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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Second time on this site. Not getting much interest as I haven't got any verification's.
Go to chams occasionally but would like to generate more interest on my profile.
Any tips / constructive critism on my page would be welcomed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Second time on this site. Not getting much interest as I haven't got any verification's.
Go to chams occasionally but would like to generate more interest on my profile.
Any tips / constructive critism on my page would be welcomed "
But you are verified? So if you feel the problem is the lack of public verifications just show the one you've got?
And surely you know people at Chams who are on here and could verify you?
That said your profile is pretty crap, personally I wouldn't have read past the status. And a 37 year old that can;t cheat is going to be suspected as cheating if their profile doesn't eplain why not? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've not had any meets on here yet. Yes profile is poor but can you explain why its crap lol
I used to generate a lot of interest when I had a couples page.
At Chams I normally do pretty well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating ? Not following you ?
Sorry, slight mental block - I meant anyone that can;t accomodate is going to be viewed as a cheat."
a whole heap of reasons why people cant accommodate - is this guilty conscience speaaking
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating ? Not following you ?
Sorry, slight mental block - I meant anyone that can;t accomodate is going to be viewed as a cheat.
a whole heap of reasons why people cant accommodate - is this guilty conscience speaaking
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Sorry can you expand on that? It's just as a couple that can accommodate I really fail to see the point you are attempting to make?
But it is a recurrent theme on singlemen asking for advice on their profiles that not being able to accommodate is always going to make things hard for them And it is also a recurrent theme that rightly or wrongly without an explanation not being able to accommodate will potentially be seen as cheating. |
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When I see this kind of post I feel they are just trying to generate traffic to their page.
A bit like google ad's!!
Your profile is your own and you make the best profile to attract what you are looking for!
There is no right or wrong but in your case as a single man you have to have a profile better than the thousands of other single men looking for a meet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was actually just trying to get assistance but there some stuck up and nasty people out there for which I don't need there help.
Thank you everyone else for there positive comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was actually just trying to get assistance but there some stuck up and nasty people out there for which I don't need there help.
Thank you everyone else for there positive comments "
Assuming that was directed at Pathfinders, they do have a fairly valid point. You've acknowledged that your profile is poor so you must have seen some that you realise are good. Is it really that difficult?
And being abusive, and your profile is similarly aggressive at one point really won't win you any friends. |
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"Was actually just trying to get assistance but there some stuck up and nasty people out there for which I don't need there help.
Thank you everyone else for there positive comments
Assuming that was directed at Pathfinders, they do have a fairly valid point. You've acknowledged that your profile is poor so you must have seen some that you realise are good. Is it really that difficult?
And being abusive, and your profile is similarly aggressive at one point really won't win you any friends."
Well said above.
Stuck Up?? NO just honest in what we see. You asked a question and received a response. Saying your profile was shit and ours was much better would be stuck up.
Do not post on the forums if you expect every response to be positive. Objective and/or critical are sometimes the best responses to receive. Do not ask for peoples opinions if you are upset by what you hear.
I would have said crap and rubbish profile comments may have upset you more than me stating a point that you are just trying to generate traffic to your page but then i guess your quote:- Not a snob but also do have some respect for my self and like to respect others does give me the impression of
Do not message me if your ugly I am far too good for you!!!!
Anyways best of luck. I know we would not want to meet a guy who has set his age range from 18 to 99. Meeting a 90 year old person at your age would be a put off for us but then maybe you are respecting your elders!! (sorry I may have given you some constructive advice there to change your age range to a sensible thought out range scale)
no offence intended if you wish to further question my 'stuck up-ness'
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