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Does our profile put you off (couples)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile seems ok.
The fact your only looking for doing last minute meets (whilst fine if that's how you roll) will stop a significant percentage of couples been able to meet you.
Especially couples like ourselves who have children. Due to childcare needs we have to plan any adventures at the very least a few days in advance.
The lets me now / in the next hour or 2 as we are horny / in the mood tends to work better with single guys a, due to the sheer numbers of them and b, many will have the lifestyle flexibility to allow them to meet at short notice.
Just to add we have been swinging pre children and post children as a couple so are speaking from our experiences.
Good luck on your adventures xx
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Profile seems ok.
The fact your only looking for doing last minute meets (whilst fine if that's how you roll) will stop a significant percentage of couples been able to meet you.
Especially couples like ourselves who have children. Due to childcare needs we have to plan any adventures at the very least a few days in advance.
The lets me now / in the next hour or 2 as we are horny / in the mood tends to work better with single guys a, due to the sheer numbers of them and b, many will have the lifestyle flexibility to allow them to meet at short notice.
Just to add we have been swinging pre children and post children as a couple so are speaking from our experiences.
Good luck on your adventures xx
KJ "
We'll have add that we can plan ahead too x |
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As a guy (who I appreciate you’re not after) but then one thing that could raise a query is that you’ve only been verified by 1 guy 6 months ago presumably when you set the profile up & as you’re after couples or a female some may think you’re one of those mainly it’s the male couples of which there are lots on here…
Just making the point as you were asking for constructive criticism… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a guy (who I appreciate you’re not after) but then one thing that could raise a query is that you’ve only been verified by 1 guy 6 months ago presumably when you set the profile up & as you’re after couples or a female some may think you’re one of those mainly it’s the male couples of which there are lots on here…
Just making the point as you were asking for constructive criticism…"
We dropped the old profile during lockdown when the site became full of dreamers and attention seekers , the old one was running for 6 year ,we now tend to pick up and drop the profile when needed , fab and the lifestyle can and does take over you social life if you let it, so we agreed this time around to be a bit more chilled ..lol
But thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?
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No, there is nothing that puts me off.
Him x"
Thanks ....the reason behind asking is we get a lot of couples taking a look at us and then again but dont message , |
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"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?
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No, there is nothing that puts me off.
Him x
Thanks ....the reason behind asking is we get a lot of couples taking a look at us and then again but dont message , "
Nope, there is nothing off putting x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks good to us.
Honestly, reading the forums and seeing so many opposing views on what a profile should look like, I think you just have to go with what you are happy with and if it attracts less people but you get what you want then it’s all good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looks good to us.
Honestly, reading the forums and seeing so many opposing views on what a profile should look like, I think you just have to go with what you are happy with and if it attracts less people but you get what you want then it’s all good. "
Very true ...lets face it we are here for fun and not to become performing dogs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?
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No, there is nothing that puts me off.
Maybe they are intimidated buy ur beautiy and both or ur sex appeal... i as asingle man (not ur target demographic) saw ur body and thought well id never hae a shot hahaha ur smoking hot xx
But ur profile is mint
Him x
Thanks ....the reason behind asking is we get a lot of couples taking a look at us and then again but dont message , "
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The last minute meets comment would be a game changer as we need some degree of planning and find many couples the same.
No verifications would make us be a little cautious although not the end of the world.
Other than that it’s ok.  |
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"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?
Xx "
The only thing is your lack of verifications, we only reply if we can see some verifications from others that are verified. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We understand the above comments ,like we said before we arent new , just a bit more casual this time round , not in a rush to fill the veris up, to be honest its a bit off putting seeing lots of veris , as for lack of info on the profile ,we like to be straight forward , but thanks its all good stuff and by the looks of it theres nothing wrong
Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X |
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"We understand the above comments ,like we said before we arent new , just a bit more casual this time round , not in a rush to fill the veris up, to be honest its a bit off putting seeing lots of veris , as for lack of info on the profile ,we like to be straight forward , but thanks its all good stuff and by the looks of it theres nothing wrong
Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X"
You don't need to rush getting veris, but they will massively increase your chances of getting meets. We assume our amount of veris aren't off putting as you winked us three weeks ago  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We understand the above comments ,like we said before we arent new , just a bit more casual this time round , not in a rush to fill the veris up, to be honest its a bit off putting seeing lots of veris , as for lack of info on the profile ,we like to be straight forward , but thanks its all good stuff and by the looks of it theres nothing wrong
Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X
You don't need to rush getting veris, but they will massively increase your chances of getting meets. We assume our amount of veris aren't off putting as you winked us three weeks ago "
And you didnt wink back ...lol |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Not your target audience but.
You have 3 public and 50 private photos.
Can you not add a few more public so people can get a sense of who you are.
Your bio wording could do with some work.
You can say you prefer short notice meets, but can plan ahead if the connection is there.
I dislike the “single guys we will find you” line. It may be the truth, but just use message filters if needed. It smacks of entitlement.
Your bio doesn’t give much away about what you both like and can offer to others. |
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"We understand the above comments ,like we said before we arent new , just a bit more casual this time round , not in a rush to fill the veris up, to be honest its a bit off putting seeing lots of veris , as for lack of info on the profile ,we like to be straight forward , but thanks its all good stuff and by the looks of it theres nothing wrong
Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X
You don't need to rush getting veris, but they will massively increase your chances of getting meets. We assume our amount of veris aren't off putting as you winked us three weeks ago
And you didnt wink back ...lol "
We definitely would have if you had a few good veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only thing we find off putting is the lack of feedbacks (veris, what ever they're called). We don't have many ourselves as we haven't swung much in the year or so since we started. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
profile is fine nothing to put anyone off at all as for last minute meets i think the majority of swinging couples meet this way ..it dont seem like that because of the forums but thats such a tiny tiny part of the scene most of the couples we know and have meet over the many year are mostly spontaneous meet .ers |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off?"
Could do with a few more pics and a clearer one of the guy. Lack of verifications after six months might make us doubtful.
Specifically due to the way we play, we'd be unsure if you'd both be happy playing with just Char while Bry watched, as Bry doesn't play with other women.
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The last minute wouldn’t work for us but you have stated you can arrange in advance also. Your profile name is brilliant and would definitely appeal to us although we’re some distance away. We also prefer lots of photos that clearly show both people with couple profiles.
C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nice profile , the only thing we don't like is dick pics. Do prefer sexy underwear shots
, but that's what we like and not necessarily other couples on here .
It's an A form us xx |
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We always try to ensure that our profile updated regularly and that our photos show a little of what we like. It’s our way of ‘selling ourselves’ to like-minded potential playmates.
It’s also the reason why we often load new photos to help attract attention x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont get us wrong we get plenty of couples wanting to meet , its the ones who keep looking but never message that confusing x "
Maybe they fear rejection or you're not what they're looking for, or not what they're looking for right now.
Sometimes it's just one of a couple online and they won't message until they're with thier partner and we'll, we all know how profile's can get lost in the noise here.
We get lots of looks with no message, doesn't put us off though.  |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
Buckley North Wales |
For most folk your profile is simple and straightforward which is fine. Nice tasteful pics.
Maybe a bit light on info, while for many younger folk (under 50) meeting at short notice can be tricky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is only our opinion and take no offence. Rather see possible improvements.
Lack of public pictures. The few girl pics, great, would prefer more. One pic of a flaccid dick? Not so great.
When we look at couples, we look for well kept couples and judge the male as much as the lady. If we were to meet and swap with a couple, we both have to like the girl and the man.
Nothing turns us off more than a single flaccid penis picture. Usually the girl is presented beautifully but the male isn't. I think both are equally as important.
Perhaps it's your thing, last minute meets but there isn't much to go by really from the bio. |
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You have a nice profile, nothing that would put us off.
Don’t get too disheartened, lots of us like to ‘window shop’ on here, but it would be virtually impossible to meet everyone on here that you liked the look of, be happy that your profile is actually getting so many views. |
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