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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Me and a few friends have been discussing age gap and what is acceptable?

We have a mate who is 31 and his girlfriend is 17 they have dating a few months they both seem really happy.

We’re all on the fence over this and a few have jumped ship what’s your take on it??

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By *ichaelsmyMan  over a year ago

douglas

The big age gaps are fun. But they usually fizzle out because of the age gap

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By *orfladMan  over a year ago

Age gaps are great, 31 with somebody 14 years older can be fun but a 17 year old girl is a no from me, it's just too young

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Age gaps are great, 31 with somebody 14 years older can be fun but a 17 year old girl is a no from me, it's just too young "

So see that was our thinking but seeing them together is odd as they seem so well suited it uncanny

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

The age of maturity would be acceptable at what point would anything be classified as acceptable or not to me closer to my own age even by 10 years would be acceptable but someone old enough to be my own child definitely not

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By *hropshireGentMan  over a year ago

Shropshire

I think it’s great fun. I’m 33 and I have had fun with 18-19yr females and 60yr females.

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple  over a year ago

Hampshire

Half your age plus 7 is the formula I heard. Don't know where!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton

I had some fun recently with someone 10 years younger than me

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't have sex with someone old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Half your age plus 7 is the formula I heard. Don't know where!"

Yes what I have heard to and seems to be quite sensible but if it works age shouldn't matter as long as it's legal.

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By *penbicoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton


"Half your age plus 7 is the formula I heard. Don't know where!"

I've always liked that. I believe it's called "the french rule."

If you google "age disparity in dating," you'll find a wiki article where it's mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Age gaps are fine. I’ve always dated men significantly older than me.

Dating someone under 18 when you’re over 18 in my opinion is wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big age gaps are fun. But they usually fizzle out because of the age gap"

This is true. I read about this that age gaps of 5 years or more are more likely to fail than relationships where the age gap is 3 years or less.

Doesn’t stop me liking men 10+ years older than me though, can’t be helped.

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By *antasiaFoxxCouple  over a year ago

Essex

Oh I agree with you here… nothing wrong with an age gap but only past a a certain age. 17 is too young. My last fwb was 14 years my senior and oh my!!

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By *reat me rightWoman  over a year ago

Rotherham

Their relationship their business. Its not for anyone to proffer their opine it's none of anyone else's beeswax

My best times have been with older guys ( up to 22 years difference- he treat me like a queen).

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By *9alMan  over a year ago

Bridgend

president Macron is married to someone who used to be his school teacher & seems happy enough

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple  over a year ago

Weymouth

Generally I don't agree with age gaps where the younger party's brain is still developing. Prime targets for abuse. Just my take - Xeno

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Age gap is unimportant as long as both are of legal age and consenting.

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By *urvySub87Woman  over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I have no problem with age gaps. My fwb is 14 years older than me. My personal opinion is that people under the age of 18 should stick around their own age area but I can see how strange it is to disapprove of a 17 year old with a 31 year old but not a 36 year old seeing a 22 year old

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

Personally I'm extremely uncomfortable with big age gaps as the father of daughters in their 20s and 30s.

What others choose to do is no concern of mine.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple  over a year ago

chester

Age gaps aren’t for me. At all! Emotional maturity at 17 just isn’t there

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