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over a year ago
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Hey guys. Myself and fb are looking to expand and explore. We are both quite shy about coming forward with new ideas, and she says she has no fantasies!!!!!!. Anyway we both love sex and just want to take things to the next level. Any advice greatly recivied  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think she has done all her fantasies or she is too shy to say what they are incase you want to try them with her?.If shes just a bit shy then have a good talk to her when you are in bed together.Good luck  |
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"We are thinking of getting a suction dildo to kinda introduce the spitroast thing  "
Nah, get a guy in. He'll do as he's told otherwise no return meet and there are so many on here who would want to meet even if it's to watch and wank in the corner. Hey you might even get a sub whose into humiliation then just get him to do all your housework then boot him out.  |
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"We are thinking of getting a suction dildo to kinda introduce the spitroast thing
Nah, get a guy in. He'll do as he's told otherwise no return meet and there are so many on here who would want to meet even if it's to watch and wank in the corner. Hey you might even get a sub whose into humiliation then just get him to do all your housework then boot him out. "
I feel you may be on to something here I have a spot of cleaning wants doing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"has she genuinely no fantasies? If it's a case of her being too shy to say them out loud get her to write them down or even e mail them to you, it's much easier when you're not looking at someone."
Thats what she says I have tried many times to talk about fantasies and the most I can get out of her is may be she would like to be watched. Im not a pushy lad so I just leave it, then try talking about it again weeks later.
I like the cleaning idea lol |
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"You could advertise for someone who likes sucking then when they turn up give him the Hoover."
I'd say Freddie Mercury, but he's still hoovering the big living room in the sky
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You could advertise for someone who likes sucking then when they turn up give him the Hoover.
I'd say Freddie Mercury, but he's still hoovering the big living room in the sky
Wolf
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over a year ago
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"has she genuinely no fantasies? If it's a case of her being too shy to say them out loud get her to write them down or even e mail them to you, it's much easier when you're not looking at someone."
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talking about fantasies is hard...
try bringing it up when the lights are all out, it's quiet and ask her to imagine a scenerio she'd like to explore, or lay down the foundations for a scene and let her take the story on. Text or email, line after line to build the excitment and keep the pressure off.
I've found it easiest, in the past; to say stuff, when Im laid in bed, in the dark and no one can see (me blush), I dont mean I lie in bed talking outloud  but I just found it easier to talk/whisper/say things in a relaxed situation, especially something I thought might have a reaction/ cause an argument or be taken badly.
My usual response to 'what are youre fantasies'?? 'Im good ta' |
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Maybe agree to write a kinky short story each, just for a bit of fun, but featuring fictitious characters.
People's innermost fantasies tend to come to the fore when they're writing about 'someone else'.
But do remember, people don't necessarily want to act out all their fantasies - and there are definitely some fantasies that should never be brought into the realms of reality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"talking about fantasies is hard...
try bringing it up when the lights are all out, it's quiet and ask her to imagine a scenerio she'd like to explore, or lay down the foundations for a scene and let her take the story on. Text or email, line after line to build the excitment and keep the pressure off.
I've found it easiest, in the past; to say stuff, when Im laid in bed, in the dark and no one can see (me blush), I dont mean I lie in bed talking outloud but I just found it easier to talk/whisper/say things in a relaxed situation, especially something I thought might have a reaction/ cause an argument or be taken badly.
My usual response to 'what are youre fantasies'?? 'Im good ta' "
Thank you very much for the advice and help |
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"Maybe agree to write a kinky short story each, just for a bit of fun, but featuring fictitious characters.
People's innermost fantasies tend to come to the fore when they're writing about 'someone else'.
But do remember, people don't necessarily want to act out all their fantasies - and there are definitely some fantasies that should never be brought into the realms of reality."
Writing a story sounds like fun, cheers |
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