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What is wrong with my profile?

By *avernake OP Man over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I've noticed a fair number of couples and single ladies viewing my profile, but they never seem to follow it up with any contact.

I'm just looking for some fun with ordinary people. I'm not expecting to meet super models.

I believe there must be something wrong with my profile. There has to be a reason why people are looking but not feeling the urge to get in touch.

Can anybody give me any pointers? What makes a good profile?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't see too much wrong dude to be honest...plus you have had meets?

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"I've noticed a fair number of couples and single ladies viewing my profile, but they never seem to follow it up with any contact.

I'm just looking for some fun with ordinary people. I'm not expecting to meet super models.

I believe there must be something wrong with my profile. There has to be a reason why people are looking but not feeling the urge to get in touch.

Can anybody give me any pointers? What makes a good profile?

Any advice would be very much appreciated."
seems ok mate bt u will have to be patient its not easy and if uv had meets u should think ur lucky

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

seems alright to me, do you conatct people yourself or wait for them to contact you?

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By *avernake OP Man over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Hi,

I contact people all the time. I try to make my messages friendly and personal - no copy and paste jobs.

But more often than not they look at my profile and never respond. Makes me think there is something there that's scaring them off!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Women in Wiltshire must be fussy hens then cos I'd meet you in a flash. However I can't realy travel 250 miles to do so, sorry.

Maybe join in on the forums a bit, and look at any clubs/socials in your area. Good luck and just keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alot of " false profiles " but, mor 2 the point. Avery lot of " false verifications " FACT.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP is perhaps too local for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I am out of his age range!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

His loss then, you're lovely xx! k

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've noticed a fair number of couples and single ladies viewing my profile, but they never seem to follow it up with any get in touch.

This happens all the time, don't read anything into it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"His loss then, you're lovely xx! k"

Awww, thanks.

To be fair, I am not searchable, and had not been actively looking to meet anyone new for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fair enough then! by the way, just how old is that tree in the forest?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"And I am out of his age range!

Balls, as of next year so am I. There goes another one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well I'm gonna say...

the pics are a bit boring to be honest...uve been in mmf/gangbangs/into DP

perhaps its time u expressed that ON ur profile...much like I do...of course...u can end up attracting people who play differently than others(ie not interested in coffee meets,long prolonged chatter)..but heyho..I dont give a fuck...relish the time!

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My only thought is that you specifically mention DP and watersports. Now a pet hate of mine is when people try and cover all bases but the flipside of being specific is that it will potentially put people off too.

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By *coobyroo218Couple over a year ago

Guernsey

Could be that you just do not appeal to the people looking.

Good on you for having facial pics on your profile, so people may look but just not fancy you.

The only real confusing bit is it says you are bi Curious but in your profile you say you are straight but very comfortable around other naked men?? which is it????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The profile seems fine to me. If you were local I would definitely consider a meet. Good luck.

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By *avernake OP Man over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"My only thought is that you specifically mention DP and watersports. Now a pet hate of mine is when people try and cover all bases but the flipside of being specific is that it will potentially put people off too."

Yes I know what you mean, its difficult to strike the right balance.

I wouldn't want people to think these are the only things I'm looking for, just something I really enjoy if the opportunity arises.

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By *ndy pandy and looby looCouple over a year ago

YORK/LEEDS/HARROGATE/EAST COAST/NORTH WALES

Profile is fine...you are away ahead of zillions of single guys on here...you have meets/verifications, good mix of pics/photos. We veto anyone not 100% straight, not socially but on play side...just my mans preference to be totally at ease. Single women are a very sparse, so odds on that working out is more luck/timing/geography! Couples, clue in title are just that with busy lives entwined together, often kids, divorced so every other weekend a "no" as his her kids to stay, family to care for, both working...sometimes one or both shifts, a lot have second jobs these days, people fit round work, holidays, car in for service, her period, his man flu....gosh Im surprised any of us ever meet!!!!

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