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One of my friends is in a lesbian relationship. Personally I and my other friends, don't like her partner for reasons I'm not saying here, and we don't think they make a good stable couple. But my friend wants a baby and can't afford a fertility clinic. So my friend ask me my thoughts on my partner HM getting her pregnant naturally and to ask him if he would? She's never been with a man and she is willing to have sex to get pregnant and doesn't want sperm donation and home insemination. As a couple we are okay with the idea and have discussed all of the options. But would you do the sane for a friend? |
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No I wouldn't under any circumstances but especially if I thought the child was going to be born into an unstable relationship.
The first consideration in any situation like this is the child.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Basically a lesbian friend who has never had sex with a man, wants you HB to fuck her so she can have a baby inan unstable relationship.
Don't go there..just Don't....
It's an extremely bad idea and is unlikely to end well.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing."
That is not what you original post implies, you say you are okay with the idea. But obviously you are not getting the feedback you would like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing.
That is not what you original post implies, you say you are okay with the idea. But obviously you are not getting the feedback you would like."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Basically do you want to be a step mother and your husband a father to your friends baby. Plus the financial burden if things change in the future. There are so many reasons why sperm donations are anonymous. |
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"I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing.
That is not what you original post implies, you say you are okay with the idea. But obviously you are not getting the feedback you would like."
My thoughts too. This is not a good idea on any level, what makes you and your partner okay with it, and if you are why say you're not doing it? |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"One of my friends is in a lesbian relationship. Personally I and my other friends, don't like her partner for reasons I'm not saying here, and we don't think they make a good stable couple. But my friend wants a baby and can't afford a fertility clinic. So my friend ask me my thoughts on my partner HM getting her pregnant naturally and to ask him if he would? She's never been with a man and she is willing to have sex to get pregnant and doesn't want sperm donation and home insemination. As a couple we are okay with the idea and have discussed all of the options. But would you do the sane for a friend?"
I personally wouldn't do it because I would want to be involved in my childs life and upbringing.
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By *ayezzMan
over a year ago
Manchester/Birmingham |
If the lesbian couple want a child so badly why does it have to be your mr that they get the sperm from? Why not just have a one night stand with a stranger instead if all they want is a baby daddy.
Sounds all a bit too close to home in my opinion, especially if you don't approve of them being a couple anyway. |
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This is a disaster waiting to happen, I'm glad you realise it's not a good idea.
A few months ago Mr Fox had a message from a trans male friend of his who asked if he could have his sperm essentially.... I was fucking outraged and they wouldn't have even been having sex! - Xeno |
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"Does nobody else care that it's not our place to say yay or nay to a woman getting pregnant? Thousands of women do every year without a third party having a veto."
Do you care that it's the potential father's choice in this situation to say yes or no also? |
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By *hillenCouple
over a year ago
Borehamwood |
The salient point would surely be whose sperm is used not the method of delivery. My cousin in in a lesbian married relationship and they have 2 children with a friend being the father. Didn't seem appropriate to ask how it was acchieved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're gonna test all these friend and relationship lines, you might as well just go the whole hog and arrange a couple's swing night between all 4 of you.
Get a few drinks, suck and fuck each other in every position manageable and bring the pregnancy in in style.
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Absolutely no way!! And I don't think she's a very good friend for even asking.
You're talking about a real life human being which would grow to have feelings and which your husband would in the eyes of the law have full responsibility for.
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If there are reasons that you and others have for having issues with her partner I would suggest that you politely decline the request and suggest that they find other means to get pregnant just our 2 pence |
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"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex
She said they can't afford the clinic?
You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm"
Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that? |
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"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex
She said they can't afford the clinic?
You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm
Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that? "
Sperm can live up to 3 days |
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"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex
She said they can't afford the clinic?
You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm
Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?
Sperm can live up to 3 days "
In a normal environment? Fair enough, didnt know that |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex
She said they can't afford the clinic?
You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm"
As seen on TV (Bookside) |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
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Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?
My lesbian friend conceived two sons with donations in turkey basters"
would you visit them for a Christmas Dinner? |
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Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?
My lesbian friend conceived two sons with donations in turkey basters
would you visit them for a Christmas Dinner? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of my friends is in a lesbian relationship. Personally I and my other friends, don't like her partner for reasons I'm not saying here, and we don't think they make a good stable couple. But my friend wants a baby and can't afford a fertility clinic. So my friend ask me my thoughts on my partner HM getting her pregnant naturally and to ask him if he would? She's never been with a man and she is willing to have sex to get pregnant and doesn't want sperm donation and home insemination. As a couple we are okay with the idea and have discussed all of the options. But would you do the sane for a friend?"
If he doesnt want to do it I will |
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