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Cuckolding and StagVixen - asking for a friend
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By *ogloom OP Man
over a year ago
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Sorry for the long first post but there is a scene setting afoot.
So, I have a friend who is in an interesting potential situation with a couple with a hot wife and currently it is just fantasy, but he's come to me for advice and is treating me as some sort of expert.... which I am not. OK I might have had some experiences and have been here a while but still there is much to learn.
Of course I can tell him to just set up a profile here or go on a search engine but however clever these search engines are I am sure they still haven't understood women or men for that matter either. Also telling them to sod off would be cutting myself out of the loop of potential future possibilities and well he needs support as a friend 
So the situation he is in is one of a potential bull with a couple but he isn't sure if that is the dynamic (cuckolding) or role-playing they want. Or whether it is more stag vixen...
I've made it very clear to him he needs to find out and have laid out all the rules before even considering it and if there are to be potential role-playing involved as well to discuss this fully with me first so I can give some pointers as well as the hot wifing couple 
Then it dawned on me that with cuckolding the three parties have names. Cuck, Cuckoldress and the Bull but in a Stag Vixen situation what is the spare wheel called? A bull can't be the right term at all because they are not, appreciate any help on that?
Any thoughts on how I can help in supporting him and any people that have had experience with this situation?
Thanks
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By *ogloom OP Man
over a year ago
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Well simply there is a label for everything else so thought there must be one for the stag vixen and "lucky". Feel like they should be called the hound or something to match up with the Hunt. Or the rabbit/ hare!
I suppose the label helps to set the boundaries.
Post box - sets certain expectations. Red with a slot in for post. Get collected once maybe twice a day if you are lucky.
Cuckold starts to set boundaries and expectations. Not the most clear title as some cucks are bdsm or cage lovers etc and some wouldn't touch any of that but it will help him ask the right sorts of questions. |
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Sounds like he/you are making this far too complicated. Forget the labels. He needs to just talk to them a bit about what they want (and probably only a bit not every detail) and play it by ear. Saying we still don’t get stag and vixen plus one. Sounds like just a normal threesome. We are not big on labels. |
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over a year ago
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As mentioned before, all parties need to be in the conversation to explain what they are seeking out of the experience, boundaries they are happy to push, limits, do's and dont's, a safe word. |
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They’re still called the bull usually. The labels sometimes are confusing, but see them as a starting point cos everyone is different. Some couples may not want the bull to perform a particular sex act with the lady. Some may have an anything goes Sex wise attitude. It’s vital you work out all the limits before you start. |
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Sometimes labelling people confuses what they actually want.
Cucks can carry out a range of duties from preparing the bull I.e. sucking the bulls cock to make him hard, guiding the bull into his wife, being in a position to lick the bull's balls whilst he fucks the hotwife, cleaning up both the bull and the hotwife after the bull has cum. Some cucks watch their wives with bulls, some cucks just live to be at home whilst the bull take the hotwife out on a date.
Ultimately the cuck is there to provide love and support whilst the hotwife fulfills her fantasies and sexual needs. |
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