Hey everyone
So we've started our journey in the fab world and we're enjoying it so far talking with other like minded singles and couples.
One thing we'd love to check off the bucket list is going to a club.
However, we're new and pretty nervous so we're not sure what to expect.
Does anyone have any advice for newbies?
Also, what would you say is the best club for first timers?  |
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Just go along, relax and have no expectations of sex...just get to know people and be comfortable with the environment and see what happens. Choose a wet club if you like spa type facilities and dressing down or if you prefer more of a night club feel then just dress in anything that makes you feel sexy. Most important of all just enjoy yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single man and keen try swinging club but not getting any luck when applying for membership seems on want couples or single women. Do all clubs need to be member or any you just turn up? |
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Hi. My wife and I are also in South Wales and also got into this a short while back.
Out first club was Chams in Newport. This is only our opinion, but for couples we were not impressed. On the weekend we went my wife was one of only two women there, but I'm sure that's not the norm and others will say they had a different experience.
But we did then travel to Chams near Birmingham and had a great time. Loads of lovely people and a great atmosphere.
We took it fairly easy our first time and my wife had a lovely time with just one man who was also there with his wife. They were very chilled.
We're still enjoying our visits when we have the time. |
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On our first visit, about a year ago, we went to our nearest club which was a good introduction as it's not too big but very chic and cosy.
After that we've also been to Chameleons and Xtasia (both in West Midlands). The are two fantastic clubs. One is sauna based (dress down; towels, sexy underwear, boxers) the other is night club based (dress up; optionally as sexy as you dare). Generally Friday night allows single men and Saturday is couples and single ladies.
So decide which you think you'd prefer. Either way there is no pressure to play and as always No means NO!
We find it's a great night out and look forward to when we can go. Enjoy! |
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Townhouse for sure for best club for newbies.
All ticketed so you get all the details and support before hand and know exactly what type of event your going too. Everyone’s really helpful and plenty of staff around to help.
Enjoy yourself, it’s meant to be fun. Go with no expectations just to have a good night yourselves and be nosey to what’s going on. There’s never a stupid question so ask staff if your unsure of any rules.
Personally feel people are generally much more polite and friendly than vanilla nights out  xx |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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The first time is always one of nerves with ot knowing what to expect.
The main thing to remember is that everyone there has the same mindset and it is simply a more liberated version of your usual pubs/clubs.
Every club is different and can vary from a dark and seedy atmosphere to an upmarket classy club.
We have been to Liberty Elite at Lutterworth, Chameleons at Birmingham, Vanilla Alternative near Huntingdon and Exclusively Silks in Rhoduish. Our firm favourite is Liberty Elite as it is just the right size in terms of space, not too big and not too small. It is a classy, upmarket and friendly atmosphere and they have some great events on. As a bonus they have a number of hotel rooms available at a very reasonable rates, so you even fo an overnight stay on site. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
There's nothing to be nervous about. It's probably not how you imagine it in your head. Check the club section on here has reviews on the clubs also links to the various websites. Check it see if your comfortable with the rules, dress code, price, the look etc turn up and enjoy your selfs. |
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"Hey everyone
So we've started our journey in the fab world and we're enjoying it so far talking with other like minded singles and couples.
One thing we'd love to check off the bucket list is going to a club.
However, we're new and pretty nervous so we're not sure what to expect.
Does anyone have any advice for newbies?
Also, what would you say is the best club for first timers? "
Think about what you are looking for
Clubs tend to have certain nights for certain things
So if you want a single guy go to a mixed night
If you only want couples then look more for those
If you are interested in saunas and jacuzzi ti have a relaxing time then make sure you pick a club with a wet area
Decide between you before you go if you want to play together only, with others
Do you want locked rooms or open where more people can be in close proximity
Having an idea beforehand takes some panic out of it
Go in expecting nothing more than a relax and chat (like a pub) anything extra is a bonus and at least you can play together
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By *obel42Couple
over a year ago
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Think about what you are looking for
Clubs tend to have certain nights for certain things
So if you want a single guy go to a mixed night
If you only want couples then look more for those
If you are interested in saunas and jacuzzi ti have a relaxing time then make sure you pick a club with a wet area
Decide between you before you go if you want to play together only, with others
Do you want locked rooms or open where more people can be in close proximity
Having an idea beforehand takes some panic out of it
Go in expecting nothing more than a relax and chat (like a pub) anything extra is a bonus and at least you can play together
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This is absolutely spot on advice especially the last paragraph 
That’s exactly what we do!! |
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