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By *wesomeLola OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough and Buckinghamshire |
Has anyone "accidentally" ended up playing with friends who weren't previously swingers?
Happened to us at the weekend and we're still buzzing about it. There was alcohol involved and a hot tub, and somehow we were all naked and getting frisky. Turns out that our very good friends had sort of but not quite suggested to each other the possibility of trying out the scene and suspected that we were swingers.
No regrets for any of us so far but obviously we know that we have to be careful not to damage our good friendship. Bit late to worry about that now though.
Next step will be to go to a club with them. |
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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Yes! Alcohol fuelled, something we laugh about and talk about when we’re together. So no awkwardness on any part. It somehow keeps happening, we have all previously agreed to no full swaps though, so we do have some boundaries with them! They aren’t swingers and have no interest in the lifestyle. They know about us and have done from the start. |
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By *wesomeLola OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough and Buckinghamshire |
"we have all previously agreed to no full swaps though, so we do have some boundaries with them! They aren’t swingers and have no interest in the lifestyle."
That's quite interesting. But your profile says you don't want to full swap anyway - so it's not just with them.
Also interesting that they're not swingers but it keeps happening. 
We didn't full swap on this occasion but I strongly suspect that we will next time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be something in the water in Cambridgeshire.
We'd had some friends vanilla life who would be flirty and we then found them on here but they'd always been to shy to arrange any meets so we took them for their first club and they watched us with another couple while they played with each other and we have a plan to all play soon.
Another couple we know hosted at theirs for drinks and were being very suggestive and rather inappropriate but we didn't make a move "just in case". Currently they're trying to get us over theirs again for another evening of "drinks" when their kids are away... |
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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"we have all previously agreed to no full swaps though, so we do have some boundaries with them! They aren’t swingers and have no interest in the lifestyle.
That's quite interesting. But your profile says you don't want to full swap anyway - so it's not just with them.
Also interesting that they're not swingers but it keeps happening.
We didn't full swap on this occasion but I strongly suspect that we will next time.
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No I (Mrs) don’t want to go all the way with another man (just yet anyways!) it was after the first time we had messed around it was brought up by the men that there would be no penetration of each other’s wives…
Yes it is interesting, we joke that it’s now a bit of an unwritten rule between us all…they know we’re on here and have known from the beginning. We have suggested they join but they’ve said naughty fun with us is their limit…again who knows what will happen in the future for them!
I will just add that it doesn’t happen every time we see them but quite often so we can be normal friends still too!
As long as you’re all happy, communicating and enjoying yourselves then go for it!
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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Must be something in the water in Cambridgeshire.
We'd had some friends vanilla life who would be flirty and we then found them on here but they'd always been to shy to arrange any meets so we took them for their first club and they watched us with another couple while they played with each other and we have a plan to all play soon.
Another couple we know hosted at theirs for drinks and were being very suggestive and rather inappropriate but we didn't make a move "just in case". Currently they're trying to get us over theirs again for another evening of "drinks" when their kids are away... "
I agree there must be something in the water in these parts! A lot of our friends have always assumed we’re swingers so we must give off a vibe or something!!
Sounds like they have more than drinks on their mind…  |
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By *wesomeLola OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough and Buckinghamshire |
"Must be something in the water in Cambridgeshire."
As it happens we weren't in Cambridgeshire. The hot tub is at Rosie's place in Hertfordshire.
We would not have made a move if my friend had not been making suggestive comments. I think we were all surprised about the way this developed. Our friends are not on Fab. Yet! |
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By *wesomeLola OP Couple
over a year ago
Peterborough and Buckinghamshire |
"Oh wow. Sounds hot! How did it start? X"
Well I suppose if you're asking I'll have to tell. It's pretty hot reliving it anyway. I mean, we've met couples before but they've always initially been strangers who are meeting with the expectation or hope of playing.
First of all I should say that these friends are pretty good friends. We have known them for many years and been away on trips with them etc. We had no idea...
My friend started it off by asking Rosie what she would be wearing in the hot tub if they weren't there. So of course everyone's swimwear got removed. And this revealed that my friend and his wife both had some rather interesting piercings in interesting places. Again - we didn't know this about them. With a few drinks already inside us all it seemed pretty obvious that these warranted further physical investigation, and from then on seems like a bit of a blur. Unexpected but everyone was happy with the way it turned out. I think that previously my friend's wife was a bit reluctant to explore, but this evening seems to have persuaded her pretty well! Everyone is keen to meet again ASAP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree there must be something in the water in these parts! A lot of our friends have always assumed we’re swingers so we must give off a vibe or something!!
Sounds like they have more than drinks on their mind… "
We certainly hope so as they are very cute! |
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