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By *arvest 84 OP Man
over a year ago
SCAWBY, NEAR , BRIGG. |
is it just people,s fantacy ??
loads of profiles have , watersports on their interests,
but it doesnt matter how many women, or mf couples i message, , no one responds,
even when i say i can accom with a walk in shower and will take it from both male and female couple,
so , i am thinking its a thing many people fantasise about,--- but are unsure about doing it,
your thoughts please. xx
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Personally I think it's something you build up to.
If a guy sent me a message out of the blue asking if I could piss on them in his walk-in shower I would probably just delete it 
Although if we had spoken for a little while, I liked him and it was approached I would be definitely be more interested. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
OP..
Have you considered how you approach others about this?
As others have already said, a cold message out of the blue is likely to be deleted.
Also, ask yourself if your profile is a good representation of you. I'm not offering profile advice, because you haven't asked for it, but it is what people see first. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Remember a profiles interests is not a shopping list of things they can and will do with anyone.
Its not just a fantasy for many, us included, but we are particular about who we meet. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We dabble in it, but it's not a big thing for us. As others have said, it's not something we'd jump straight in to with a new contact....maybe something to build up to over a period of time and regular meets.
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It’s not something I would do with just anyone OP but I do love it. I think you would need to have built up to a it with a FWB or similar.
I get tonnes of first messages asking me if I would I want to do it with men and for me that’s an instant delete. It takes trust and it’s part of other kinks. Not a porn set  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
op people can tick as many boxes as they wish but sexual attraction is still needed
watersports is something that normally not done with strangers
it why i dont tick any of my interest boxes because as soon as i do i get those messages saying oh we match ?? erm no we match if i fancy you and even thats just the start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you send 100 polite messages asking if they’d like a coffee social you’ll be lucky to get 5 replies I guess as a single guy.
Going straight in with such a niche suggestion even if the couple hav ticked the box will yield very much fewer responses.
One in a thousand?
Just keep at it if it’s your thing. |
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