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What you do if a guy isn't what he has said? For example lies about cock size
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By *hy4BBC OP Woman
over a year ago
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So if you're looking for an unusually big cock and a guy turns up and it's disappointing what can you do?
I've actually seen people on here use another person's dick picture and they will say anything to get you yo meet. Some will say they have a massive cock when they don't, send fake or when flattering pics. A small cock can look big from the wrong angle. Some guys don't care if they are misleading and just want a meet
Ita my fetishism dn preference for an extremely big cock black so I think it's not fair for the liars, fakes and deluded guys to turn up. But |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crikey!
You’ve invited a stranger from Fab into your home and your biggest worry is his cock size?
Fair play to you and your kink, love what you love but I’d be more worried about the size of the knife he might be carrying. |
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By *hy4BBC OP Woman
over a year ago
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This guy sent me some private messages. He has a small cock humiliation fetish. I’m not here to get you off for free with this fetish so why messages me lol. Waste my time? Not many women into this. I’ve made it clear my frown is for black men with I usually big cocks. Simple.
"So if you're looking for an unusually big cock and a guy turns up and it's disappointing what can you do?
I've actually seen people on here use another person's dick picture and they will say anything to get you yo meet. Some will say they have a massive cock when they don't, send fake or when flattering pics. A small cock can look big from the wrong angle. Some guys don't care if they are misleading and just want a meet
Ita my fetishism dn preference for an extremely big cock black so I think it's not fair for the liars, fakes and deluded guys to turn up. But
Well report him and get him banned since he's below the 9 inch minimum threshold for being successful on fab  "
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Next time maybe ask your meet to stick his cock through your letter box so you can check it over before letting him in. "
Now that's a great idea!
Letter box above, Cat Flap below and a Glory Hole in the middle... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you're looking for an unusually big cock and a guy turns up and it's disappointing what can you do?
I've actually seen people on here use another person's dick picture and they will say anything to get you yo meet. Some will say they have a massive cock when they don't, send fake or when flattering pics. A small cock can look big from the wrong angle. Some guys don't care if they are misleading and just want a meet
Ita my fetishism dn preference for an extremely big cock black so I think it's not fair for the liars, fakes and deluded guys to turn up. But "
I think all Women should do face time Or some Sort of cam for safety, besides seeieif there real you can gauge energy better than through messages |
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By *hy4BBC OP Woman
over a year ago
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Yes I have decided to do a video call always. But then they hold the camera close so can't tell cocksize lol. It's sad but some guys are ao desperate for a meet they will be fake. Also get annoyed with me because I'm looking for something very specific. |
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I've had the same and told them to leave and touchwood not had any issues
Maybe meeting at a club next time would be safer, or go to a dress down club so you can see for yourself what's on offer or as others have suggested a video call |
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"Yes I have decided to do a video call always. But then they hold the camera close so can't tell cocksize lol. It's sad but some guys are ao desperate for a meet they will be fake. Also get annoyed with me because I'm looking for something very specific."
Arseholes is the category that I would put them under. In my years of being on fab I don’t think that these issues will ever go away but what can improve is your own judgement and how you filter these people personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I have decided to do a video call always. But then they hold the camera close so can't tell cocksize lol. It's sad but some guys are ao desperate for a meet they will be fake. Also get annoyed with me because I'm looking for something very specific."
Can't fake big cock bbes, even up. Close you should be able To tell.next time Do not accept close ups.  |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Also get annoyed with me because I'm looking for something very specific."
Guys with impressive cocks tend to have verifications that gush about the size of their mighty meaty manhood...
Hung guys who know how to fuck, and are nice guys tend to get regular invites from me. So they become fuck buds. These friendships need to be lovingly cultivated. |
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By *hy4BBC OP Woman
over a year ago
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The last guy I met (not on verification and blocked because we didn't end up having fun so won't se this anyway) had a big cock. But was not happy i had my vibrating wand out and use it to warm up and ar the start of sex. He basically wanted to fuck ne doggy style and that's it. Ao we didn't end up doing it. Weird think i prefer to get excited before fucking. Also my profile does say about what I like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The last guy I met (not on verification and blocked because we didn't end up having fun so won't se this anyway) had a big cock. But was not happy i had my vibrating wand out and use it to warm up and ar the start of sex. He basically wanted to fuck ne doggy style and that's it. Ao we didn't end up doing it. Weird think i prefer to get excited before fucking. Also my profile does say about what I like"
People you have blocked can still see your forum posts ...so he will see this if he uses the forum. |
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Regardless of what you put on your profile, people will always try their luck.
Some clubs offer black magic, black mans fan club nights. They may be worth a try.
Sadly some people will lie to try and get what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you're looking for an unusually big cock and a guy turns up and it's disappointing what can you do?
I've actually seen people on here use another person's dick picture and they will say anything to get you yo meet. Some will say they have a massive cock when they don't, send fake or when flattering pics. A small cock can look big from the wrong angle. Some guys don't care if they are misleading and just want a meet
Ita my fetishism dn preference for an extremely big cock black so I think it's not fair for the liars, fakes and deluded guys to turn up. But "
I think people miss-selling should be punished, he should be held down and made to lick your clit until you cum, then suck and lick your clit as your fucked by a proper big cock(not me I'm a 7 .5 and not that girthy, not in your league)and then kept there after ejaculation until gratuity gives him his just desserts. |
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By *hy4BBC OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Last time that happened the guy refused to go and I had to call the police. Told fab who didn't do anything about it.
What did they Police say when they arrived."
They didn’t come I was on the phone with them and I think that scared him into leaving. Before that he was just sitting there refusing to go so weird. So I just said it doesn’t matter he’s gone . |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Last time that happened the guy refused to go and I had to call the police. Told fab who didn't do anything about it.
What did they Police say when they arrived.
They didn’t come I was on the phone with them and I think that scared him into leaving. Before that he was just sitting there refusing to go so weird. So I just said it doesn’t matter he’s gone ."
I had similar, said there were no taxis home (I assumed he was driving himself) and he would stay the night.
He wouldn't leave but as soon as I dialed the number he was gone.
I never worry about guys bringing knifes in though (another post) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your home should be like a secret, prohibition club. You need a password to get in. In your case, a big, swinging, dick. If they ain't got the password...."
LOVE this. Really love it! |
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"Last time that happened the guy refused to go and I had to call the police. Told fab who didn't do anything about it.
What did they Police say when they arrived.
They didn’t come I was on the phone with them and I think that scared him into leaving. Before that he was just sitting there refusing to go so weird. So I just said it doesn’t matter he’s gone ."
Glad it turned out well for you.
I had a vision of you at the front door saying to the Police.
Officer, Officer, arrest this man immediately and charge him for being in breach of The Tiny Cock Act of 1997, as amended.
Sorry Madam, have you been on the sherry again?
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"Yes I have decided to do a video call always. But then they hold the camera close so can't tell cocksize lol. It's sad but some guys are ao desperate for a meet they will be fake. Also get annoyed with me because I'm looking for something very specific."
Seems not only the guys desperate for a meet. With the wonders of technology check it our before inviting and avoid your disappointment. Some people stretch the truth to get a fuck. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"So if you're looking for an unusually big cock and a guy turns up and it's disappointing what can you do?
I've actually seen people on here use another person's dick picture and they will say anything to get you yo meet. Some will say they have a massive cock when they don't, send fake or when flattering pics. A small cock can look big from the wrong angle. Some guys don't care if they are misleading and just want a meet
Ita my fetishism dn preference for an extremely big cock black so I think it's not fair for the liars, fakes and deluded guys to turn up. But I think people miss-selling should be punished, he should be held down and made to lick your clit until you cum, then suck and lick your clit as your fucked by a proper big cock(not me I'm a 7 .5 and not that girthy, not in your league)and then kept there after ejaculation until gratuity gives him his just desserts."
I've b got a super huge 16inch cock and it's really girthy too. Pick me pick me   |
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"Yes I have decided to do a video call always. But then they hold the camera close so can't tell cocksize lol. It's sad but some guys are ao desperate for a meet they will be fake. Also get annoyed with me because I'm looking for something very specific."
Yes that happened to me too and then to meet them with half of the size they claim is massive disappointment as I came on fab specifically to find a big cock! Not to be conned lol |
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"So if you're looking for an unusually big cock and a guy turns up and it's disappointing what can you do?
I've actually seen people on here use another person's dick picture and they will say anything to get you yo meet. Some will say they have a massive cock when they don't, send fake or when flattering pics. A small cock can look big from the wrong angle. Some guys don't care if they are misleading and just want a meet
Ita my fetishism dn preference for an extremely big cock black so I think it's not fair for the liars, fakes and deluded guys to turn up. But "
If they lied you would have every right to ask them to leave.
At a guess, I think they hope once they are there they will hoe you ignore the fact they lied. They hope you will still go ahead with the meet. |
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"Last time that happened the guy refused to go and I had to call the police. Told fab who didn't do anything about it."
From now on I would ask for live video proof of cock size via something like Skype.
I would also make the first meet a social in a very public place like a coffee shop, pub, cafe, etc. |
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"Why even lie about anything like that - it’s not like it’s gonna remain a secret for long…. Oh wait it’s not what I wanted, your here now so might as well carry on…. 
Baffling "
That is what the guy was hoping. I know I lied about my cock size but I am here now so let's get on with it.
A lot of fake couples' profiles do it. There is no wife/girlfriend. The single guy who created the profile hopes if a meet is arranged he can say the wife has fallen ill, the wife's mother is ill and she is looking after her, the wife has been called into to work, etc. He hopes the meet will still go ahead without the wife/girlfriend who doesn't exist.
Well done OP for not going through with the meet. Well done for calling the police. The police won't care that you met on a swingers website. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One thing I never lie about is my cock size...nothing wrong with 8" so why lie and always send a picture which I never lie about either cause in respect the only person your lying too is yourself guys so man up and be honest your making all guys look bad. |
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