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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not your target audience ,but I don't think many women would want sex chat straight away.
From what I see on the forums single ladies like to be made to feel as if they're more than just a sex toy for couples & like to be treated as another person. |
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The worst messages I get from couples are those that have clearly not read my profile and are asking for meets that I am clearly not interested in. I don’t enjoy small talk like “how’s your week been” ect. The best messages ask questions about what I’m looking for and enjoy from meets. I hope that helps a little x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do couples start messages with women they are interested in.. General chit chat, sex chat, ect.
Ruby x"
You have one pic of the male (others on request). I'd not ask... There's plenty of open folk seeking a unicorn without having to jump through hoops... Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe just talk about something you like about their profile and try and make your message a bit personal to them
Good luck "
^^ This is the way ^^
If you also add in a question or something that I can actually reply to other than a “thanks, that’s kind” it’s much easier to get a conversation going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately the couples that seem to message me go straight into sex chat. It's a real turn off for me, and usually tells me that they haven't even read my profile. |
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For us we find it so much easier to connect with ladies (and others to be fair) in the physical world. Be it at clubs, parties or surprisingly just out and in the vanilla world. It's hard to get a measure for connection and charter from a profile and some messages. And of course this is the same for women who are trying to get a measure of the both of you too. That’s why for us we tend to do most of our finding in the physical world rather than on here. And that has been successful for us and cut down on a lot of potential disappointment and wasted time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not so much how you start the chat and I don’t actually mind a wink. A couple of things I do ask though is that they say which one of them are talking, early on proof we are all who we say we are and photos of them together. It’s amazing how many couples don’t have photos of them together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately the couples that seem to message me go straight into sex chat. It's a real turn off for me, and usually tells me that they haven't even read my profile. "
We find the same. It tends to be the male in the 'couple' messaging when it happens. We then ignore as we dislike these type of messages. |
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