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Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here |
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Some advice would be good..
Just seemes like no one at all replys
Then i just get harased by men saying they wont to shove there cock in me.......witch i still politey reply no thank your hope you find wot your looking for...
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"Some advice would be good..
Just seemes like no one at all replys
Then i just get harased by men saying they wont to shove there cock in me.......witch i still politey reply no thank your hope you find wot your looking for...
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firstly if you don't want men to message you set your message filters to exclude them  .
It can be difficult for single men to meet people on fab, it takes time and patience and even though you fit the description of what they're looking for they still might not want to meet you.
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"Thank you nice couple 561
I hav changed that in settengs now
Thanks for your help hope you hav a nice weekend planed xxx"
you're welcome, we have nothing planned because we're both a bit under the weather.
By the way under each post is a 'reply+quote' button. If you want to answer that post click on that and it will quote it for you  |
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"Thank you nice couple 561
I hav changed that in settengs now
Thanks for your help hope you hav a nice weekend planed xxx
you're welcome, we have nothing planned because we're both a bit under the weather.
By the way under each post is a 'reply+quote' button. If you want
to answer that post click on that and it will quote it for you "
Cool thanks hope u getbetter soon |
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"Your profile seems ok to be fair and you're not doing too bad, I'd loose the bit at the bottom about taking photos it's a load of rubbish, maybe attend some socials if there's any close.
Mrs "
Are the socals on brows events setion?? |
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"Your profile seems ok to be fair and you're not doing too bad, I'd loose the bit at the bottom about taking photos it's a load of rubbish, maybe attend some socials if there's any close.
Mrs "
Are the socals on brows events setion?? |
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
Personally, I don't pin any hopes of finding anyone on here (not that I'm looking for anyone right now). The odds on here are against all men. You'll have far better odds on dating sites and FB groups. Plus keep going to the clubs, you'll soon find someone there, have a bit of patience  |
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here
Personally, I don't pin any hopes of finding anyone on here (not that I'm looking for anyone right now). The odds on here are against all men. You'll have far better odds on dating sites and FB groups. Plus keep going to the clubs, you'll soon find someone there, have a bit of patience "
. Sound thanks mate |
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
Consider the number of single men and then think about the fact you have two verifications after only 9 weeks.
That is really good.
You may have come to Feb with expectations that it would be easier or plenty... Unfortunately that's not the case
There really are lots of single men so it's a numbers game.
If you have been to a club I would suggest more of that, and look in the forums for social events near you
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
Enough what?? |
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
It sounds like you've joined thinking swinging is just about getting an easy shag when it far from it. |
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Get rid of all the disclaimer nonsense at the bottom of your profile for a start. Would you really take someone to court? Fab is not a publicly traded entity either. Just makes you look like a sheep having it there. |
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But really not getting enuf hahaha "
It would be that attitude for us, and trust me it comes across digitally as well. That sentence alone screams entitlement, to me.
Yes this is a sex site. Yes this is a swinging site. But it's also a chat site, a forum and a multitude of other things for different people.
What do you have to do to get a fuck buddy? Lessen the entitlement, be a decent person and treat people on here as individual people, and not just an end game because you're not getting enough. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
never assume op ie the dick pic is a 50/50 as many like to see at least one as to those who dont ....
have you joined the site for sex or to swing ? theres a big difference between them ..
just remember theres 100s of you too so its hard to stand out but agree with what was said further up 2 veris already alot of guys dont get that in years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think your profile content is good. Your photos too, show you've a bit of a laugh in you, seem to be coming across well in the thread here, best of luck finding what you're after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re a nice looking guy OP and you’re not doing too badly considering you’ve only been on here for a short while. Hopefully it continues that way for you.
Carry on interacting on the forums and getting out to clubs and socials.
Good luck |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
Just to reiterate the point, to you and to all the others who copy + paste blindly, half of your profile is a block of completely meaningless nonsense text. Get rid of it!
Beyond that, you seem to be doing alright, and have a decent set of images. I think it's much easier to meet at a club or social though, and from your pictures I'm sure you wouldn't be short of attention. The ratio is much better than on here.
One other possibly contentious point - you mention that your spelling's atrocious. If there's a reason, such as dyslexia, it might be worth mentioning, as it can come across badly if it's just through laziness or using text speak, and it's good netiquette to make things as easy to read as possible. If it's not readable, people are more likely to just skip on to the next profile, though will normally make allowances with good reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
You could try improving your grasp of the English language for a start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some advice would be good..
Just seemes like no one at all replys
Then i just get harased by men saying they wont to shove there cock in me.......witch i still politey reply no thank your hope you find wot your looking for...
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no the feeling I've had loads message me haha |
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Take your time, go to clubs, chat to people and don’t expect it to happen immediately. This isn’t dial-a-shag.
Get rid of the pointless disclaimer as it is legally worthless. By using a site you are agreeing to its terms of use, a disclaimer on your profile does not change that.
Oh, and if your spelling is shit then use spellcheck. Personal thing for me but a well-written message shows some thought has gone into it, and I know I’m not the only person who thinks that. Presentation is everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here
You could try improving your grasp of the English language for a start "
At least he has put some effort in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Re: your spelling, if your posts here are indicative of your nessages the first thing I'd be thinking about is the incongruity between your writing style on your profile and your posts. It would make me wonder if the profile text was taken from somewhere else. And that in turn would make me question your integrity so I'd likely not be interested |
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"Re: your spelling, if your posts here are indicative of your nessages the first thing I'd be thinking about is the incongruity between your writing style on your profile and your posts. It would make me wonder if the profile text was taken from somewhere else. And that in turn would make me question your integrity so I'd likely not be interested "
Exactly what she said!
Reading your post and then reading your bio would set alarm bells ringing that something wasn't quite adding up. If you send messages in the same style as you post in the forums, I would automatically delete. |
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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
Your a single male on here, you have less than a zero chance of meeting anyone directly from this site (I know I've been trying for years),
So I would suggest the same as what others have said, go to clubs, meet people there and you will have a far better time than relying on this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've been here 2 months and already have 2 verifications, and yet you're complaining.
What were your expectations on joining the site? That all you need do is string a few sentences together, upload a few pics and be fighting women off with a shitty stick within hours?
I'm afraid fab isn't like that.
Most single guys can wait up to a year to get their first meet, so to have had 2 inside 2 months, it's fair to say thatyou're doing pretty well.
This isn't Dial-a-shag. |
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
See you are missing the point. Add a dick pic, lots of them from different angles equals more success on fab.  |
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"Ha so finding it really hard could people give me advice been on here
For a few months an been to a club meat in swindon had 2 verification...
But really not getting enuf hahaha
I read peoples profiles an mesage polity...not got dic pic but that carnt be it... Yes im straght male
An my spelling is shit but apart from that...
Wots a gi got to do to get a fuck buddy around here "
Three months on Fab, and two fantastic meet verifications.
I'm struggling to figure out why you think you are not having any look.
I've been here six months and not had as much as a reply to a message, never mind a meet. |
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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago
Berkhamsted |
"Seriously? You have been here for 9 weeks and have two meet verifications, you’re doing alright, I’d say? I hope this post is a joke."
Agreed lol, some single men have been on here 9 years and don't have 2 veris lol!
It's not necessarily fair but single men have it harder on here. The ratio means u need to stand out for one reason or another!
Try your local swinging club? Meeting people IRL is a good way to show people your personality. That's always been a winner for me!
Have fun but definitely lower your expectations... this ain't tinder lol! |
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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago
Berkhamsted |
"Some advice would be good..
Just seemes like no one at all replys
Then i just get harased by men saying they wont to shove there cock in me.......witch i still politey reply no thank your hope you find wot your looking for...
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U can change your message filters so that single men can't msg u. |
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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago
Berkhamsted |
"See you are missing the point. Add a dick pic, lots of them from different angles equals more success on fab. "
Actual sabotage  Someone trying to minimise the competition lol? This is taken from a writing on my profile from another site...
"Also, do u actually think the various changes in dick pic angle will entice anyone that wasn't tempted by the first angle?" |
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