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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your only looking for women...... Since a lot of the women on here are looking for couples or other women your very limited.... Plus your joining the other 1500+ men looking for women, good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your use of lower case i for I and referring to yourself as cat food several iams don't help 
Seriously your profile is not that good, go and read several single guy profiles and learn the best bit's, then start your again.
As for the warning "No Timewasters" seriously? in three weeks you have enough problem with them to make a negative comment on a profile that is supposed to be positive and selling your personality.
Clubs and socials are the way into this world,you have to be out there to get noticed, but as a backup a great profile never hurt anyone's chances. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"i have been on this site for few weeks nows and seems like no one wants to meet me or talk why what am i doing wrong or am i just ugly lol"
Leaving your looks to one side, theres someone for everyone on here..
Only you can figure put what you re doing wrong, you need to find the bit that makes you stand out , once you ve found that you ll still find things tough, you re not going to be every ones cup of tea,..
Your profile is nt great, if yoou look in the advice forum there will be many threads giving suggestions and tips, .. look at yours and if you were a lady would it stand out amongst many..???
My three rules ( the three h's) for single guys...
Humour
Honesty
Hung like a horse*
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*The last one is nt important.. 
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"i have been on this site for few weeks nows and seems like no one wants to meet me or talk why what am i doing wrong or am i just ugly lol"
3 weeks... is that all...
here is a phrase for you...
"rome wasn't built in a day"..... 
if you are looking for instashag... it doesn't tend to happen here....
as much as it is about the end product, it can be a lot about building up a social network and that can take Time and patience.... |
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"Your only looking for women...... Since a lot of the women on here are looking for couples or other women your very limited.... Plus your joining the other 1500+ men looking for women, good luck"
1500+!!!
that's just in Canning Town!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry OP, but 3 weeks on here without a meet is nothing!
You need to learn the 3 "P"s; patience, patience, patience.
You might have thought or been told differently, but there are few women around here lying back with their legs open, just waiting for you to call!
Sorry, but life can be a bitch at times, can't it?  |
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3 weeks is nothing!
More pics, better profile, more patience.
Months could pass before you get a meet. Like the others say just because your here doesn't mean your guaranteed to get meets at all let alone straight away !! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
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My three rules ( the three h's) for single guys...
Humour
Honesty
Hung like a horse*
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*The last one is nt important..
errm... that's 4 H's "
Feck,.. i should have said donkey...
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"i have been on this site for few weeks nows and seems like no one wants to meet me or talk why what am i doing wrong or am i just ugly lol"
Trouble is, you've put this post up. It will impress even less people than your profile alone. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"i have been on this site for few weeks nows and seems like no one wants to meet me or talk why what am i doing wrong or am i just ugly lol"
Righto, let's get down to a few basics here.
Firstly, as outlined by others, this is not an Instant-Fix Sex site; the ladies are not waiting drooling at the prospect of lads like you cropping up to meet their needs. If you thought otherwise, you are mistaken.
Secondly, you're competing against so many other guys, so it is a case of "selling" yourself so that your Profile stands out. At the moment is is one very long sentence, with an occasional full stop.
You have to expand your Profile. Use separate sentences, and use a capital I where necessary.
Get into the Forums and get to clubs or socials. It is a case of being "NOTICED" so that your personality shows through and people accept you for what you are.
You've only been on here 3 weeks; you are a mere beginner. It takes time, and a hell of a lot of patience.
It takes Patience! It does get better!
Good Luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here 3 weeks and not had a shag?! My god what is the world coming to  Not instag, profile poor, too young, 18-99 means shag anything and desperate, seriously would you shag a 99 yr old? You need patience, picture is nice, not a bad looking lad but you need to sell yourself and you are not really doing that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The really funny thing is that the origional poster of this thread hasn't added anything or commented.....I think you have answered your own question....
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By *yggeCouple
over a year ago
South Yorkshire |
Your profile reads like you feel you are doing the women a favour! We look for single men and the ones who take a bit of time to introduce themselves and connect with our profile stand out from the other 100 whose message is just 'crap'! |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"The really funny thing is that the origional poster of this thread hasn't added anything or commented.....I think you have answered your own question....
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Well said that man!
He's probably sitting somewhere sulking, that no-one of the female persuasion has contacted him as a result of his pleading!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The really funny thing is that the origional poster of this thread hasn't added anything or commented.....I think you have answered your own question....
Well said that man!
He's probably sitting somewhere sulking, that no-one of the female persuasion has contacted him as a result of his pleading! "
This does seem to crop up on a extremely regular basis doesn't it?
It's a shame but if people just put alittle effort into the messages and profiles I'm sure they'd get a better response  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The really funny thing is that the origional poster of this thread hasn't added anything or commented.....I think you have answered your own question....
Well said that man!
He's probably sitting somewhere sulking, that no-one of the female persuasion has contacted him as a result of his pleading!
This does seem to crop up on a extremely regular basis doesn't it?
It's a shame but if people just put alittle effort into the messages and profiles I'm sure they'd get a better response "
Exactly....if you put the effort in you will reap the rewards, I love this site I have met some realy great people who are now very regular friends....however we must remember that there are no strangers here....only friends that we haven't met yet...hehehehe
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The really funny thing is that the origional poster of this thread hasn't added anything or commented.....I think you have answered your own question....
Well said that man!
He's probably sitting somewhere sulking, that no-one of the female persuasion has contacted him as a result of his pleading!
This does seem to crop up on a extremely regular basis doesn't it?
It's a shame but if people just put alittle effort into the messages and profiles I'm sure they'd get a better response
Exactly....if you put the effort in you will reap the rewards, I love this site I have met some realy great people who are now very regular friends....however we must remember that there are no strangers here....only friends that we haven't met yet...hehehehe
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I will let you off that really bad saying as its xmas but if you start using "pro active " and glass is half full remarks I'm outta here |
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By *andCCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
We both think that the "No time wasters" comment on a profile is too confrontational ...so we'd pass you by even if you were in our age range.
The "Dont mind older women and i dont mind any race of women" comments sound condescending ...as if you'd just be making do with an older women, if there was nothing younger/better on offer. I have a thing for, or I quite like older women, would be a much more positive way of selling yourself. Lastly, we're not too hung-up on spelling and punctuation, but yours could definitely be improved upon ...to your advantage, I suspect. |
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Here we go again
This is NOT and never will be an instant brothel full of loose, will shag anything, anytime people
Your profile, quite frankly is Shite, with a capital S
You are one of millions of identical men on here
try plenty of fish if you want frequent dates |
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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago
Northwood |
gently gently catchy monkey
I think lots of people expect to use the site like a take away menu i.e. feeling hungry, pick up the phone and your order is with you in ten minutes .... it just doesn't work that way .. have patience .. lay your groundwork, have fun and enjoy the banter, and good things will happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You only have one pic and your profile doesn't grab my attention.
I also dislike the "iam", it's very lazy.
Delete the wording, start again, add a few more pictures, wait a few months and you MAY get lucky. |
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