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By *inches of fun OP   Man  over a year ago

bolton

As a bi don man I am interested to find out more about the scene of cuck males and there wife’s .

Q1 ) what are the usual desire drivers of the male half ?

Q2) what are the pleasures and desires of the fem half of cuck couples ?

Thanks in advance

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By *oogooMan  over a year ago

vauxhall

Hi, I am not as experienced as most hardcore couples over here also here is my personal opinion.

1) what are the usual desire drivers of the male half ?

it is always down to complex psychology and what ened up in every person's head.

When I was 18yo I got hard on after a girl (pen friend) I never physically met, told me she had sex with random guy during weekend.

I was jealiuos and extremely horny.

So the fact that particular pussy is used by another male, imagining it. Visualizing their pre sex interaction etc.

Also I was getting kink out of knowing my gf at the time was (we were in process of splitting) going on tinder dates.

Also another gf was sucking off her boss at work on regular basis. She told me after she found out i am ok with it and it makes me horny.

The only cuck session I had, i was already fully bi cock sucker.

She was my long term FWB + good friend. He was young good looking guy from internet. 22-24yo. Awesome big cock. she was 30yo and me around 36 at the time.

When we agreed to meet for MMF, we drove to his block fo flats. He went to meet us outside. I asked her to make out with him when he comes. They passionatly kissed and felt each other, while i watched (tick). Then they were holding hands as couple while walking (tick). We started making out somewhere on stairs. They were kissing each other, he was feeling her breast while i was unbelting his trousers and started sucking it (they both are up, me down - super tick), She joined me sucking him (tick).

Few minutes later we went to his place. They were standing in front of each other and making out. I was benind. I was undrressing her, she was undressing him while he was playing with her boobs (they get all action - tick).

We sucked him again together, Sharing duties, I was on balls, she was on cock and another way around (tick).

we moved to the bed. she on her back. i licked her a bit to make her ready for his cock (tick), but she was super wet already.

he entered and started fucking her. completly ignoring me (tick).

Since it was not planned cuck session, just mmf, I tried to face fuck her, but was too excited and was scared to cum, so i stayed in shadow near by, ocasionnaly kissing her boobs or feeling his bum and pushing it deeper in her while he was pounding her (assisting bull - tick).

When they were changing position, i was trying quickly to suck him for few seconds (tick), then while she was on top, i was licking his balls (tick).

I tried to kiss her while she was riding him, she rejected (rejection - tick).

They changed position and he was fucking her from side. They kinda slow down and cock went off. I was on to suck it. Apparently he came somewhere outside. I tasted his cum wihout knowing it (tick).

After he done with her, I wanted to fuck her and unload, she rejected due to being too sore. (tick).

2)what are the pleasures and desires of the fem half of cuck couples ?

It is different from couple to couple. generally pleasure for female is to have action with another good looking, more powerfull and bigger cock. She can play along with Bull and do other stuff to humiliate cuck (if they are into it).

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By *ellhungvweMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham

My experience as the guy asked to join a couple is that the hubbies _REALLY_ enjoy watching their wife have sex with some one else.

I always thought that it was a humiliation/inferiority thing (and for some it might be) but the overwhelming number of hubbies just tell me that they find it a real turn on. The hubbies of couples I meet are always decent guys and you would happily go down the pub with them (and I have).

The wives, as far as they tell me, just enjoy good and varied sex. They have needs and don’t want the hang ups of having to explain to other people so a site like this is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi, I am not as experienced as most hardcore couples over here also here is my personal opinion.

1) what are the usual desire drivers of the male half ?

it is always down to complex psychology and what ened up in every person's head.

When I was 18yo I got hard on after a girl (pen friend) I never physically met, told me she had sex with random guy during weekend.

I was jealiuos and extremely horny.

So the fact that particular pussy is used by another male, imagining it. Visualizing their pre sex interaction etc.

Also I was getting kink out of knowing my gf at the time was (we were in process of splitting) going on tinder dates.

Also another gf was sucking off her boss at work on regular basis. She told me after she found out i am ok with it and it makes me horny.

The only cuck session I had, i was already fully bi cock sucker.

She was my long term FWB + good friend. He was young good looking guy from internet. 22-24yo. Awesome big cock. she was 30yo and me around 36 at the time.

When we agreed to meet for MMF, we drove to his block fo flats. He went to meet us outside. I asked her to make out with him when he comes. They passionatly kissed and felt each other, while i watched (tick). Then they were holding hands as couple while walking (tick). We started making out somewhere on stairs. They were kissing each other, he was feeling her breast while i was unbelting his trousers and started sucking it (they both are up, me down - super tick), She joined me sucking him (tick).

Few minutes later we went to his place. They were standing in front of each other and making out. I was benind. I was undrressing her, she was undressing him while he was playing with her boobs (they get all action - tick).

We sucked him again together, Sharing duties, I was on balls, she was on cock and another way around (tick).

we moved to the bed. she on her back. i licked her a bit to make her ready for his cock (tick), but she was super wet already.

he entered and started fucking her. completly ignoring me (tick).

Since it was not planned cuck session, just mmf, I tried to face fuck her, but was too excited and was scared to cum, so i stayed in shadow near by, ocasionnaly kissing her boobs or feeling his bum and pushing it deeper in her while he was pounding her (assisting bull - tick).

When they were changing position, i was trying quickly to suck him for few seconds (tick), then while she was on top, i was licking his balls (tick).

I tried to kiss her while she was riding him, she rejected (rejection - tick).

They changed position and he was fucking her from side. They kinda slow down and cock went off. I was on to suck it. Apparently he came somewhere outside. I tasted his cum wihout knowing it (tick).

After he done with her, I wanted to fuck her and unload, she rejected due to being too sore. (tick).

2)what are the pleasures and desires of the fem half of cuck couples ?

It is different from couple to couple. generally pleasure for female is to have action with another good looking, more powerfull and bigger cock. She can play along with Bull and do other stuff to humiliate cuck (if they are into it).

"

a fwb couple is not a cuckold couple you simply are just a sub guy ...a cuck is in a loving relationship he has to be to get the cuck feelings single guys cannot be cucks even in a fb or fwb ...sorry but that not cuckold not in a million years ....

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By *oogooMan  over a year ago

vauxhall

Yes, i probably would agree with that. That was not 100 cuckold experience, that is why I have explained our relationship in details.

Also I belive I have provided quality answers to question asked, which was whole point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, i probably would agree with that. That was not 100 cuckold experience, that is why I have explained our relationship in details.

Also I belive I have provided quality answers to question asked, which was whole point."

as a sub male you answered the questions not as a vuck in a cuckold relationship its abit like a man explaining what a lesbian is because hes having oral sex with a woman ...90% of cuck things are in the mind it stems from that other person being your wife /longterm girlfriend the feeling you have for her the whishes you have for her the puting her first all the time the closeness after the meet and the next few days the closeness of her being honest to you about how much she enjoyed her fun these are things you cannot get with being a single guy... again sorry but you not got anywhere near what a cuck feels you just ran thru the motions of the sexual side from a sub guy point of view ....

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By *r.SunshineMan  over a year ago

London

Thanks for the reply. I think this bit is important:

90% of cuck things are in the mind it stems from that other person being your wife /longterm girlfriend the feeling you have for her the whishes you have for her the puting her first all the time the closeness after the meet and the next few days the closeness of her being honest to you about how much she enjoyed her fun

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By *esparate danMan  over a year ago

glasgow

Its still almost exclusively initiated by the man so its essentially fulfilling his desires more than hers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Its still almost exclusively initiated by the man so its essentially fulfilling his desires more than hers "

how little you really know then ...we know lots of cuckold couples and not one has been initiated by man its all been the strong women wanting more ..

youve come up with that answer because of the amount of wannabe single guys who want to be a cuck or worse think they are a cuck ...

women are not the weak little ladys you think they are ...an answer from this female led cuckold couple

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By *urrey Dave 69Man  over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

One thing I’ve learned from being on the swinging scene for a long time is that a strict definition of any sexual preference will only describe a small proportion of the people who actually identify as being that way inclined. The human mind is complex and variations of the sexual activities are infinite so the vast majority of people are actually a hybrid of many things.

Swinging is all about sexual freedom and as such I don’t believe anyone should define or adjust their behaviour based on some text book definition of a subject. Cuck, Dom, Sub, Gay, Straight, Bisexual, T-Girl Etc Etc may all have a strict definition by some of the practitioners but that shouldn’t stop anyone incorporating elements into their own sex life without worrying what label describes them.

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By *omRachCouple  over a year ago

Wirral


"My experience as the guy asked to join a couple is that the hubbies _REALLY_ enjoy watching their wife have sex with some one else.

I always thought that it was a humiliation/inferiority thing (and for some it might be) but the overwhelming number of hubbies just tell me that they find it a real turn on. The hubbies of couples I meet are always decent guys and you would happily go down the pub with them (and I have).

The wives, as far as they tell me, just enjoy good and varied sex. They have needs and don’t want the hang ups of having to explain to other people so a site like this is perfect."

This (from Mr)

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By *ickedwillyCouple  over a year ago

Bangor

. It’s a very interesting subject and can be a lot of fun.

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By *inches of fun OP   Man 5 weeks ago

bolton

Some great answers thanks but it would seem there isn’t a real right or wrong.

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By *cotshusb7777Man 5 weeks ago

Bellshill

I think it's mostly about the man's pleasure , but it could improve a couples sexlife, even if they just use it as role play in bed, or if the lady flirts with other guys when she is out with her friends and tells her husband about it. Fantasy is mostly always hot

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By *oxy jWoman 4 weeks ago

taunton somerset


"I think it's mostly about the man's pleasure , but it could improve a couples sexlife, even if they just use it as role play in bed, or if the lady flirts with other guys when she is out with her friends and tells her husband about it. Fantasy is mostly always hot"

i agree with what youve just said but only with those who roleplay/fantasy cuckold,

where i dont agree is those of us who live the lifestyle we cuckold the cuck for reasons real reasons

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By *ee And MikeCouple 4 weeks ago

Cannock


"I think it's mostly about the man's pleasure , but it could improve a couples sexlife, even if they just use it as role play in bed, or if the lady flirts with other guys when she is out with her friends and tells her husband about it. Fantasy is mostly always hot

i agree with what youve just said but only with those who roleplay/fantasy cuckold,

where i dont agree is those of us who live the lifestyle we cuckold the cuck for reasons real reasons "

As a cuckold couple that have lived the lifestyle for pretty much all our marriage we’d agree with that statement !

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By *aveJones76Man 4 weeks ago

Rotherham

Not sure about point 2,but for point 1 the desire for me is that I know I've never really satisfied my wife with my cock, so I'd love to see that look on her face when she finally cums from one. I also get hugely turned on by humiliation, so watching her been fucked like I never could, and potentially losing the chance to ever fuck her again, would be such a turn on for me.

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By *oiluvfunMan 4 weeks ago

Penrith


"I think it's mostly about the man's pleasure , but it could improve a couples sexlife, even if they just use it as role play in bed, or if the lady flirts with other guys when she is out with her friends and tells her husband about it. Fantasy is mostly always hot"

I’ve been seeing the wife of a cuckold couple for over 8 years now, and theirs is definitely a female-led relationship, where the cuck’s humiliation of his wife getting her sexual satisfaction from another man (me) is the main aim….

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By *ayd100Man 4 weeks ago

clitheroe


"I think it's mostly about the man's pleasure , but it could improve a couples sexlife, even if they just use it as role play in bed, or if the lady flirts with other guys when she is out with her friends and tells her husband about it. Fantasy is mostly always hot

I’ve been seeing the wife of a cuckold couple for over 8 years now, and theirs is definitely a female-led relationship, where the cuck’s humiliation of his wife getting her sexual satisfaction from another man (me) is the main aim…. "

Agree with that.

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By *esparate danMan 4 weeks ago

glasgow


"I think it's mostly about the man's pleasure , but it could improve a couples sexlife, even if they just use it as role play in bed, or if the lady flirts with other guys when she is out with her friends and tells her husband about it. Fantasy is mostly always hot

i agree with what youve just said but only with those who roleplay/fantasy cuckold,

where i dont agree is those of us who live the lifestyle we cuckold the cuck for reasons real reasons "

What real reasons

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