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over a year ago
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You’re married and she doesn’t know. Will put some off
You say you’re not bothered if you get meets!! So for me I’d be like then I can’t be bothered either
Try some line breaks and punctuation, the little that’s there is a hard read |
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"You’re married and she doesn’t know. Will put some off
You say you’re not bothered if you get meets!! So for me I’d be like then I can’t be bothered either
Try some line breaks and punctuation, the little that’s there is a hard read "
Thanx |
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"Your lower age range will put people off.
Honestly it's the fact you're married that puts a lot of people off.
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Thought I had set lower age thanx for pointing it out and yes I agree being married may not help but must be honest on here |
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All your profile tells me is that you're a married HGV driver - It doesn't give me anything to build a conversation on. What do you like? What can you offer? Why should I want to talk to you.
Also your photos are really uninspired - all mirror selfies standing in the same stiff position. Use the timer on your camera to take some more interesting pics. In the only pic that isn't a mirror selfie you look bloody miserable - Have you considered smiling? |
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"All your profile tells me is that you're a married HGV driver - It doesn't give me anything to build a conversation on. What do you like? What can you offer? Why should I want to talk to you.
Also your photos are really uninspired - all mirror selfies standing in the same stiff position. Use the timer on your camera to take some more interesting pics. In the only pic that isn't a mirror selfie you look bloody miserable - Have you considered smiling?"
Thanx will have a go at sorting it |
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"I updated it but still no meets?"
Profiles don't really get you meets as a single man. They just hopefully allow a conversation to start but even then odds are against. You are doing the right thing going to socials. That is a far better way to get to know people and when we've run socials amazingly relatively few single men seem to attend. Mostly all talk (or busy with wives on Saturday evenings  ) |
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"Your lower age range will put people off.
Honestly it's the fact you're married that puts a lot of people off.
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Agree totally.
The ladies and couples have the pick of the crop, so anything else gets lost. |
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over a year ago
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"Whats being straight but liking the rocky horror show got to do with it, im confused
Had a few blokes message saying am I a cross dresser because I like it"
And do you really care what a random on the internet thinks about you watching a movie? |
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"Whats being straight but liking the rocky horror show got to do with it, im confused
Had a few blokes message saying am I a cross dresser because I like it
And do you really care what a random on the internet thinks about you watching a movie?"
That is true but it’s the stage show |
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"Nobody is interested in getting involved in you dirt.
Never asked for your horrible remarks
But let's be fair now.
It is the truth isn't it?
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May we’ll be but name calling happened at school grow up |
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"Nobody is interested in getting involved in you dirt.
Never asked for your horrible remarks
But let's be fair now.
It is the truth isn't it?
May we’ll be but name calling happened at school grow up"
Didn't cheating happen at school as well?? |
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"You’re married and she doesn’t know. Will put some off
You say you’re not bothered if you get meets!! So for me I’d be like then I can’t be bothered either
Try some line breaks and punctuation, the little that’s there is a hard read "
Punctuation is important indeed. |
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You need a different approach.
Messaging - Messaging is a very small part of the FAB and swinging culture. So is the meets section...
The FAB guidance states no reply - not interested - move on.
"Improve your presence improves your chances"
Offline - attend organised socials, events and clubs. Network. Be seen by others swingers
Online - be active in forums, chat discussions. Have a good profile with good images. Network. Be seen by other swingers.
If you network with active swingers and are accepted into their social groups. You can be invited to more intimate private gatherings.
Do the work. Reap the rewards..
Your welcome.
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You need to realise people are here for their own pleasures. It's not about giving you a chance.
It doesn't matter what your profile states if there is no attraction or you can't at least strike up some sort of conversation.
Being married puts the majority of people off as they don't want embroiled in drama if your other half finds out.
Lastly there are just some people on here who will never get a meet. When all the odds are stacked against you then you have to decide if this is the right place for you. Or whether another site will suit your needs better |
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"Your profile says you are both 50 and 51.
Personally I wouldn't mention being Billy no mates"
Yea it says that because I set my birthday to different month but same year so can’t be used on scams |
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"OP why have you asked for help to then not take any of it onboard and to then just defend your profile / attitude? "
I have taken stuff on board have altered my details only defended it to them that always just send abuse |
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"OP why have you asked for help to then not take any of it onboard and to then just defend your profile / attitude?
I have taken stuff on board have altered my details only defended it to them that always just send abuse "
Can't see any abuse on this thread. |
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"OP why have you asked for help to then not take any of it onboard and to then just defend your profile / attitude?
I have taken stuff on board have altered my details only defended it to them that always just send abuse
Can't see any abuse on this thread."
Not on this one no but others |
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Take a look at your profile and ask yourself if it is likely to catch anybodys interest? We guys number in our thousands on here so we need to stand out ..TBH your pics really do nothing to tempt anybody. Suggest you maybe check out some profiles of guys who have been verified from meets .. look at the types of pics AND content of profile. Good luck! |
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