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Ok.... So I would consider dropping the professional couples thing. People either dont mind it or hate it. A lot of people have careers so its nothing special. Just say you value and respect discretion.
5 photos....3 of which are dick pics.... In our opinion thats at least 2 to many.
The good news is you already have decent verifications which is half the battle for a single guy. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Your bio doesn’t say much about you…you’re looking for fun, you commit to meets, you plan meets in advance or do last minute…that’s pretty much standard for anyone and doesn’t tell anyone things like what you’re interested in, what you’re not interested in, what your personality’s like…it could be a bio for most of the men on here. Maybe try making it a bit more unique to you. |
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"Put something together in your bio in the following order:
1. Who you are as a person
2. What you feel you have to offer
3. What/Who are you looking for "
This with a variety of clear cock free photos. A face photo with a smile is always nice to see.
Also check your spelling and grammar... it matters as it can completely change the meaning.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello I'm new to the site and was looking for some advice as I'm not having much luck on here "
Mate u wont have any luck cauee its very hatd for anyone to stand out on here bur ur profike is empty no pics no bio nothing it looks like one that will no doubt be deletes in a few hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets |
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""another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets"
Exactly right. You look at the profiles of the steroid filled gym bods on here and see all the meet verifications they have, then look at the profiles of the "dad bods", like myself with zero verificationss and its clear what body types get all the meets on here. I'm comfortable in my dad bod with man boobs and beer belly. It's what God made me. I'm natural, no gyms, no steroids. If I'm not some people's cuppa tea, that's fine I am what I am. I'm happy in my own skin, and don't go out bench pressing to try and impress people Withe, it's waht you see is. What you get. I don't see gym bods as natural. |
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"Can you not read the other 9 similar threads on the first page of this forum to get the advice.
Or type profile advice into the search bar...you will find hundreds.
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A tad harsh in my humble opinion. Us single guys try our best on here, only to be met with constant rejection. Yet you ridicule a single guy, who like the rest of us single guys try our best in the face of constant refusal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you not read the other 9 similar threads on the first page of this forum to get the advice.
Or type profile advice into the search bar...you will find hundreds.
A tad harsh in my humble opinion. Us single guys try our best on here, only to be met with constant rejection. Yet you ridicule a single guy, who like the rest of us single guys try our best in the face of constant refusal. "
Unfortunately very few single guys make an effort in their messages. We get very few nice and thoughtful messages of single guys, Hardly get any nice ones of couples never mind single men.
Women. Well very few women actually send the first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m obviously not your target audience - but my input would be:
- Ease up on the dick pics
- Maybe showcase your personality in the words a little more - specific interests, tastes - what makes you unique?
No judgement - I’m trying to do something similar at the moment - a good time of year to raise your game 
Good luck! |
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""another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets
Exactly right. You look at the profiles of the steroid filled gym bods on here and see all the meet verifications they have, then look at the profiles of the "dad bods", like myself with zero verificationss and its clear what body types get all the meets on here. I'm comfortable in my dad bod with man boobs and beer belly. It's what God made me. I'm natural, no gyms, no steroids. If I'm not some people's cuppa tea, that's fine I am what I am. I'm happy in my own skin, and don't go out bench pressing to try and impress people Withe, it's waht you see is. What you get. I don't see gym bods as natural. "
I’m sorry but this is a cop out. I know that’s easy for me to say with the body type I have but most women you’ll find actually prefer a guy with an average/ dad bod body type. As for cock size, I have no public dick pics whatsoever so that’s completely redundant.
It’s about the way you come across, how you converse and chat with someone. Believe or not but women on here are really not that superficial, well not the ones I’ve met anyway. |
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""another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets
Exactly right. You look at the profiles of the steroid filled gym bods on here and see all the meet verifications they have, then look at the profiles of the "dad bods", like myself with zero verificationss and its clear what body types get all the meets on here. I'm comfortable in my dad bod with man boobs and beer belly. It's what God made me. I'm natural, no gyms, no steroids. If I'm not some people's cuppa tea, that's fine I am what I am. I'm happy in my own skin, and don't go out bench pressing to try and impress people Withe, it's waht you see is. What you get. I don't see gym bods as natural.
I’m sorry but this is a cop out. I know that’s easy for me to say with the body type I have but most women you’ll find actually prefer a guy with an average/ dad bod body type. As for cock size, I have no public dick pics whatsoever so that’s completely redundant.
It’s about the way you come across, how you converse and chat with someone. Believe or not but women on here are really not that superficial, well not the ones I’ve met anyway. "
That's easy to say when you have over 70 meet verifications. |
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The profile text basically says I can communicate and will show up to meets, but doesn't tell us anything about you as a person, what you like, what you offer etc.
A few more non cock pics wouldn't go amiss, especially when it means that clicking the photos button doesn't take us immediately to a throbbing weiner.
As to all the comments about you just have to have a six pack and look like an adonis, they're wrong. Yes meeting the common aesthetic will mean more initial interest, but if you can't demonstrate who you are and show some personality those are never going to turn into meets. Not all of us give a shit about body types as long as the person is interesting. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
""another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets
Exactly right. You look at the profiles of the steroid filled gym bods on here and see all the meet verifications they have, then look at the profiles of the "dad bods", like myself with zero verificationss and its clear what body types get all the meets on here. I'm comfortable in my dad bod with man boobs and beer belly. It's what God made me. I'm natural, no gyms, no steroids. If I'm not some people's cuppa tea, that's fine I am what I am. I'm happy in my own skin, and don't go out bench pressing to try and impress people Withe, it's waht you see is. What you get. I don't see gym bods as natural. "
People don't use the gyms too impress others, they go to get the benefits of a healthy lifestyle and bonus is the outcome |
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""another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets
Exactly right. You look at the profiles of the steroid filled gym bods on here and see all the meet verifications they have, then look at the profiles of the "dad bods", like myself with zero verificationss and its clear what body types get all the meets on here. I'm comfortable in my dad bod with man boobs and beer belly. It's what God made me. I'm natural, no gyms, no steroids. If I'm not some people's cuppa tea, that's fine I am what I am. I'm happy in my own skin, and don't go out bench pressing to try and impress people Withe, it's waht you see is. What you get. I don't see gym bods as natural.
I’m sorry but this is a cop out. I know that’s easy for me to say with the body type I have but most women you’ll find actually prefer a guy with an average/ dad bod body type. As for cock size, I have no public dick pics whatsoever so that’s completely redundant.
It’s about the way you come across, how you converse and chat with someone. Believe or not but women on here are really not that superficial, well not the ones I’ve met anyway.
That's easy to say when you have over 70 meet verifications. "
Pretty much all of which came from deciding to step away from the phone screen and get myself out there attending clubs. The point I was trying to make is you get out what you put in. |
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""another one" (DJ Khaled) voice..... You could literally write your whole life story or simply write nothing and it wouldn't make any difference, buuuut abs and a big dick you'll have to schedule the meets
Exactly right. You look at the profiles of the steroid filled gym bods on here and see all the meet verifications they have, then look at the profiles of the "dad bods", like myself with zero verificationss and its clear what body types get all the meets on here. I'm comfortable in my dad bod with man boobs and beer belly. It's what God made me. I'm natural, no gyms, no steroids. If I'm not some people's cuppa tea, that's fine I am what I am. I'm happy in my own skin, and don't go out bench pressing to try and impress people Withe, it's waht you see is. What you get. I don't see gym bods as natural.
I’m sorry but this is a cop out. I know that’s easy for me to say with the body type I have but most women you’ll find actually prefer a guy with an average/ dad bod body type. As for cock size, I have no public dick pics whatsoever so that’s completely redundant.
It’s about the way you come across, how you converse and chat with someone. Believe or not but women on here are really not that superficial, well not the ones I’ve met anyway.
That's easy to say when you have over 70 meet verifications.
Pretty much all of which came from deciding to step away from the phone screen and get myself out there attending clubs. The point I was trying to make is you get out what you put in. "
Anyone who bashes you has the kind of attitude that's extremely off-putting |
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