Hi,
So see a new couple no pics no veris, just joined chatting all going fine, loads of messages nothing sexual, and the next day profile is gone. Fine they didn't like me I get that, except its happened a good few times? Normally its no reply or thanks but no thanks.
Is this common? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Hi,
So see a new couple no pics no veris, just joined chatting all going fine, loads of messages nothing sexual, and the next day profile is gone. Fine they didn't like me I get that, except its happened a good few times? Normally its no reply or thanks but no thanks.
Is this common?"
It's a new profile.
Often that means one of two things.
They're new to the scene and the site and therefore have no idea what to expect. So when they're bombarded with messages in the first few days they get overwhelmed and can be tempted to reply to anyone and everyone before realising they can't keep up and have to cut some conversations dead just to keep up.
Or they're not who they claim to be.
You won't know either way. Probably the best idea is to avoid brand new profiles until they've settled, got verified, had time to establish what they want and work out who interests them and who doesn't. Rushing to get in early and beat every other person looking to contact them rarely works out well.
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"Hi,
So see a new couple no pics no veris, just joined chatting all going fine, loads of messages nothing sexual, and the next day profile is gone. Fine they didn't like me I get that, except its happened a good few times? Normally its no reply or thanks but no thanks.
Is this common?"
Yes it's common, not sure why so many men fall for it.
He finished his wank. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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It can also be that they changed their mind about the site, some people join then get flooded with messages and can be too much for them not understanding clearly how to use the site and get put off |
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So see a new couple no pics no veris, just joined chatting all going fine, loads of messages nothing sexual, and the next day profile is gone. Fine they didn't like me I get that, except its happened a good few times? Normally its no reply or thanks but no thanks.
Is this common?"
Most of the time its a single guy who created it to contact cpls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi,
So see a new couple no pics no veris, just joined chatting all going fine, loads of messages nothing sexual, and the next day profile is gone. Fine they didn't like me I get that, except its happened a good few times? Normally its no reply or thanks but no thanks.
Is this common?
Yes it's common, not sure why so many men fall for it.
He finished his wank."
Yeah I'd stay away from new profiles. |
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So see a new couple no pics no veris, just joined chatting all going fine, loads of messages nothing sexual, and the next day profile is gone. Fine they didn't like me I get that, except its happened a good few times? Normally its no reply or thanks but no thanks.
Is this common?"
A new couple with no pics or verifications will probably get hundreds of messages within the first day or two, mainly from single men which is probably unexpected. This was certainly our experience but as we came here from recommendations from swingers we had met at clubs we rode the initial onslaught and stayed with it. If this site is a couples first experience of swinging then those first few days could be very off putting which may be why they close their accounts. |
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