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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I just found we are hosting a revolution in the support section dropping my 2c In to respond when I'm not tired and it isn't midnight x
What do you think of the book idea?
What book .... am confused"
That's OK, I forgot to post the link and reference.
Queen of hearts liked what I posted in Official Neurodivergent Deviants Club, Season 8.
The chat was between jonKana, Darkandlovely, myself and Queenofhearts.
"One of my friends has been officially diagnosed today with ADHD. I quite like the fact she's one of a few people that have confided in me after I've been so open on my social media about my diagnosis.
However she also told me she's joined an in person ADHD support group, and is anyone else thinking how gloriously chaotic that would be!
It's the weirdest thing, when I talk to another ADHDer even though the actual conversation is chaotic and demented, mentally I feel unusually calm, almost like time slows right down. This is not a feeling we are used to
This is normal.
You are finally on the same wavelength as each other.
Just like sound waves, the flanging effect makes one pair of note in synch, then gradually grow apart, so that they fight each other and try to cancel each other out, then eventually return to peak at the same moment.
This sensation is unnerving, like learning to ice skate and your feet want to go off ahead and you suddenly crash to the ground.
Being in synch is so freaky and sorely needed.
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What a brilliant description!
followed by
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What a brilliant description!
Xx
Thanks for that, it's the second compliment this week on the subject!
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Please tell me you will write a book!! said the queenofhearts
The chat carried on like this
I’d like to learn more about the link between the swinging lifestyle and ND! Maybe an audio book would be better; ok thanks!
I’ll give you a month - go go go!"
Challenge accepted, if you approve of this 1st draft.
I read a book on touch once, it explained the reasons on why it's good, taboo at times, historical changes and then what happens under the skin and in the brain. Sexual, sensual, sociological and chemical effects where explained in this too.
Can't remember who wrote it, or the title.
My first idea is to interview swingers from each age group., some singletons and some couples.
So each chapter would have the fist paragraph on who they are.
The next questions would be about swinging then being ND
1 When did you realise sex was fun?
2 When did you realise that being in a 1 on 1 relationship wasn't for you?
3 When did you first realise that swinging has your name on it?
4 When did you decide to do something about it? Straight away, or did it linger?
5 When did you turn up at a club? Where you alone, as a couple or where you some's guest?
6 Did you have fun and play?
7 What has swinging done to your sex life?
8 Does anyone in Vanilla land know about it?
9 Do you want to be normal? No one has ever asked this one.
10 Are you too shy to ask somebody out, or the complete opposite and very brazen?
11 Is swinging something the health care professional should take seriously in a positive note, as socialising hugging and sex really release those sorely needed happy hormones
12 Do you get withdrawal symptoms, if you don't swing, how much sex/hugs/time on FAB do you need? Do you get the right right amount of sex?
13 Steal a TARDIS and go back in time and have along bloody chat with your younger self: what would that chat be like?
14 Would you be in a better place after that chat?
Now about ND
1 When did you realise that your had different software in your head? What is your diagnosis?
2 What are those differences? Advantages and disadvantages?
3 Did your school/employers pick up on this?
4 Did you get any help? Then, now and in the future, list any treatments, good bad and ugly.
5 How much heartache has been caused?
6 Do you have any abilities that no one can keep up with, ie wordplay, humour, organisational skills.
7 Does social anxiety/shyness get in your way in Vanilla and
8 What sets you off and can it be reigned in, or does it require the help of others, or do you have to ride through 72 hours of major mood drops, for example?
9 Has this destroyed your life in anyway, bulling, relationship break up or a general feeling of being a wallflower and really needing to switch of and hide some where?
10 Do certain places/towns/situations/weather drain you?
11 Do certain places recharge your batteries?
12 Pets, how important are they to you? Do they help? if so how?
13 Steal a TARDIS and go back in time and have along bloody chat with your younger self: what would that chat be like?
14 Would you be in a better place after that chat?
It's a lot to read, but I went into overdrive and did this little challenge in next to no time.
It would be good to hear your input, seeing how much you've put into these chapters.
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But think everyone is used to the season threads lol.