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By *avink OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey swingers, I've been on here for a while, I'm a genuine decent guy, but have had no luck meeting up with anyone, just wondering if you have any tips? Is it something to do with my profile? Or the fact I have no verifications? Any advice would be appreciated.
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"Hey swingers, I've been on here for a while, I'm a genuine decent guy, but have had no luck meeting up with anyone, just wondering if you have any tips? Is it something to do with my profile? Or the fact I have no verifications? Any advice would be appreciated.
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Hi OP.
If you hope to meet from here, think of your profile as your shop window. At present it really just says "I'm a man who wants to have sex with a woman". There's nothing that would make someone stop and think they want to know more.
I'd also question whether you'd really want to meet a lady in her 90s...
If you're a social person, you'll have a much better chance at a club.
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Get to a club, be friendly and make an effort to say hello to hosts. Get a verification or two from that.
One way to see clubs near you go to 'Club Reviews' section on here, it's categorised by area.
Good luck, also send face pic on your first message, (i write in subject face pic inside) or something like that if you see / read a profile that you're interested by. Irrespective how your message is, women on here get absolutely hounded by guys, so you'll likely be swept aside without one. And 99.9% of time, dont send a pic of your tackle.
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OP the odds on this site are incredibly against single men.
Don't take personally even well verified guys struggle to get meets here.
Clubs and socials can be a way forward but bear in mind the former is also very trick.
If you are shy, cannot approach couples to initiate a conversation and does not understand clubs etiquette you are likely to be disappointed.
Also you need to find the right club they are not all the same trust me, I visited quite a few before finding out the ones I feel welcome and people attending have a lot in common with me. |
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This site is geared towards couples and women and that's the truth. Its pretty much a shit sandwich for the single male. You'd fair much better in clubs - check out the reviews section.
I dont message people anymore bc its a massive waste for the little time I have free every week to spend messaging people. I'm naturally a shy person anyway and find it easier to actually talk to people face to face rather send awkward back and forth messages saying cringe, awful stuff.
I spend my time just searching Meets/clubs/parties or just reading the Forum which is good entertainment for me. And I'm pretty much happy with that. Occasionally someone will say hi and that's when you get to work. You have to make the most of the sandwich. |
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"This site is geared towards couples and women and that's the truth. Its pretty much a shit sandwich for the single male. You'd fair much better in clubs - check out the reviews section.
I dont message people anymore bc its a massive waste for the little time I have free every week to spend messaging people. I'm naturally a shy person anyway and find it easier to actually talk to people face to face rather send awkward back and forth messages saying cringe, awful stuff.
I spend my time just searching Meets/clubs/parties or just reading the Forum which is good entertainment for me. And I'm pretty much happy with that. Occasionally someone will say hi and that's when you get to work. You have to make the most of the sandwich. "
You seem to be doing better than most of us single guys on here..... You have actually had a meet. |
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