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Reclaim sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after you or your partner have been with someone else do you have reclaim sex that night or soon?

For you what is it about?

Is it due to what you witnessed if you saw what they had been doing and how turned on it made you?

Is it literally reclaiming your partner and lover?

Have you ever had a meet where the "reclaim sex" was later or absent was that due to what you witnessed being so good nothing was lost and so nothing to claim back?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I've always been curious about the whole reclaim sex, it sounds fun although never happen for is, we're usually tired post meet and fall asleep

Mrs

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By *he LsCouple over a year ago

East Midlands

Rather than reclaim it's more reconnecting, will often have sex after she has played with a guy in a club. We always have sex straight after getting home from a club, that is often the hottest sex we ever have, even when we are shattered.

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By *anes HubbyCouple over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Picking Jane up from a meet with a regular guy we've known for some time, smelling the sex on her as we drive home is unbeatable.

Jane is always super confident and super cocky when we get home and it's always the best sex we ever have.

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By *ob P44Man over a year ago

Bridgewater

As already said it's reconnecting. My ex would see her regular FWB and we'd have fantastic sex when she came home. But I love the feel of being second, I know not everyone does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've always been curious about the whole reclaim sex, it sounds fun although never happen for is, we're usually tired post meet and fall asleep

Mrs "

I like this to me it implies contentment in yourselfs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Rather than reclaim it's more reconnecting, will often have sex after she has played with a guy in a club. We always have sex straight after getting home from a club, that is often the hottest sex we ever have, even when we are shattered."

This I get this totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Picking Jane up from a meet with a regular guy we've known for some time, smelling the sex on her as we drive home is unbeatable.

Jane is always super confident and super cocky when we get home and it's always the best sex we ever have.

Yes the smell of their sex on my wife is intoxicating and her confidence is sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As already said it's reconnecting. My ex would see her regular FWB and we'd have fantastic sex when she came home. But I love the feel of being second, I know not everyone does. "

Being 2nd works for me in this.

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By *illynillyCouple over a year ago

Wiltshire

Our last mfm the reclaim sex was amazing....think it being a shorter riskier meet meant the reclaiming was very much heightened

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When we were both swinging we would do it at the first opportune moment, now that it's just me swinging and her sticking to the one other guy it's not something we seek, but having said that the first time we do reconnect after I've been out or she has been off with her BF it tends to be a much more intense encounter than what it would have been otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When we were both swinging we would do it at the first opportune moment, now that it's just me swinging and her sticking to the one other guy it's not something we seek, but having said that the first time we do reconnect after I've been out or she has been off with her BF it tends to be a much more intense encounter than what it would have been otherwise."

We find this often to be true for us I think of it as however good that was for her she choses to come back to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That would depend entirely on how long we'd already been going for and how late it is.

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By *ixie69Woman over a year ago

leicester

Yes. It is the best sex ever

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By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I (Bry) get very little out of penetrative sex and don't have the best stamina and that's one factor in why we invite other guys in. So physically "reclaim sex" isn't something I desire or need.

We tend to cuddle more for the evening following a meet

I have an issue with the word "reclaim" there as well. Char's not mine, I have no claim on her.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I (Bry) get very little out of penetrative sex and don't have the best stamina and that's one factor in why we invite other guys in. So physically "reclaim sex" isn't something I desire or need.

We tend to cuddle more for the evening following a meet

I have an issue with the word "reclaim" there as well. Char's not mine, I have no claim on her.

(Bry)"

Totally understand where you're coming from about the world reclaim and is why I said reconnect instead.

And sounds like for you, your reconnection is the cuddles after a meet witch also sounds like a really good way to reconnect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I (Bry) get very little out of penetrative sex and don't have the best stamina and that's one factor in why we invite other guys in. So physically "reclaim sex" isn't something I desire or need.

We tend to cuddle more for the evening following a meet

I have an issue with the word "reclaim" there as well. Char's not mine, I have no claim on her.

(Bry)"

I agree reclaim is the wrong word.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple over a year ago

Rushden

I go on meets with guys while V stays at home, I make videos for him to watch but as soon as I walk in the door he bends me over & takes me right there, I have to give him all the juicy details about the meets while he roughly takes me from behind. I love it

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By *uto564Man over a year ago

Widnes

"As already said it's reconnecting. My ex would see her regular FWB and we'd have fantastic sex when she came home. But I love the feel of being second, I know not everyone does.

Being 2nd works for me in this."

Same for me… after seeing her with another guy and then entering her after him, feeling how turned on she is….

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By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I go on meets with guys while V stays at home, I make videos for him to watch but as soon as I walk in the door he bends me over & takes me right there, I have to give him all the juicy details about the meets while he roughly takes me from behind. I love it

Char doesn't (yet) go on meets on her own, but she has had guys visit her at home while I've been at work, and a few times has taken guys up to the bedroom while I sit downstairs.

Instead of fucking while she tells me about it, she gets me to kneel and masturbate in front of her. Very sexy.

(Bry)

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By *ewBiAdventuresCouple over a year ago

Warwick

Such a great thread. I'm really interested in hearing everyone's thoughts. We also share the issues with the word 'reclaim' with its ownership vibes... even reconnection doesn't feel quite right either for us somehow because we play together and we love 4way play where everyone is involved

, so we always feel completely connected to each other even while having sex with others if that makes sense...

We do often have super hot sex shortly after a club or a meet though! I think for us its just that we are both just so horny afterwards! I'm completely insatiable after a meet... hehehe

A x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am enjoying this thread, totally agree with the language around reclaim and also really hot finding out what happens on the other side.

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By *andC1000Couple over a year ago

Ashford

"I've always been curious about the whole reclaim sex, it sounds fun although never happen for is, we're usually tired post meet and fall asleep

Mrs "

Same for us would love to have it but yet to happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I imagine the re connecting would be amazing after, I’m a single and although I love having fun and my own space, sometimes after meets you do miss the post sex phase.

I think it’s lovely that couples are there for each other in the way that works for them

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"I've always been curious about the whole reclaim sex, it sounds fun although never happen for is, we're usually tired post meet and fall asleep

Mrs

Same for us would love to have it but yet to happen

I feel we're missing out

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By *eyeYCouple over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Yup! Reconnecting/reaffirming sex after is the best ever!