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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, Ive been a member of this site for a few months now but only just started trying to do something with it, I’ve messaged loads of girls with a kind of intro of my name my age stating I’m new and not sure how it works etc and if they’d like to get to know me then to message back and then put in a picture of myself but not seeming to get any conversation back. What do people recommend how to go about messaging someone |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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There's no magic formula, like said already, be you, be honest and be polite. There are many forum threads regarding what the ladies hate or say they hate, use the info to help you with a first message and after recently helping a female friend set up an acount on her and seeing 100 plus messages appear withing 15 minutes just consider leaving a bit of time for them to answer and don't get upset if you don't get an answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What were your expectations when you signed up?
Most women and couples will check out your profile when receiving a message from you before they'll even consider opening it and, as many view in stealth mode, you'll never know about it.
If your profile doesn't appeal, they're unlikely to respond.
Think of it another way.
How many of the takeaways that post their menus through your door do you phone up to tell them you're not interested? |
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