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There are no guarantees. Having realistic expectations is essential, as is investing the appropriate efforts wisely, if a single man.
People look at profiles, so focusing effort there is the typical advice for men who always struggle. You have to sell you - instead of warning about anything and everything with more words than explain and sell you - a swinger likely has to visit socials and clubs, to get to know people, etc. |
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When you say 'getting nowhere' what do you mean? As already said what are you're expectations. Should people be queuing up to meet you?
Surely you must realise there are so many men looking to meet up. What makes you stand out amongst all the other guys? Improving your profile might help but don't count on it. |
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"Been on here a while now had 2 meets early stages but seem to be getting nowhere obviously im going wrong somewhere
I would suggest that your profile needs a bit of adjustment. "
thankyou really appreciated |
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Very generic profile.
Given that men outnumber women on fab by around 100 to 1, you really need to stand out. Have a USP. Something special to catch someones attention.
And as most of those you message will check out your profile before even considering opening your message (though you'll likely know nothing about is as most browse in  mode) if your profile doesn't grab their interest, why should they bother to read what you've sent them, let alone reply?
A lot of guys come on the forum after a short time being here, complaining about a lack of 'success' thinking that there's some magic silver bullet or something to getting meets.
Spoiler alert! - There isn't.
What works for one person might not work for someone else.
At the end of the day, not everyone you fancy is going to fancy you back - and vice versa.
Unfortunately, most guys join fab on the assumption that there are desperate horny women just gagging for it who will fuck anyone - which couldn't be futher from the truth.
Realign your expectations.
Effort in - rewards out |
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"Very generic profile.
Given that men outnumber women on fab by around 100 to 1, you really need to stand out. Have a USP. Something special to catch someones attention.
And as most of those you message will check out your profile before even considering opening your message (though you'll likely know nothing about is as most browse in mode) if your profile doesn't grab their interest, why should they bother to read what you've sent them, let alone reply?
A lot of guys come on the forum after a short time being here, complaining about a lack of 'success' thinking that there's some magic silver bullet or something to getting meets.
Spoiler alert! - There isn't.
What works for one person might not work for someone else.
At the end of the day, not everyone you fancy is going to fancy you back - and vice versa.
Unfortunately, most guys join fab on the assumption that there are desperate horny women just gagging for it who will fuck anyone - which couldn't be futher from the truth.
Realign your expectations.
Effort in - rewards out"
thankyou i was just after a bit of advice just like your post thankyou i really appreciate it. I really need to settle my nerves and start going to some club events to experience the atmosphere and the vibe get to know people and gain more of a understanding i just panic at going on my own. |
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The blurb at the bottom needs to tell me something additional to the set answers above, not just repeat it
Photos are meh
Start by getting out to local social events while waiting for club membership if your chosen one has a waiting list
Your profile is your shop window and while I am not your target ordinance I wouldn't stop there's nothing that stands out
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