Given that you’re verified by meeting, that’s a lot more than many achieve.
Just exercise a little patience and accept that you can’t appeal to everyone. Women get inundated with messages as soon as they set up their profiles so getting yourself noticed is a bit of a lottery. |
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over a year ago
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Get used to it. Many messages are not even read let alone replied to which considering the levels of complaints from women on here getting abuse or aggressive messages from men is not surprising but a tad frustrating for the decent well mannered chaps who have small egos and big esteem. Keep plugging and don't worry. |
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"Get used to it. Many messages are not even read let alone replied to which considering the levels of complaints from women on here getting abuse or aggressive messages from men is not surprising but a tad frustrating for the decent well mannered chaps who have small egos and big esteem.
Keep plugging and don't worry."
Most people read your profile first when you send messages. If your profile doesn't grab their attention your message is not getting read. |
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over a year ago
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Tbh it comes across like you thought you’d join the site and find instant sex.
Rarely happens.
You’re one of thousands on here.
Maybe start with your profile and pics. |
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"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"
You and thousands of others. Sounds like your attached which will put most women off. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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Without an example of a message you've sent, how can we offer any advice on getting replies? The recipient might not even be getting as far as looking at your profile for all we know.
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Must be the algorithms... Lol
Certainly tinder is fixed, they delay or delete matches and messages from you to encourage you to pay for gold or boost or some shit. It is absolutely loaded with fake profiles, instawanabe models 'influencers', absolutely stunning girls, all of which have boyfriends taking the pictures with zero intention of any chat with you, but encourage you to 'follow' them on some other app for money or ad revenue etc etc .. but zero chat or engagement.. modern life #fakeasfxck
Makes folk like me cynical as fxck
Lol .. but what do you expect ... |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
Your photos are not appealing in the slightest.
You say you’re looking for “fun” so many women (me included) find that little word a turnoff.
Like a previous poster said, it seemed like you’re looking for instant sex on here and it is not that easy…. |
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over a year ago
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"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"
Because your a single guy.  |
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"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"
It's your choice, but if you feel up to it, I'd personally show your face on the normal pics.
Maybe try it for a few days and see how you feel |
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