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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
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Photo rules state that permission must be sought by everyone in the photo. Report the photos and let admin deal with it  |
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I've been looking at the local updates page a lot and I've seen this from a few local men. There's no way of knowing if these people consented to their photos being shared this way. Makes me uneasy. I wouldn't do it myself. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
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If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
Photo rules state that permission must be sought by everyone in the photo. Report the photos and let admin deal with it "
Thanks. They have removed it after I noticed/asked, but their response was 'you are not identifiable / they own the pic as they took it'. Glad to know fabs rules are that permission is still needed. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends if pics are recognisable as me. If not, I'd be flattered personally. However I understand it possibly being frowned upon as it is a bit cheeky"
Its more graphic than I would be comfortable sharing publicly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken "
Do you mean being consented between you, is consent for any use? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate action shots on men’s profiles and many are without permission and men who haven’t even got Beria have them. I’d ask them to remove immediately or report them "
Whenever I ask men who the woman is on their pics they always say it's their ex.
 Hmm yeah right an ex gave permission for their pic to be used as sex bait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
Photo rules state that permission must be sought by everyone in the photo. Report the photos and let admin deal with it
Thanks. They have removed it after I noticed/asked, but their response was 'you are not identifiable / they own the pic as they took it'. Glad to know fabs rules are that permission is still needed. Thank you "
I hope you called him out as the cheeky cunt he is. Also let him know what he did was potential against the law if your agreement was only for private use between just you 2.
Sorry you went through this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys, gals, be quite specific about the rules for taking pics and vids as "for your own personal use" makes it legitimate to post on their own personal profile while "for your own personal viewing" is a different kettle of fish.
Sad that manners are a fast disappearing thing because I have no prob with posting meet pics on my personal profile BUT would not dream of using one without sending a copy to everyone in the item, identifiable or not, and obtaining everyone's consent for the intended use. It's just a simple extension of the consideration given/expected during the meet.
Just a reminder that even if you are not identifiable but the meet is at your place, the surroundings may identify you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys, gals, be quite specific about the rules for taking pics and vids as "for your own personal use" makes it legitimate to post on their own personal profile while "for your own personal viewing" is a different kettle of fish.
Sad that manners are a fast disappearing thing because I have no prob with posting meet pics on my personal profile BUT would not dream of using one without sending a copy to everyone in the item, identifiable or not, and obtaining everyone's consent for the intended use. It's just a simple extension of the consideration given/expected during the meet.
Just a reminder that even if you are not identifiable but the meet is at your place, the surroundings may identify you."
Clearly I was not specific enough. Thanks for this, very helpful. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken
Do you mean being consented between you, is consent for any use? "
Between the two who must have discussed and either agreed and how If was placed on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken
Do you mean being consented between you, is consent for any use?
Between the two who must have discussed and either agreed and how If was placed on here "
They didnt discuss it with me before putting it on their profile. At the time, it was taken to be a moment captured/remembered for us, and not shared. |
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No, I wouldn’t be happy with that. Taking an intimate photo to be kept as a momento on a personal device is different to sharing it on public pics here. If that’s what they were intending to do with it, they should have made that clear at the time (or checked with you before posting it) so you could say you were ok with it or not. |
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When we have taken photos of a meet, we have always swapped them and checked that everyone is happy with them.
Under no circumstances would we ever post a photo without prior agreement and would always ensure that no recognisable features are displayed. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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consent can also be about who can show the photo and where just because someone was ok taking the pic and gave consent does not mean its been consented to show anywhere or everywhere the new laws cover that ...
so if a boyfriend took some pics that were consented and later on decieds to show them else where then hes basically in trouble same applies to swingers and others this thinking they own once consented is false and everyone is right to challenge just because you gave consent does not mean they can do what ever they wish with it ... fab knows that and thats why they act
these new laws cover every angle so that people cannot be embarrassed or exploited even when at the time taken the pics were consented
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"I've been looking at the local updates page a lot and I've seen this from a few local men. There's no way of knowing if these people consented to their photos being shared this way. Makes me uneasy. I wouldn't do it myself."
When I see a male profile with pics of loads of different women that he is having fun with and there is very little to no verifications always makes me think there was no consent given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under new laws that are coming in, posting any nudes of someone, without permission, will be dealt with as harshly as revenge porn.
So be warned"
The lawyers and cash junkies will have a field day on here once the first few cases are done. On the flip side, always be very careful at meets. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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So I do have a few photos of me with others that permission was gained at the time, there are 3 or 4 when other person is in public photo - buts it’s a hand or top of head so hard to identify
Yes I do have private photos that may be more explicit. Then I have photos for personal usage which have persons full face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"consent can also be about who can show the photo and where just because someone was ok taking the pic and gave consent does not mean its been consented to show anywhere or everywhere the new laws cover that ...
so if a boyfriend took some pics that were consented and later on decieds to show them else where then hes basically in trouble same applies to swingers and others this thinking they own once consented is false and everyone is right to challenge just because you gave consent does not mean they can do what ever they wish with it ... fab knows that and thats why they act
these new laws cover every angle so that people cannot be embarrassed or exploited even when at the time taken the pics were consented
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
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Definitely not on. Illegal also I think. Name and shame the culprit to warn others.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess without explicit consent of 'yes I'm happy for you to share these pics on ABC or with xyz' a person cannot ever assume they are for anyone's eyes but their own.
I also don't think legal copyright or not being identifible (subject to opinion) trumps explicit consent, either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes I do have private photos that may be more explicit. Then I have photos for personal usage which have persons full face
When you say for personal use do you mean for wanking"
Others have indicated personal use as including their personal profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only myself in my gallery is my go to rule. Meet partner out of shot. I don’t think it’s ok to show other people in your own gallery (just my opinion of course). |
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I haven't read the whole thread so forgive me if this has already been said but nothing should be posted without consent.
The other people in my pics, both friends only and public, have given their consent even if they are not identifiable. |
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"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?
Thoughts? TIA xo
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Illegal |
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We do have pics posted of meets in our public gallery, but for each and everyone of them we sought permission from those that appear in them. Likewise for pics that are posted of us on others profiles, it’s just common decency. We’d be absolutely furious if someone posted pics of us without seeking permission. Not sure where the law sits with this one, but if it’s not illegal, it certainly should be. |
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