture.
We have been lucky to have contact from some lovely people but there have been some like this too, just keep going "
Excellent point. Guess we had not thought about that so much.
The sad thing is the profiles look very genuine  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Funny , I was thinking about this today .
I was thinking of them as time wasters , but they don't actually waste any time , they are more teasers.
We are on a couple of other sites but have only come across this here.
With us we get a wink or message saying that they like our profile etc , they are normally in their late twenties or early thirties and quite attractive so we are flattered ( mugs).
There then follows messages back and forward , a meet is suggested then utter silence .
We have met couples of that age before and had great fun but there is something odd about these ones , if they are indeed couples at all .
Getting a bit pissed off with it to be honest and go onto this site more for the forum . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
totally agree with the op its the first thing you read on our profile and the first thing we ever ask, but they wink or send a message and we ask for a face pic they either ignore you or block you so whats the point !! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This usually happens when.people aren't who they claim to be so single men claiming to be couples or even single women, 35year old people who are actually 55 I could go on but you get the picture.
We have been lucky to have contact from some lovely people but there have been some like this too, just keep going
Excellent point. Guess we had not thought about that so much.
The sad thing is the profiles look very genuine "
God only knows what kind of time-warp these skanks are living in. They obviously sit wanking over the idea they've got someone 'hooked' on the other end of the wire, but obviously if they ever met anyone the game would be up...
All you can do is report, block and move on.
Wolf
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I was thinking of them as time wasters , but they don't actually waste any time , they are more teasers.
We are on a couple of other sites but have only come across this here."
I've come across it before on other sites. It actually happened twice yesterday on another site |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hi guys
Thanks for the response. It is nice to know (in a way ) that we are not the only ones this is happening too. Haha
It really sucks when you are trying to find genuine people who you like the look of.
Which other sites would people recommend to use other than fab??
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
bare in mind some folk just copy and paste the same message time and time again!
But real people will respond 9 times out of 10 even if your not their cup of tea!
regards
M on behalf of M and J |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago
Pays de la Loire -Normandie -Brittany borderFrance |
we got let down by a couple with no recognisable pic last night .they had verifications etc .it`s not just single men .2013 we are not meeting anybody without a face pic or it`s their loss.thats how we look at it .   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"2013 we are not meeting anybody without a face pic or it`s their loss.thats how we look at it . "
We just block anyone who doesn't have a face pic to send. None of the excuses wash with us! Unless they are the PM then their job isn't important enough to stop them showing a face picture to someone they say they want to shag!
Out of interest - as we get this a fair bit - a few of you say you report people who do this. Is that the done thing? On the assumption they are not who they say they are?
We have never reported anyone for it but if others do then we will.
xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We've experienced this also and have decided to meet first time contacts at clubs or parties. If they turn up, fine, if not, it's no major problem."
We have also come to this agreement. We this this is a good approach as if they dont turn up we can have fun with just us or other couples at the club.
Again thanks for all of the posts. We have not blocked anyone as yet and only will if they become offensive/ abusive
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
we are getting like this now, social drink 1st, but if in a club and we fancy the look of you then we may play. but as for pic request thats not unreasonable on your part, they may be posing as something they are not  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
i see a lot of couples unhappy with single guys who let them down.
well im here to tell you i meet couples and i think some of you are lovely people.
just hope the efforts you guys make are rewarded by the right guys.
good luck to you all.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We are receiving some really nice messages off people saying that they really like our profile/ love our pics and they really would love to meet up with us
When we reply saying thank you and are interested we request a face picture.
Then Nothing!!! We find it strange that people take the time to write a lengthy message initially and then do not bother replying one we request to exchange face pictures??
Why would we meet anyone without at least seeing there face and ours too??
It is not a case of them being put off by our pictures as we request theres first. When we send an email to someone we are interested in we always attach pictures initially!
Why is this happening as it has happened on numerous occasions now. If they have made first contact it is surely there courtesy to send
pictures to us first right???"
They think you will reject them based on their looks sometimes people lack confidence they might not be ugly.
Just think you will see them that way its quite common especially if your message says thanks what do you look like. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
