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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. Got an issue! I'm an established member of Fab & been very lucky to meet some fantastic people along the way.
Met a 'newbbie' couple three months back, socially & was happy to verify them to help them get started on Fab.
But... things have gone sour for various reasons. I have asked them, politely, if they would please remove my verification, but they have point blank refused to do so.
I don't wan't to go down the 'block' route, but it's a very real option on the table.
Basically , what's the best way to resolve this situation & should there be an option, if you have written a verification, you have the right to remove it to?!
Thoughts please! Would love to hear from the administrators on the issue to!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As far as I am aware, there are 2 ways to remove a verification once it has been given out: for the giver to leave the site completely or to block the receiver of the verification.
I guess the former is not an option.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a right to remove it,you block the profile and it will go,if there was one left for you that goes too which is only fair
If it comes to the stage where you feel that you really don't want your name associated with a profile then you won't mind blocking them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If things have gone sour why is the 'block' not an option?
After all, it sounds like you'd not want to meet with them again anyway."
I thought that - it all seems a bit melodramatic with the not wanting to block |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I hate blocking.. really feels like a last resort. Also, I'm pretty sure, as my postcode area is quite small, I'll bump into them again... already dreading that... blocking them would add to the 'akwardness'...
I guess my point is this, as 'Pearl Necklace' has spotted, there's only two options available to remove a verification... & they are both a bit drastic! LOL
Also, in the past, I have written a veri & after sending it, read it back, & not been entirely happy with it.. but not been able to re-write or amend.
Should there be an option, like when you write a club review or post on a forum, to be able remove and/or rewrite it?
Thanks for the contributions so far by the way, food for thought!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if it has gone sour any ways seeing them again is going to be awk i think the best idea is to just block that way its over and done with and she will probs be expecting a block any way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if it has gone sour any ways seeing them again is going to be awk i think the best idea is to just block that way its over and done with and she will probs be expecting a block any way "
Agree of things are sour enough that you want to remove your veri then it's going to be awkward anyway. If you have asked them to remove the veri already as you say you did then they must know your not happy with them for whatever reason so like op said probably won't be shocked at block. |
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
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"Blocking someone does not have to be permanent. You can block then unblock. The veris go, they are not permanently blocked but the disputed/discussed words are no longer there.
Job done."
It doesn't work like this. If you unblock the verification shows again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What on earth's the big deal re blocking somebody???
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We agree, whats the big deal just block and move on its hardly life threating, seems to us your making a drama out of nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, I'm pretty sure, as my postcode area is quite small, I'll bump into them again... already dreading that... blocking them would add to the 'akwardness'...
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Main reason why I am not too keen to meet anyone local.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Although it was done with a heavy heart & a shaky hand... the block button was deployed I'm afraid! What's the betting I'll bump into them in the next week or sooo.... LOL |
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If you bump into them just deny all knowledge and tell them its a glitch on your profile. lol. Dont worry about it too much. I don understand what you mean about bumping into people, its a fear of mine too, but its a worry that will probably never happen.
Enjoy and stay safe |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Although it was done with a heavy heart & a shaky hand... the block button was deployed I'm afraid! What's the betting I'll bump into them in the next week or sooo.... LOL"
Run away. |
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