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New Single male (hetro…Iknow yuck) Looking for advice from men and women on this
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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
Hey guys how’s things I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to break into the swinging world on fab specifically in Ireland. I find that being a guy looking for a woman/ social events/swing events is always kinda just ignored (Iknow cry me a river and all that) but i really enjoy this site and was wondering if anyone could help |
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"Hey guys how’s things I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to break into the swinging world on fab specifically in Ireland. I find that being a guy looking for a woman/ social events/swing events is always kinda just ignored (Iknow cry me a river and all that) but i really enjoy this site and was wondering if anyone could help "
I think you will find people suggest you go to a club x |
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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
Iknow right..but I genuinely don’t even know where when or what clubs there are in Dublin or Ireland and fuck me it’s hard to find on this, maybe I just need a pair of glasses because I ain’t having much luck lol, thanks you so much for the response |
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"Remember that your profile is the first place to sell yourself!
Noted maybe I need to shake up my profile description a bit a improve it thanks so much "
There is no maybe about it. Your profile is terrible. There are many threads about how to write a good profile. Read and learn. |
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Hello OP,
As a couple that only meet single men of your age we would ignore any message you sent us. The reason? it's taken you three months to photo verify yourself, you only have one pic, your profile is bland and uninteresting, and it comes across that you really don't care who you have sex with you just want the sex, not the person.
How you use the site is up to you, but you should be aware that it's a cut throat site and people will dismiss any approach you make for very simple reasons and the main one is because a persons profile is poorly written or doesn't appeal.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes minutes to add photos and write something on a bio and yet it’s been 3 days since you asked for advice and nothing has changed apart from your status update. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll just get torn to bits by the edgey retorts of the fabswingers elite on here mate. As long as your profile is true to you and respectful and genuine, leave it at that. Some people who have been on this site for decades profiles are awful, pages of ranty dos and dont's.... |
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"Hey guys how’s things I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to break into the swinging world on fab specifically in Ireland. I find that being a guy looking for a woman/ social events/swing events is always kinda just ignored (Iknow cry me a river and all that) but i really enjoy this site and was wondering if anyone could help "
I would alter your second line and first paragraph to read;
“My name is Luke, a 25 year old single guy living in Dublin, returning to Fab after a little break.”
Then tab on;
“Also very interested in attending a group social event” after the sentence about kinks and fantasies.
It’s your profile ultimately, but I think that would read better. Good luck fella |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
also remember you are one of many who are looking for the so few in comparison men outnumber women and couples by a large number .. it's a case of there is not someone one for everyone on this scene |
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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
You’ve hardly given any help or advice just criticism of my lack of change to my profile, as I said I’m working on it and if the fact that it’s not as quick or efficient for you there’s a big oul block button if you didn’t know, great way to make a toxic environment for a person looking for advice …keep it |
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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"You'll just get torn to bits by the edgey retorts of the fabswingers elite on here mate. As long as your profile is true to you and respectful and genuine, leave it at that. Some people who have been on this site for decades profiles are awful, pages of ranty dos and dont's.... "
Sorry mate I replied but posted to the form |
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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"No need for a salty comment I’m only after updating my page.. thanks have a good day
And yet you have taken not one piece of the offered advice. "
You’ve hardly given any help or advice just criticism of my lack of change to my profile, as I said I’m working on it and if the fact that it’s not as quick or efficient for you there’s a big oul block button if you didn’t know, great way to make a toxic environment for a person looking for advice …keep it |
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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"also remember you are one of many who are looking for the so few in comparison men outnumber women and couples by a large number .. it's a case of there is not someone one for everyone on this scene"
Thanks for the reply ! Definitely agree |
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