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over a year ago
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We are planning a visit tonight and just wondered if we could hear from a few people who have been to clubs in terms of how people interact.
Obviously quite nervous as we have only ever met individual couples at a pub after messaging and chatting...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat it as a normal night out at the pub or wherever,smile and say hello to people,be polite and respectful,same as you would in any other social setting really.Also don't be afraid to say "No thanks" when required.Go with no expectations and you'll have a blast |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You will be surprised at how normal it all feels - honestly!
We were so nervous the first time we went to a club but within the first 30 mins it was fine.
Socialising with likeminded people is great.
Don’t go with expectations and you won’t be disappointed.
Do discuss boundaries and what’s acceptable to you both if you are going to play.
Have a great time!
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"We are planning a visit tonight and just wondered if we could hear from a few people who have been to clubs in terms of how people interact.
Obviously quite nervous as we have only ever met individual couples at a pub after messaging and chatting... "
Just treat it like any other night out
No expectations
Smile, be friendly and interact with others if you can
Clubs can be intimidating and we’ve been in situations where we have gone and just kept ourselves to ourselves, still manage to have a good night though
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Go with the mindset that you'll have a great time together no matter what... go with the flow, don't feel pressured and you'll have a great time. Anything else is a bonus but only if you both fancy it.
Most importantly, be safe and have fun x |
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