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Being d*unk
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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L will have a glass of wine or two. I don't drink at all on meets. Tend to only drink water at clubs too as to much soft drink makes me feel rough.
Had one d*unk meet (not us) and it ruined it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was invited to join a couple at a hotel awhile back.
When we were messaging each other on here before the meet they said they had been "Let down by timewasters". They told me that the other couple had showed at the meet (in hotel bar) but left after just one drink.
So, I made my way to the hotel expecting some sexy fun and when I got there they were both (M/F) pissed out of their heads. So I made my excuses and left their room.
No wonder the other couple did the same.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on the situation imo.if both partys have a few drinks id say it helps.i personaly would rather meet over a few beers but if the lady didnt drink i wouldnt either.roaring d*unks no good to anyone but nicely merry makes for fun.again imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else feel like a few drinks helps when meeting
if you need a drink to meet people then no...
and being d*unk isn't sexy either......
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 I agree |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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Have never needed a drink to do anything in front of other people, and to be honest I've always felt sorry for those who have needed to get tanked to ask a girl out, get up on the dance floor, shag someone at a meet and so on...
I can understand some might want a loosener and that might be okay, just from what I've seen one leads to another and another and they end up so they need help to stand - I just can't play with people that d*unk. There could be all manner of false accusations levied of non-consent. A drink in moderation might be an asset but if not it's a liability.
Wolf
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Emm here - a drink or two helps me chill over some of the issues I have regarding body confidence BUT I would never, ever drink enough to render me d*unk. I've seen too many people in that state and it's not attractive or sexy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wud hav a lil drinky wen we meet... We don't drink at any other time! It wud just b 1 r 2... I find it just relaxes me a lil cos I'm always excited-nervous  |
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This is a situation where you should be sure of yourself and your partner before you proceed to play. If you need to falsify your agenda/personality with the dubious benefit of alcohol then maybe you should change your hobby. We don't drink when playing, not least of all acid wine or beer breath as the evening goes on and that clearly eyed look does no one any favours! We have seen in clubs as people get silly, childish and purile...nothing sexy about people doing playground pranks and simply being crude and down right stupid. Sex is a grown ups game, for people with respect for themselves and others to make the time as enjoyable as it can be for all the players. Also we would hate to have a great night and either we, or worse the people we had pleasured couldn't remember how marvellous we were!!!! Whats the point. |
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"and i wonder how many of the above posters will admit to waking up in the morning and thinking - what exactly happened last night !!!!  "
If that has never happened to somebody they have never lived lol. Surely everybody who drinks as at least once if not many times woke up and thought what happened last night? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No aside from the fact that I drive to meets, I don't find it particularly attractive when a guy has to drink a lot at a social meet; once met a guy who drank the equivalent of 2 bottles of red wine and another occasion where a couple had already d*unk a bottle of wine before I arrived and proceeded to drink 3 more during the meal, god knows what they would have been like had we taken things further  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have had a few drinks on meets and we always drink at clubs but then at clubs its just ourselves we play with and on meets noone is d*unk and everyone has a good time if someone didn't drink we wouldn't either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ditto on the security thing I always drive so never take a drink and don't really drink much ever tbh, if I've met someone a few times and I'm staying overnight I don't mind a drink but that's where trust comes into play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My confidence is shot when it comes to my body, being on steriods has made me put on weight and it dosn't matter how many times i am told it's ok i just don't agree. That's why i have I tend to have a couple of glasses of wine. But over the last 6 months that i have been on here my nerves have got better and the drink has got less and less. I agree with what is said about being d*unk, some friends of ours have had people fall asleep on them. That's not good at all. I am off to my first club on New Years Eve and i am as nervous as hell all ready, just hope i can do it with my rescue remedy and not the drink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never drink, either when on a meet or at a club.
2 reasons,
1 I need to keep my wits about me
2 I drive
I wouldnt play with someone who had been drinking either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never drink, either when on a meet or at a club.
2 reasons,
1 I need to keep my wits about me
2 I drive
I wouldn't play with someone who had been drinking either."
Don't blame you. I don't drink on meets (never did as a single guy either) for both of the above reasons plus... why would you not want to be able to remember all the little details the next day and not be able to walk around with a big grin on your face???? Beats me....
Crackling Perky and I were talking to one couple a few months ago (who we didn't meet in the end) the fem of whom couldn't even TEXT us without, it seemed, at least a bottle of red inside her!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry mate but booze and swinging don't go.
I light social drink great but I've seen a few "tanked" men (mostly) and the odd couple and it's not a good look for a meet.
You wouldn't go to meet a new girlfriends parent or a job interview cross eye'd and in my opinion it's the same here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From our point of view drinking and anything sexual is likely to lead to something very bad.
We will not swing with people who have had more than is reasonable drink wise....
Swinging/Fetish etc is an adults game requiring common sense and mutual agreements we feel that alcohol or other would impair such judgement so we would decline.
Regards
M and J |
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