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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just looking for advice on meeting trans women really, I’d like to chat and get to know, find it hard to strike up convo, I’m a much better at chatting in person kinda guy! |
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Transvestites and crossdressers meet up to dress and socialise together. So plenty of places I could suggest where you could meet them.
However Trans Women are just trying to live their lives, so the majority will be in the usual bars or clubs the general public will attend.
So your best bet is to go to dating sites or one or two Trans clubs as occasionally you’ll find transgender people attending.  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"Just looking for advice on meeting trans women really, I’d like to chat and get to know, find it hard to strike up convo, I’m a much better at chatting in person kinda guy! "
If you take out the word "trans" from your question, would you still need to ask it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looking for advice on meeting trans women really, I’d like to chat and get to know, find it hard to strike up convo, I’m a much better at chatting in person kinda guy! "
Trans women are women
Be normal |
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"Don’t treat them as a novelty or fetish, understand they face a lot of bigotry in society and a lot of men who see them as an object not a real person and don’t be pushy or rude. "
Absolutely this, I’ve met some of the bravest members of our community simply by chatting and asking their story.
I’m not suggesting everyone’s had the same experience, I’m a bi guy so what do I know, but every single Trans individual I’ve ever met has the most profound story of his/her bravery, fear, isolation and struggle to be where they are and who they are. Ask about the journey and listen  |
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"Just looking for advice on meeting trans women really, I’d like to chat and get to know, find it hard to strike up convo, I’m a much better at chatting in person kinda guy! "
If your city or near by head a gay village just go there and meet then there. Is start I do at Manchester plus going to pride and trans pride effects and/or similar effects are good.
What's wing with fetishising... Look at fab, meet white women fetishise us black men and you don't see is complain. You like what you like bro. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t treat them as a novelty or fetish, understand they face a lot of bigotry in society and a lot of men who see them as an object not a real person and don’t be pushy or rude.
Absolutely this, I’ve met some of the bravest members of our community simply by chatting and asking their story.
I’m not suggesting everyone’s had the same experience, I’m a bi guy so what do I know, but every single Trans individual I’ve ever met has the most profound story of his/her bravery, fear, isolation and struggle to be where they are and who they are. Ask about the journey and listen "
^^^this guy gets it^^^
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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Just looking for advice on meeting trans women really, I’d like to chat and get to know, find it hard to strike up convo, I’m a much better at chatting in person kinda guy! "
First and foremost is treat us like you would any other women, the worst thing you can do is treat us differently.
Secondly make contact with them, get mailing, tell them what you’re into, find out what they’re into, ask them if they’ll meet you.
It’s fairly straightforward. |
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