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Who can help me get my first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Who can help me get the ball rolling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am having the same trouble, but I have figured I need to got to some clubs to actually engage with folk rather than talking here alone

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple over a year ago

Sutton

Clubs are always a good place to start for single guys , a nice shirt, trousers , shoes, polite conversation.

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By *bwlady123Woman over a year ago

private

Clubs are definitely a good shout. Get chatting to people in polite conversation make some friends and hopefully go from there.

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By *_the_impalerMan over a year ago

canterbury

Or one of the many socials being advertised !

Go there be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can help yourself!

Look at previous threads and follow the advice about socials, clubs, chatting with people and just being a nice sociable guy.

Or sit and wait for someone to hold your hand.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

Only you can do it OP. To paraphrase all of the responses here...get off the Internet and into the real world and meet people at socials and clubs. Good luck

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

No one can. Get yourself to an organised social or a club

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"Who can help me get the ball rolling "
god..... Start praying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get to a club. Clubs Have always been the best place to meet people, to much of a pain organising anything of here.

Alot of people now use fab just to keep in contact with people. (We do).

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

Check out the London forums towards the bottom of the page. There's always group social events advertised, they are a great place to meet likeminded people & get your face/name known

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Read the threads from single men who want the same, with the advice they have been given, on profiles and strategies. Public photos are needed, so people can check for potential attraction.

The tips here on socials and clubs are spot on too. You have to sell and market yourself

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"Clubs are always a good place to start for single guys , a nice shirt, trousers , shoes, polite conversation. "

This!

Hold this thought...next time you go to a social.

Her: you and that new bloke over there got on like a house on fire. I almost felt left out!

Him: Diddums! Not jealous are you?

Her: Me? Never. Nice arse/eyes/smile/sense of humour though.

What happens next, is up to you.

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By *andy and DannyCouple over a year ago

Barnstaple

"Who can help me get the ball rolling "
Satan might help ,but you have to suck his willy

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By *andy and DannyCouple over a year ago

Barnstaple

"Who can help me get the ball rolling Satan might help ,but you have to suck his willy

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or get to a club but nothing is guaranteed in this lifestyle.

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By *lexV16Man over a year ago

Welling

I am going to a club end of Oct. Can give you a lift

Nothing is guaranteed at a club but high chance to get at least social verification

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

Social events and club visits

If you can't find a social near you

Why not try organising one

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

I'd say to anyone planning a first visit to club, single or couple, go to a local social first. That way you are bound to know someone when you get to the club.

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By *iner69erMan over a year ago

inverness

"Who can help me get the ball rolling "
Be prepared to maybe go years with no success.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Who can help me get the ball rolling "

OP..you need to do this yourself.

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By *r blue eyes123Man over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Tried most things that people have suggested but still no luck , Much prefer a private social chat and see what happens than a club I’m a mature widowed guy that enjoys mature older people would luv a naked social with a few like minded friends if there’s anyone in that area that’s interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only you can do that.

If you're having no luck on a 1:1 basis then a club or group social would help.

People meet unverified guys (I did Friday) but you have to have a good opening message and a good profile.

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