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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're new to swinging .
We can't wait too have so much fun and make new friends along the way.
We have noticed no one is giving us a chance We all have to start somewhere. Any advice?? Xx |
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Message for _ebell and OP. Stick with it. If you think it’s bad for couples, single guys would shock you haha.
Both profiles look great and are clear as to what you’re looking for with stunning pics both. Be prepared for some time wasters. It can’t be helped I am afraid so take a look at peoples verifications and trust your gut. Verify and maybe jump on cam so you know they’re genuine. And then hopefully you won’t be let down.
If looking for something perhaps more immediate or maybe less time wastey then visiting a club is a good idea.
There are some good people here so do stick with it |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Hi op, a few more full pics of your male would help rather than just cock pics ,if you're after another couple then they'll want to see him too .
Some of the pics are maybe a bit graphic at times too,sorry just my view .
A couple of you together would be helpful ,in underwear or dressed with head cropped . |
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"We are in the same situation, really struggling to meet anyone!"
Up this way is very hard to find what you guys are looking for, we are looking for bi couples, or single bi lady for solo fun and we have had no luck what so ever, We have had plenty offers from bi men which we do look for to but the majority of those are not bi at all and only looking to get into Mrs knickers..rthe swinging world doesn't really exist up this way...its a real shame. |
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"Hebell I’m genuine.. it’s just a shame no1 gives new People a chance.. with a couple who r very open "
Nobody's giving you a chance because you can't accommodate or travel, oh and you're a cheat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have noticed no one is giving us a chance We all have to start somewhere. Any advice?? Xx
Have you been sending messages ?"
Yes plenty but seem to ignore x |
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OP there are a lot of threads about not being able to get meets - mostly from males and the advice is usually pretty cutting and caustic. The fact that that everyone is being nice should tell you that you stand a better chance than most single guys.
The “standard advice” is to get yourselves to a club or social and start meeting some people. That works for many people.
If you are looking for couples then I think that will be harder than looking for single guys because all parties need to be comfortable with each other.
My advice would be to drop some personalised messages to people you like. Just be normal and don’t try to be something you are not. People respond to people. Treat them well and it will come back round. |
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"We're new to swinging.
We can't wait too have so much fun and make new friends along the way.
We have noticed no one is giving us a chance We all have to start somewhere. Any advice?? Xx"
Your age range will narrow things down significantly, you also have no photos of the male other than cock so personally I wouldn't reply to your profile.
Maybe attend some local social events or clubs get yourselves verified
Good luck op
Mrs |
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"OP there are a lot of threads about not being able to get meets - mostly from males and the advice is usually pretty cutting and caustic. The fact that that everyone is being nice should tell you that you stand a better chance than most single guys.
The “standard advice” is to get yourselves to a club or social and start meeting some people. That works for many people.
If you are looking for couples then I think that will be harder than looking for single guys because all parties need to be comfortable with each other.
My advice would be to drop some personalised messages to people you like. Just be normal and don’t try to be something you are not. People respond to people. Treat them well and it will come back round."
People tend to be cutting when a bloke has 3 words and a cock pic |
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We had our first meet recently and had been speaking with a couple of guys beforehand. Decided on one and had arranged to meet at a bar before going back to our hotel room (we'd decided on a night away, a bit like you OP). On the day of the meet the guy just ghosted us, and then blocked us on here. We got back to the hotel room and posted a meet now and found that worked really well with a number of folk offering their help 
Pics on profile of the fun that was had  |
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I went on the chat rooms, got afew veris. Chatted to men on cam but for single female, i was unindated, most were just fantasist messages they send out to everyone so only afew high quality meets
Takes time |
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"Hi op, a few more full pics of your male would help rather than just cock pics ,if you're after another couple then they'll want to see him too .
Some of the pics are maybe a bit graphic at times too,sorry just my view .
A couple of you together would be helpful ,in underwear or dressed with head cropped ."
Agreed.
It looks very much like a female profile.
If you seek couples everyone should be able to see each other
Try a club
And get out to local social events
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Unfortunately as you'll find out, there's a lot of fake profiles, time wasters and fantasists on here. Your best option may be to go to a club which will have lots of like minded people in, every night is different but you can have fun nights for sure. |
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I know its been said but definitely go to a club for some experience and meet verifications.
This may sound a bit harsh but you will probably have less interest because not a lot of people want to have to teach in meets.
I met a bi-courious woman who had never been with a woman before and found myself doing all the work and got very little out of it for myself if that makes sense.
Takes a lot of time and patience stick with it.
MrsGG x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know its been said but definitely go to a club for some experience and meet verifications.
This may sound a bit harsh but you will probably have less interest because not a lot of people want to have to teach in meets.
I met a bi-courious woman who had never been with a woman before and found myself doing all the work and got very little out of it for myself if that makes sense.
Takes a lot of time and patience stick with it.
MrsGG x"
Thank you for advice xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We had our first meet recently and had been speaking with a couple of guys beforehand. Decided on one and had arranged to meet at a bar before going back to our hotel room (we'd decided on a night away, a bit like you OP). On the day of the meet the guy just ghosted us, and then blocked us on here. We got back to the hotel room and posted a meet now and found that worked really well with a number of folk offering their help
Pics on profile of the fun that was had "
Thanks. Your pics look fire ?? ?? |
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Having 'Close' as your location is really off-putting and would ensure that we wouldn't contact you as you may 5 miles away or 50 miles away. The FAB East Midlands covers a large area
If we are like that, then there's bound to be others who think the same.
Put your location down and it will help others in your area to find you
xx |
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"I know its been said but definitely go to a club for some experience and meet verifications.
This may sound a bit harsh but you will probably have less interest because not a lot of people want to have to teach in meets.
I met a bi-courious woman who had never been with a woman before and found myself doing all the work and got very little out of it for myself if that makes sense.
Takes a lot of time and patience stick with it.
MrsGG x
Thank you for advice xxx"
No problem, we actually felt the same in the beginning then we found a local social event which gave us loads more confidence and its actually where we met our first sexy lady to join us.
Good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Having 'Close' as your location is really off-putting and would ensure that we wouldn't contact you as you may 5 miles away or 50 miles away. The FAB East Midlands covers a large area
If we are like that, then there's bound to be others who think the same.
Put your location down and it will help others in your area to find you
xx"
Thanks xx |
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"Same here. New male, just not getting the chance, people must be abit unsure about talking to newbies. I'll stick with it for a little longer "
It usually boils down to the information people give about themselves, if there isn't much then people will pass on by |
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we went to a club. we set out just to see what was what and we ended up meeting a great couple. my advice would be go to a club (but do your research first) and start with just having a drink and talking to people x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"we went to a club. we set out just to see what was what and we ended up meeting a great couple. my advice would be go to a club (but do your research first) and start with just having a drink and talking to people x"
Yes we were thinking about going jaydees. But would like meet a couple first n we can go with someone we know xx |
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"We are in the same situation, really struggling to meet anyone!
Up this way is very hard to find what you guys are looking for, we are looking for bi couples, or single bi lady for solo fun and we have had no luck what so ever, We have had plenty offers from bi men which we do look for to but the majority of those are not bi at all and only looking to get into Mrs knickers..rthe swinging world doesn't really exist up this way...its a real shame. "
No club in scotland? |
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"we went to a club. we set out just to see what was what and we ended up meeting a great couple. my advice would be go to a club (but do your research first) and start with just having a drink and talking to people x
Yes we were thinking about going jaydees. But would like meet a couple first n we can go with someone we know xx"
I do social meets first and as mentioned before would like to see more of the male partner body. that's just me a single female.
I met one couple who sent me a photo of them together face-wise and I like the guy's face so I met them for a social in a local pub. Have a good chat and cider and chips.
then I went around to theirs and was pleasantly surprised to find that the man had an amazing ass! But they never put his bum cheeks on the profile.
Just my take but you will find other's opinions/suggestions as well.
I second the club thing because I like the social aspect and flirting of it even if we don't get fully naked and have penetrative sex.
I went to a club last night and met a really hot couple that are cool to talk to also. Both the male and the female had a squeeze of my boobs at the bar. It was all a bit of fun! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"we went to a club. we set out just to see what was what and we ended up meeting a great couple. my advice would be go to a club (but do your research first) and start with just having a drink and talking to people x
Yes we were thinking about going jaydees. But would like meet a couple first n we can go with someone we know xx
I do social meets first and as mentioned before would like to see more of the male partner body. that's just me a single female.
I met one couple who sent me a photo of them together face-wise and I like the guy's face so I met them for a social in a local pub. Have a good chat and cider and chips.
then I went around to theirs and was pleasantly surprised to find that the man had an amazing ass! But they never put his bum cheeks on the profile.
Just my take but you will find other's opinions/suggestions as well.
I second the club thing because I like the social aspect and flirting of it even if we don't get fully naked and have penetrative sex.
I went to a club last night and met a really hot couple that are cool to talk to also. Both the male and the female had a squeeze of my boobs at the bar. It was all a bit of fun!"
Thanks for your advice;) xxx |
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
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"We're new to swinging.
We can't wait too have so much fun and make new friends along the way.
We have noticed no one is giving us a chance We all have to start somewhere. Any advice?? Xx"
I cant message you it wont let me xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're new to swinging.
We can't wait too have so much fun and make new friends along the way.
We have noticed no one is giving us a chance We all have to start somewhere. Any advice?? Xx I cant message you it wont let me xxx"
No thanks xxx |
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