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Breaking up with my gf, want to swing
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here |
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Not sure how this is stories or fantasies (I suppose the girlfriend could be make believe) but presuming she's real, talk to her ask her if swinging or having a threesome has every appealed, have you discussed fantasies etc
Ask her if there's a guy at the gym she'd like to join you both in bed
Honestly questions like this baffle me as swinging as a couple requires so much trust and communication yet people don't even seem able to have that initial conversation to know if it's even a fantasy of their partners |
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I don't think swinging is right for you if you're already having issues in your relationship.
You do need to be pretty secure with your partner I think to involve others.
You already think she's cheating & I'm not sure if she knows you're on here. |
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I have always looked upon swinging as an extension of our relationship, not something that is discrete from it; something that we both want.
When now meeting couples if I feel that there is any pressure on either party I back off. |
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"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "
Would you like to watch her with one of them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ask but to be fair if u Splitting up u got to have a real Strong bond as there is always beautiful people come along that one of u could end up with as u find with this site its fun play no hassle if you get it right hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "
If you're seriously asking that question you do not understand swinging....or relationships!
My best advice would be work to repair the relationship or leave. Do not bring swinging into it, it has no place there right now.
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "
Doesn't sound like a great start to a swinging relationship. Lots of good advice on here. Take it. |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
northumberland/scotland |
Mate, me and my ex gave it a go at the end of our relationship. Never gonna work. You need a level of trust and respect that you two clearly don't have.
Welcome to the vast ocean of single men on here. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
It can be whatever you both want it to be. There’s no rule book. I had a few fun nights with my ex husband as we were getting divorced.
We had fun. No desire to save or rekindle our relationship, just had fun sex for a bit. It’s how he met his partner that he lives with now. We all met at a club. I was delighted for him 
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"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "
If your relationship is breaking down, what makes you think swinging will fix that? It will most likely do the complete opposite, but as others have said, why is it OK for you to be fucking about..assuming that's what your on here for..but its not ok for her? |
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Maybe best to try and keep her. Don't forget, your chances on here of getting somebody are microscopic ,the same as in real life, so if your having regular fun with her and then you break up,it could be years before the next one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask her you were curious about adding another person / watching her/ or open, and see the response. Nobody can tell you what to do, only you know what is right |
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No surprise your relationship has broken down when you've been on here behind her back.
Trying to use her for you own satisfactory gain is a bit if a dick move to be honest.
Just bin it off and move on. |
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"So your relationship is breaking down and you’re ‘pretty sure’ she is cheating on you and fucking meatheads from the gym..walk away would be my advice "
But the OP has been on this site for over a year! |
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