 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Go to a club or two and chat, be friendly and respectful. Don’t go with the expectation that you’re guaranteed a play - if you do, then that’s a bonus. "
Thank you!
Need to find a club quite local that’s the next thing!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
Write a decent profile is the very first thing.
What makes a decent profile?"
Lots of advice on that subject can be found in the forums just by putting a little bit of effort in.
Oh, and read profiles. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
Write a decent profile is the very first thing.
What makes a decent profile?"
Some information about what you offer. Why would someone choose to meet you rather than other gents of a similar age.
Maybe alter your age range. If you are happy to get together with people from teenager to a lady in the 90s you are desperate or too lazy to change the numbers.
Put effort into your profile. There are hundreds of posts giving advise; so do a forum search . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
Write a decent profile is the very first thing.
What makes a decent profile?"
More than 16 words I would suggest.
In all seriousness, have a look across the forums and you'll find advice regarding profiles that you can apply to your own. It's not easy for a single male on here, but the best thing you can do is put some effort into it and not expect everyone else to do it for you.
Good luck...., oh and read profiles |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Only message people if you genuinely think you are what they are looking for
I’ll take that on board
But you ignored it earlier didn't you??"
What happened earlier?
KJ  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Only message people if you genuinely think you are what they are looking for
I’ll take that on board
But you ignored it earlier didn't you??
What happened earlier?
KJ "
I didn’t read all their profile, sent a wink and then when they were sending aggressive messages after I had apologised
Don’t think they liked the wink and went a tad over board with the reaction |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
Write a decent profile is the very first thing.
What makes a decent profile?
More than 16 words I would suggest.
In all seriousness, have a look across the forums and you'll find advice regarding profiles that you can apply to your own. It's not easy for a single male on here, but the best thing you can do is put some effort into it and not expect everyone else to do it for you.
Good luck...., oh and read profiles "
Thank you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
Read all the other threads like this already posted on the forums  "
Thank you
Yeah I now know that’s a thing aha
Sorry |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?"
I see you've hidden your profile now. Hope all this has not put you off. You asked for advice and it was given in good faith. Good luck. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
I see you've hidden your profile now. Hope all this has not put you off. You asked for advice and it was given in good faith. Good luck."
Was more the likes of this John and Julie profile
Really puts you off |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What advice would people give to a solo male starting out?
I see you've hidden your profile now. Hope all this has not put you off. You asked for advice and it was given in good faith. Good luck.
Was more the likes of this John and Julie profile
Really puts you off "
It was your rude behaviour chap.
Simple. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
Read profiles. Only message if you actually meet their requirements. Bashing out the same copy and paste message won’t get you anywhere
Don’t get upset if your message is deleted without a reply. Nothing worse than deleting a message then the begging and demanding message comes along.
When messaging, try show a little bit of respect.
We get a lot of stuff that just says “can I throw my hat in the ring”, which is a sure fire way to the block list. Consider your words carefully.
Some like winks, some don’t so if you’ve read the profile and it says winks are deleted, don’t wink
All in all it’s really simple and common sense stuff, but if you had to see a couples inbox, or worse the amount of messages a single woman receives then you’d likely get a perspective of how it is and why people are fairly ruthless with deletes and blocks like we are  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Read profiles. Only message if you actually meet their requirements. Bashing out the same copy and paste message won’t get you anywhere
Don’t get upset if your message is deleted without a reply. Nothing worse than deleting a message then the begging and demanding message comes along.
When messaging, try show a little bit of respect.
We get a lot of stuff that just says “can I throw my hat in the ring”, which is a sure fire way to the block list. Consider your words carefully.
Some like winks, some don’t so if you’ve read the profile and it says winks are deleted, don’t wink
All in all it’s really simple and common sense stuff, but if you had to see a couples inbox, or worse the amount of messages a single woman receives then you’d likely get a perspective of how it is and why people are fairly ruthless with deletes and blocks like we are "
Well said.
Thank you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
