Hi everyone. I seem to be developing a small issue. When it's just rhi and I together sex is amazing but I do need direct penile stimulation to get hard.
With others we play with it's worst. It's like my penis knows it's not rhi and won't play nice. Lol. I don't feel under pressure as such and am usually very turned on but either getting of fully maintaining an erection is difficult. I am on daily tadalifil for general ed due to some medical issues but even this isn't helping. I get testosterone injections every 10 weeks but no difference. When it works it works well and I do try many other things to make sure our play friends are happy. It's just getting frustrating as it's mostly when we play with others that I have the issues.
Has anyone got any advice to overcome this? Communication isn't an issue as we both talk about everything. I'm just at a loss |
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"You're still able to enjoy sex with your partner. Is that not enough?"
It is for just us but when we play with other I don't want to disappoint. And it's also starting to happen in our own times together. She says she doesn't mind but I do. I really enjoy sex and mostly get off on the reaction of others over my own pleasure. |
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"Hi everyone. I seem to be developing a small issue. When it's just rhi and I together sex is amazing but I do need direct penile stimulation to get hard.
With others we play with it's worst. It's like my penis knows it's not rhi and won't play nice. Lol. I don't feel under pressure as such and am usually very turned on but either getting of fully maintaining an erection is difficult. I am on daily tadalifil for general ed due to some medical issues but even this isn't helping. I get testosterone injections every 10 weeks but no difference. When it works it works well and I do try many other things to make sure our play friends are happy. It's just getting frustrating as it's mostly when we play with others that I have the issues.
Has anyone got any advice to overcome this? Communication isn't an issue as we both talk about everything. I'm just at a loss"
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Would rather avoid needles lol. I do think it's a mental block but don't know how to address it of even confirm that's what's going on. As I said I'm definitely turned on during our meets and we have a couple of friends that are stunning and so much fun. I never feel pressure to perform and still have fun but want my chap to behave himself and let me lol |
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"Would rather avoid needles lol. I do think it's a mental block but don't know how to address it of even confirm that's what's going on. As I said I'm definitely turned on during our meets and we have a couple of friends that are stunning and so much fun. I never feel pressure to perform and still have fun but want my chap to behave himself and let me lol"
I have the exact same issue and no idea why.
It has to be nerves and performance anxiety.
Needles are scarry but I would rather that than not be up for the job.
And that will definitely get you up and keep you up.
Need any info PM me I'm happy to chat about it |
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What test injection every 10 weeks? Has to be nebido for that timing
I have prescribed gel and to be fair it's OK but also supplement depending on training with sustanon 300 and NPP (150and50 every 4 days) |
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"What test injection every 10 weeks? Has to be nebido for that timing
I have prescribed gel and to be fair it's OK but also supplement depending on training with sustanon 300 and NPP (150and50 every 4 days) "
It is nebido. I was on tostran gel for a while but the nebido has worked better. It's weird how the mind works. I feel fine when playing but he just won't play ball lol. |
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"Hi everyone. I seem to be developing a small issue. When it's just rhi and I together sex is amazing but I do need direct penile stimulation to get hard.
With others we play with it's worst. It's like my penis knows it's not rhi and won't play nice. Lol. I don't feel under pressure as such and am usually very turned on but either getting of fully maintaining an erection is difficult. I am on daily tadalifil for general ed due to some medical issues but even this isn't helping. I get testosterone injections every 10 weeks but no difference. When it works it works well and I do try many other things to make sure our play friends are happy. It's just getting frustrating as it's mostly when we play with others that I have the issues.
Has anyone got any advice to overcome this? Communication isn't an issue as we both talk about everything. I'm just at a loss"
Lose some weight and get your cholesterol level down, blocked blood vessels = floppy dick, a healthy diet is a good start  |
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"Hi everyone. I seem to be developing a small issue. When it's just rhi and I together sex is amazing but I do need direct penile stimulation to get hard.
With others we play with it's worst. It's like my penis knows it's not rhi and won't play nice. Lol. I don't feel under pressure as such and am usually very turned on but either getting of fully maintaining an erection is difficult. I am on daily tadalifil for general ed due to some medical issues but even this isn't helping. I get testosterone injections every 10 weeks but no difference. When it works it works well and I do try many other things to make sure our play friends are happy. It's just getting frustrating as it's mostly when we play with others that I have the issues.
Has anyone got any advice to overcome this? Communication isn't an issue as we both talk about everything. I'm just at a loss
Lose some weight and get your cholesterol level down, blocked blood vessels = floppy dick, a healthy diet is a good start "
I do eat healthy. I know it doesn't look like it though. I don't have sugar, I eat once a day but I have a condition called bilesalt acid malabsorption. Bam for short. It causes food to go right through me. Think constant runs. It slows your motablilism and forces you into starvation mode so I hold onto everything I eat. Wish it was just an excuse as at least I could fix that lol. I'm a happy soul with a few medical issues that I don't let get me down. I should be a wreck but I only get one life so I am going to love the hell out of it. |
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