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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
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From what I've heard people tend to regret the things they didn't do more than those that they did.
Having said that, this could be quite a big step/change in your relationship that will have lasting effects (whether it's continued or not). So, lots of honest and open conversations together about what you both really want, and maybe taking some baby steps/dipping of the toes in the water as you progress.
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"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"
You've been asking this question for a year now. Why so many posts from you on the same topic? |
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"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"
Following your green arrow or does seem like your not too sure, if you are a jealous type or not 100% then don't do it.
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"
My view is I would rather regret trying it than later saying I wish I had tried it. |
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Yes but maybe not the kind you are thinking of.
There were situations in our swinging life where moments happened where we could have done even more extreme and more kinky things but hesitated. And the opportunity passes |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
"Yes but maybe not the kind you are thinking of.
There were situations in our swinging life where moments happened where we could have done even more extreme and more kinky things but hesitated. And the opportunity passes"
Never say never! New opportunities may yet arise... ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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No regrets but some things/meets not to be repeated and lessons learnt.
Only advice we have been given and pass on freely. Set your own boundries listern and talk to one another only agree if you are both on the same page all if this before any meeting. That will mean neither of you take one for the team and reduce the risk of not having fun.
So enjoy the adventure. |
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over a year ago
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"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"
46 weeks ago you asked the same question, people tried to help you then and you're still asking time and again.
I struggle to know what you're looking to accomplish.
By now you should have a couple's profile and take it at both of your paces, that'll be my advice.
Good luck
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"No regrets but some things/meets not to be repeated and lessons learnt.
Only advice we have been given and pass on freely. Set your own boundries listern and talk to one another only agree if you are both on the same page all if this before any meeting. That will mean neither of you take one for the team and reduce the risk of not having fun.
So enjoy the adventure."
actually talk to each other and don’t carry on behind the others back if you’ve any self respect or respect for them. Communication is key and will probably open more doors for you if you put the effort in instead of hiding on here keep asking the same question as others have commented on. |
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