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over a year ago
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The OH has said I can go to a party tonight on my own (hes not big on crowds he doesnt know, where I can overcome the shyness enough myself) hes positive hes ok with it and finds it kinkily a turn on... I feel ok with it but at the same time Im unsure of it... as it feels wrong as we always said we would play together. But we turning each other on by discussing it and what woukld happen after.... what advice do others have for us? Angel xxx |
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"The OH has said I can go to a party tonight on my own (hes not big on crowds he doesnt know, where I can overcome the shyness enough myself) hes positive hes ok with it and finds it kinkily a turn on... I feel ok with it but at the same time Im unsure of it... as it feels wrong as we always said we would play together. But we turning each other on by discussing it and what woukld happen after.... what advice do others have for us? Angel xxx"
You have to do what feels right for you, if you are having doubts maybe you should talk with your partner some more.
Try and assess how open your relationship is by imagining you staying at home and your partner partying, how would you feel? |
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In all honesty I would rather play with him... but he really dislikes crowds, but he seems really turned on by it. I would be jelous if it was the other way round but I have let him play alone before and it surprisingly doesn't bother me. It feels wrong, but its made me so horny its unreal.
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"The OH has said I can go to a party tonight on my own (hes not big on crowds he doesnt know, where I can overcome the shyness enough myself) hes positive hes ok with it and finds it kinkily a turn on... I feel ok with it but at the same time Im unsure of it... as it feels wrong as we always said we would play together. But we turning each other on by discussing it and what woukld happen after.... what advice do others have for us? Angel xxx"
Try it once and discuss it afterwards to see whether you are both comfortable enough to do it again.
If not - don't. |
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 the wife goes to clubs occasionally on her own, she prefers to go as a couple but its ok every once in a while as something different. I'm cool with it as we play as singles when were at clubs anyway. You both seem up for the idea, and you don't have to do it every week, and don't panic if you don't like it.  |
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