"Does anyone have any advice on how I can get my girlfriend to agree to a cuckold relationship. Any advice welcome "
Be honest and open with her about what you are looking for. She may say yes, she may say no. But it's her you need to speak too. |
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Personally I knew my mrs would have found it a bolt from the blue if I had just sat her down and asked. And she would have likely then had some negative thoughts about it.
(I genuinely think most women would, here is a bit of an echo chamber. There will be those who disagree vehemently with me, but look at how many of those show faces in pics, as they know most people in outside world would not approve of the lifestyle - I'm not saying the lifestyle is wrong but largely the outside world sadly does).
Personally I raised it slowly. I said I had recurring dream where I was watching her have sex and was enjoying myself. Eventually she said that the idea obviously turned me on. Then I sent her a few tame articles about how it was on the rise, in order to normalize it a bit.
Then I eventually asked if she might like to try.
She agreed but it still isn't the perfect route as we haven't done it. She point blank refused to come on here and I don't want to pressure her either. She said she will find a guy in her own time and that is frustrating but what else can I do..?
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over a year ago
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"Personally I knew my mrs would have found it a bolt from the blue if I had just sat her down and asked. And she would have likely then had some negative thoughts about it.
(I genuinely think most women would, here is a bit of an echo chamber. There will be those who disagree vehemently with me, but look at how many of those show faces in pics, as they know most people in outside world would not approve of the lifestyle - I'm not saying the lifestyle is wrong but largely the outside world sadly does).
Personally I raised it slowly. I said I had recurring dream where I was watching her have sex and was enjoying myself. Eventually she said that the idea obviously turned me on. Then I sent her a few tame articles about how it was on the rise, in order to normalize it a bit.
Then I eventually asked if she might like to try.
She agreed but it still isn't the perfect route as we haven't done it. She point blank refused to come on here and I don't want to pressure her either. She said she will find a guy in her own time and that is frustrating but what else can I do..?
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If she said she will find a guy in her own time then she's on her way and there is not much else you can do apart from encourage and support her |
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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago
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The biggest hurdle of my wife had to get over was knowing that I would be OK after, as she was worried that the reality might nit be as good as my fantasy. So need to understand it from her point also. |
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