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over a year ago
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Why do some people put so little into having a relationship,yet expect everything to be fantastic, encourage your bi side to come out and meet other same sex people, to only having sex in silence and in a routine way which makes it as cold and boring as possible.
Best sex is away from home but never discussed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationship sex and 'no strings' sex are two completely seperate things.
They both have their + and - points.
I can see a place for both.
If you can have both (consentually), you are 'lucky' beyond belief.
I can also see why a lack of sex in a relationship would lead a person to have 'no strings' sex outside of a relationship too.
Seeing it and justifying it is where the moral debate normally starts however. |
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Our best sex is together....while we love to ply, soft swing, with others and to explore bi ladies we would rather play as a couple than need to invite someone for sake of it.... they, like us have to have something to offer. Love &Lust a difficult combination to find, but it will continue and grow with trust, honesty and communication. Nothing worse than being lonely within a relationship, it dulls your soul...life really is to short to settle for second best. As the saying goes, it takes two to tango!!!
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