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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for the ladies:
On a meet with a new guy how do you indicate that you enjoy your ass being fucked?"
In our relationship,only Mr gets to fuck my arse. But even the first time I did with him, I told him that's what I wanted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's normal beforehand to have a conversation about dos and don'ts and that's normally where it comes up. "
Absolutely about having that conversation in the build up  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I think there should be an internationally recognised signal for a woman to indicate that she likes anal sex. The woman would be able to make the signal at any time and then there wouldn’t be any doubt.
Image if you hooked up with a woman who spoke very limited English so was unable to tell you that she likes anal sex and because you didn’t know she likes it you don’t do it and you miss out on having anal sex. No one wants to miss out on having anal sex and with the introduction of the internationally recognised signal for ‘I like anal sex’ no one would ever miss out on it again. |
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"I think there should be an internationally recognised signal for a woman to indicate that she likes anal sex. The woman would be able to make the signal at any time and then there wouldn’t be any doubt.
Image if you hooked up with a woman who spoke very limited English so was unable to tell you that she likes anal sex and because you didn’t know she likes it you don’t do it and you miss out on having anal sex. No one wants to miss out on having anal sex and with the introduction of the internationally recognised signal for ‘I like anal sex’ no one would ever miss out on it again. "
1. I think there should be an internationally recognised signal for a man to indicate that he is genuinely really hot in bed. The man would be able to make the signal at any time and then there wouldn’t be any doubt.
Image if you hooked up with a man who spoke very limited English so was unable to tell you that he was really hot in bed and because you didn’t know he was smart, respectful and hot in bed you don’t do it and you miss out on having really hot sex. No one wants to miss out on having really hot sex and with the introduction of the internationally recognised signal for ‘I am genuinely really hot in bed’ no one would ever miss out on won't-walk-for-days sex again.
2. If a man touches or licks my bumin during sex and I don't bat his hand away, there's a good chance I'm either interested or I'm tied up (in which case we would have discussed this beforehand). |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I think there should be an internationally recognised signal for a woman to indicate that she likes anal sex. The woman would be able to make the signal at any time and then there wouldn’t be any doubt.
Image if you hooked up with a woman who spoke very limited English so was unable to tell you that she likes anal sex and because you didn’t know she likes it you don’t do it and you miss out on having anal sex. No one wants to miss out on having anal sex and with the introduction of the internationally recognised signal for ‘I like anal sex’ no one would ever miss out on it again.
1. I think there should be an internationally recognised signal for a man to indicate that he is genuinely really hot in bed. The man would be able to make the signal at any time and then there wouldn’t be any doubt.
Image if you hooked up with a man who spoke very limited English so was unable to tell you that he was really hot in bed and because you didn’t know he was smart, respectful and hot in bed you don’t do it and you miss out on having really hot sex. No one wants to miss out on having really hot sex and with the introduction of the internationally recognised signal for ‘I am genuinely really hot in bed’ no one would ever miss out on won't-walk-for-days sex again.
2. If a man touches or licks my bumin during sex and I don't bat his hand away, there's a good chance I'm either interested or I'm tied up (in which case we would have discussed this beforehand)."
This could be useful as well but, although I’m not totally against the idea, there is an issue with how hot a man is in bed being more of an opinion than a fact. A man could claim to be hot in bed when he actually isn’t or a man could have an amazing sexual connection with one woman so she’d think he was hot in bed but zero sexual connection with a different woman who wouldn’t think he was hot in bed. You’ll also probably end up with men using the signal just to tempt women into bed.
Whether a woman likes anal sex or not is a definitive yes/no question and also there’s little chance of the answer stopping a man from wanting to sleep with the woman regardless of whether she gives the signal or not. |
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"Whether a woman likes anal sex or not is a definitive yes/no question and also "
If you're so understanding of women and their always-binary natures, why do you need a signal?
"Likes" is not the same as "wants during sex" which is not the same as "wants from you". If your middle name is Tripod there are only 2 chances you will ever get anal sex.
Oh bless you and your insight into 4bn women.
"there’s little chance of the answer stopping a man from wanting to sleep with the woman regardless of whether she gives the signal or not. "
And bless you again and your insight into 4bn men.
#notallgeneralisations |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Whether a woman likes anal sex or not is a definitive yes/no question and also
If you're so understanding of women and their always-binary natures, why do you need a signal?
"Likes" is not the same as "wants during sex" which is not the same as "wants from you". If your middle name is Tripod there are only 2 chances you will ever get anal sex.
Oh bless you and your insight into 4bn women.
there’s little chance of the answer stopping a man from wanting to sleep with the woman regardless of whether she gives the signal or not.
And bless you again and your insight into 4bn men.
#notallgeneralisations"
I was being sarcastic by the way, I don’t seriously think that there should be an internationally recognised signal for whether a woman likes anal sex or not, I just thought that the opening message was so ridiculous that it deserved a ridiculous reply. I sensed that your reply to my message was sarcastic as well so I carried it on with another sarcastic reply.
Sorry if I’ve annoyed you, I honestly just meant it as a joke and didn’t intend to annoy or offend anyone. |
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In the past...
I've had a strong hint and virtual play during sexting, this was followed by the real thing when we met;
It has been asked for (again before meeting);
I've been told "I want to try anal";
I complimented a gf on her sexy bum and got the reply "you can fuck it if you want?" |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"In the past...
I've had a strong hint and virtual play during sexting, this was followed by the real thing when we met;
It has been asked for (again before meeting);
I've been told "I want to try anal";
I complimented a gf on her sexy bum and got the reply "you can fuck it if you want?""
So if you have a ‘strong hint’ that a woman likes anal would you try to do it without asking first? |
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"In the past...
I've had a strong hint and virtual play during sexting, this was followed by the real thing when we met;
It has been asked for (again before meeting);
I've been told "I want to try anal";
I complimented a gf on her sexy bum and got the reply "you can fuck it if you want?"
So if you have a ‘strong hint’ that a woman likes anal would you try to do it without asking first?"
In that case, after the virtual play she started a conversation about anal, explaining it was something she liked but was very shy about asking for, so she was glad I picked up on her hint. When we were together she responded very positively to having her rear entrance caressed (as opposed to a lady who doesn't like anal, as a caress approaches that area, will say "not there", and we move on to something we do like). As with all things it's about taking notice of what your partner responds to - or not. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"In the past...
I've had a strong hint and virtual play during sexting, this was followed by the real thing when we met;
It has been asked for (again before meeting);
I've been told "I want to try anal";
I complimented a gf on her sexy bum and got the reply "you can fuck it if you want?"
So if you have a ‘strong hint’ that a woman likes anal would you try to do it without asking first?
In that case, after the virtual play she started a conversation about anal, explaining it was something she liked but was very shy about asking for, so she was glad I picked up on her hint. When we were together she responded very positively to having her rear entrance caressed (as opposed to a lady who doesn't like anal, as a caress approaches that area, will say "not there", and we move on to something we do like). As with all things it's about taking notice of what your partner responds to - or not."
That’s for explaining, I can tell you’re a very experienced and considerate lover |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think there should be an internationally recognised signal for a woman to indicate that she likes anal sex. The woman would be able to make the signal at any time and then there wouldn’t be any doubt.
Image if you hooked up with a woman who spoke very limited English so was unable to tell you that she likes anal sex and because you didn’t know she likes it you don’t do it and you miss out on having anal sex. No one wants to miss out on having anal sex and with the introduction of the internationally recognised signal for ‘I like anal sex’ no one would ever miss out on it again. "
Don't really need to speak fluent English to learn to say "fuck my arse"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it hasn't been discussed before the meet then ask.
It's as simple as that.
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Exactly - it really is as simple as that in my opinion. You don't ask, you don't get...I wouldn't be jumping into bed with anyone, male or female or both, without a conversation about what we like and don't like
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