This is relation to what men wear at Chams or other strip down clubs.
Obviously women have multiple choices and options in how they dress or don’t, plus in dress down area they can still have multiple choices. However I’m curious as far as the man’s situation, looking at Chams site it says a Towel or Shorts for men. Ok I get that but how do guys cope or feel walking/sitting around half naked? Does this make men nervous like I can imagine women do when they are all very new to it all. As men do you feel self conscious, embarrassed or unsure how to relax with the whole environment.
I’ve been to Xtasia a few times and that’s all good because you smart dress and don’t have to or strip down. I’m currently considering Cham’s because all I hear mostly is great things about the place but am unsure and nervous about the whole being stood or sat around half naked.
I’d appreciate people’s thoughts and opinions or experiences like this to give me so advice please.
Thanks P&P |
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"This is relation to what men wear at Chams or other strip down clubs.
Obviously women have multiple choices and options in how they dress or don’t, plus in dress down area they can still have multiple choices. However I’m curious as far as the man’s situation, looking at Chams site it says a Towel or Shorts for men. Ok I get that but how do guys cope or feel walking/sitting around half naked? Does this make men nervous like I can imagine women do when they are all very new to it all. As men do you feel self conscious, embarrassed or unsure how to relax with the whole environment.
I’ve been to Xtasia a few times and that’s all good because you smart dress and don’t have to or strip down. I’m currently considering Cham’s because all I hear mostly is great things about the place but am unsure and nervous about the whole being stood or sat around half naked.
I’d appreciate people’s thoughts and opinions or experiences like this to give me so advice please.
Thanks P&P"
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I really wouldn’t stress about it too much, everyone else is dressed down as well.
My first time at a dressed down club I felt a bit nervous, but Mrs CT bought me some boxers with her face printed on them. Was a great ice breaker.
Now at the point that I find boxers inconvenient with either putting them back on to walk between rooms or carrying them if I’m naked. |
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I totally recommend some funky boxer shorts. First of all, they would make you feel more like you're on a beach or at the swimming pool. Secondly, they can be a great conversation starter, or at least something that would make you stand out of the crowd.
With loads of great stuff available, there is no need to wear boring grey or black boxers to a club, even though they can look classy. |
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